Me an one of my ex's have been broken up for a few months now and he never really contacts me ever....The strange thing is i had a dream about him and so my at first i felt maybe i should call him just to maybe see how he is doin.. but then i decided not too... So then i spoke to his mother and to my surprise two days after i spoke to his mother he sent me an email asking me how i was doing and he never really ever contacts me at all and i never contact him.... in the email he asked how i was doin in then he told me how he was doin and at the end of the letter he put luv ya and god bless.... And that was weird cause he has never used the words luv in a sentence concerning me since we broke up.. My question is i wanted to know if you thought that maybe he was thinking about and maybe wanted me back? please answer ASAP thanks...
2007-11-05 04:21:18 · 16 answers · asked by nikkiblue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe. don't get to happy yet . he probably just wanted to know how you were. but if you want him back which it sounds like you should try being his friend again and do little things like sending him funny jokes by emails, to try to spark up a conversation with him. and if ya ll talk just tell him that you miss him and want him back good luck!
2007-11-05 04:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by sheena 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about this, you guys broke up for a reason.
Personally, no I dont think he wants you back, I think the reason why he wrote you an email is because you contacted his mother, she must of mentioned something.
It doesnt seem like a bad break up, but the fact that you did have a dream about him means that YOU are still thinking about him. If you are still interested than continue to talk to him as friends and see where the relationship takes you.
2007-11-05 04:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easy answer is ask!!!!!
not us, but him. Settle how you feel and what you want.....then tell him. The worst that could happen is that he says, he wants to be friends and stay close. If you can deal with that great!
and as for those people who are always like he's your ex for a reason....I will throw in, a yes....but that that reason isn't always about him being hurtful, bad, or even a bad match. Half a relationship is about where you and him are at...timing and stage in life is a lot......sometimes it just can't work when you happened to find eachother.....so look at the reasons, find your answers, and if you want....try again, but take it slow
2007-11-05 04:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by someguy_in_halifax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself what is the reason why you guys broke up first. If its something forgiveable then I say email him back as friends talk on the phone and kinda get the feel of how u guys feel for eachother and where u stand. Trust me I had an ex and now I regret taking him back instead of leaving him alone and moving on i wasted 3 years with him. Now that I look back at it I shoulda just left it alone and moved on.
2007-11-05 04:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. It was what jumped into his mind at that moment and it doesn't mean he loves you. An ex is an ex honey. He is your ex for a reason. No need to go back there. Move on. Don't try to make something out of nothing. Good luck to you.
2007-11-05 04:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by supergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to skeptical about this think about email him back tell him how you are doing. And go from there luv ya is just a saying that is all it is not the real luv ya maybe he is just writing to write and all he his is your friend think about it first don't rush anything he could just be your friend.
2007-11-05 04:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just keep in contact and see where it goes..maybe he luvs ya as a good friend or maybe he wants you back.
2007-11-05 04:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's an EX boyfriend for a reason... and it's not unusual to hold on to good feelings for someone we were involved with; after all, we don't just toss our feelings into the garbage can when we break up.
i think it's ok to be friends, but i'd think twice about going back, unless you are teenagers...
adults don't need the drama.
2007-11-05 04:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might be reading too much into it. Maybe he's more laid back than he was a few months ago. Maybe his mom put him up to it. Either way, you won't know for sure unless you ask him directly.
2007-11-05 04:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Don 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"luv ya" is slang in my book. You care for a person and hope they are well but you do not exactly LOVE them.
When I love someone I tell them so w/o abbreviation. Love is important and deserves respect therefore should be spelled out.
2007-11-05 04:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋