Ok, I have this serious crush on this girl we are both 16, we are already friends and I see her a few times a week but I don`t go to school with her.
Last weekend we went to a concert with some friends and all I wanted to do was kiss her, and thats saying something for me.
Whenever she is around me I feel like she is trying to tell me she likes me. Stopping right infront of me and throwing her hair around she often offers me chances to do things with her.
She is always smiling at me and touched my arm in a "friendly" way about a week ago. Sounds obvious right?
But I am not the only guy there is another guy that she plays in a band with, an old BF that moved faraway [they still talk] the point is I can`t be sure if she likes me as much as I like her and I`m scared to death to try to find out. I don`t want to mess up our friendship but is she this friendly with everyone or should I chase her just a little. And let me say this I haven`t ever felt this way before. It`s killing
2007-11-05 04:15:06 · 9 answers · asked by Taylor 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I appreciate your answers, its giving me what I need courage.
I will give it a little more time then make a move. The old BF still has her affections he visited not long ago.
It makes it harder because he was my friend too.
2007-11-05 05:30:42 · update #1
Do what I did. Give it a shot. You will never know until you ask or try. Everyone is always afraid at first, but you will have regret is you don't say something to her. True, she may say she's not interested which has happened to people before, but then again, she may like you in the same way, too. And forget about the ex bf. More than likely they have managed to keep a friendship going and nothing else. Just take it all slowly, but not too slow in telling her. Give it shot! Good luck!!
2007-11-05 04:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Fuzzy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well look heres the thing you will never know until you ask just ask her "hey i am just wondering if you like me as more then a friend because i like you more then just a friend i have all ways liked you but never could say anything and i am wondering if you feel the same way" thats all you have to say if she dose not like you so what you will still be friends i am still friends with tons of my lady friends and now i have a GF so good luck and go get her :D
2007-11-05 04:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by Paul C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the risk and just tell her.. whats the worst that could happen.. she will tell u that she doesnt have feelings for you.. at least you will know the truth and stop guessing.. but from what you said i think she does like you ... cuz girls usually only flirt with guyz they are attracted to .. soo go for it... GOOD LUCK
2007-11-05 04:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by ellle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give her a kiss and tell her you really like her see what happens from there, i like it when guys are blunt and just say what they think it is sexy to me anyway and she sounds like a big flirt
2007-11-05 04:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by 57865985 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just wait and see if you dont want to mess up your freindship. Or if you want to take that risk, just tell her you like her and there is a risk she may not like you.
2007-11-05 04:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go after what you want. Don't worry about looking stupid or being wrong.
2007-11-05 04:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by J&C's Moma! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHERE YOU STAND?
TELLING HER ABOUT YOUR TRUE INTENTIONS ABOUT HER WILL OPEN THE DOOR.
TO WALK YOU HAVE TO PUT ONE FOOT IN FRONT OF THE OTHER.
2007-11-05 04:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by ahsoasho2u2 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok. i say try it. it sounds pretty obvious to me that she likes you..i hope im not misleading you though...
2007-11-05 04:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think she likes you
go for it:)
2007-11-05 04:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋