Is this normal?

Question

My teacher acts real weird around me. He...
1. Gives me only 100s
2. Seems to praise me all the time in front of the class
3. Only gives me extentions on work
4. Calls me his special girl
5. gives me massages during tests to help me relax
6. Wants me to stay after school everyday
7. He invites me over to his house on the weekend
8. He always gives my boyfriend failing grades
9. He wants me to ditch my boyfriend and go for an older man
10. he cries every time I bring up graduation

Am I thinking to much into this?

Answer 1

It is not normal. You certainly are not thinking too much into this.

His words and actions are beyond inappropriate. He's developed an unhealthy, and possible illegal obsession with you. Report this guy to someone.

Answer 2

that is creepy! report this guy!

you don't say how old you are, but if he is teaching high school or younger, he needs to be fired fast! He is a child predator!

No teacher can legally put his/her hands on ANY student, much less give massages. That is sexual harrassment any way you look at it. Teachers should also keep their lives seperate from their students. There is no reason any teacher should ever ask any student to their house! Who you date is not your teacher's business, no teacher should get involved in the dating life of a student unless the teacher has reason to believe the child is being abused, and even then should report it to authorities, not gtet involved himself.

This guy is doing so much dangerous stuff. Please report him! Even if you are smart enough to ignore his advances, another student may not be and may end up getting raped or emotionally abused.

Answer 3

Hey there, What i can see is that your teacher has a thing for you, And i dont think its good.

Dont let him touch you, let alone massage you. One day he'll start to do more i can assure you that, and you dont want to have nothing to do with this sick man.

You have to tell the principal. Tell everything that you've wrote here, tell it to the principal, get him fired. HE HAS TO GET FIRED OR HE WILL TOUCH MORE GIRLS.

After he's fired, if he stills continue to harass you, call the police. His life's already screwed anyway, just push the screwdriver further.

Answer 4

Based on what you've indicated here, it sounds like your teacher is fixated on you in a VERY unhealthy way. A teacher should NEVER invite you over to his/her house, and the bit about wanting you to stay after school every day should be causing alarm bells to sound. You need to keep your distance from this guy.

Answer 5

I'd talk to your school and parents about switching into a new class.

Or tell him you love your boyfriend and wouldnt dump him for anybody else

try to fail on purpose and see if he is intentionally giving you As. If he is, tell the principle some thing is wrong with this dude

Answer 6

ABSOLUTELY NOT!! You are NOT thinking too much on this. You need to tell your parents or your principal what is going on. Tell them the same things that you put on here.
I AM URGING YOU to talk to someone and do it now. DO NOT worry about what will happen to that teacher. HE does not need to be around children of any age.
He is what we call a pedifile. There is a high possibility that if you were to act on his invitations to visit his home or breaking up with your boyfriend he would see it as his opportunity to move in on you. He would see it as you accepting his advancements towards you.
I REPEAT...DO NOT HESITATE..TELL YOUR PARENTS NOW NOW NOW NOW NOW NOW NOW.

Answer 7

Are you for real? It sounds like you know this is wrong. Report it immediately. Do NOT let him take advantage of you. You are young and vulnerable. Go to a counselor or social worker. They will know how to handle the matter discreetly.

Answer 8

If this is really true the guy is psycho. Report him to the principle immediately. Teachers like this need to fired. They shouldn't be around children. If you cant see it, I would say you are not thinking enough about this.

Answer 9

Your teacher is a lecherous perv. You really need to talk to your counselor about this. He probably has a "favorite" he preys on every year or so who may not be so lucky. And your boyfriend's grades are suffering needlessly. He should NOT be teaching teens.

Answer 10

SOOO not normal! you shouldn't even have to ask anyone! he is a complete perv! I have been sexually harassed and I didn't tell anyone for a real long time and trust me from experience, don't wait to tell anyone! it is not a good idea to wait. Even if you dont want to get them in trouble it is the right thing to do! so dont wait because that is not right!