Chris and I have had history since Freshman year, I'm a sophmore and he's a Junior now. He liked me as soon as he laid eyes on me, but I didn't feel the same. Then, during the summer he got a girlfriend named Holly. They were off and on, and he even told me that he'll always love me.
I started to like him. I told him how I felt though I wasn't ready to commit which we both know. I told him by summer I'll be grown and ready. He still calls me often, and talks about Holly all the time and rubs in my face the fact that he's going to move to PA where she lives and go to Penn state starting this summer. When we were supposed to...start a relationship.
Holly is his girlfriend on myspace also though they call each other and visit one and other. She's also a ***** and often taunts me calling me hurtful names. It's hard to move on when he keeps calling, and I'm not sure what I should do.
2007-11-05 03:55:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No offense, but this sounds very immature. 'I'll be ready and grown by summer"????? You've got to be kidding me! How can you put an exact date on when to start a relationship? Let Holly have him, and get to know yourself. Enjoy highschool.
2007-11-05 04:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will treat you however you let them treat you. So start by not allowing these drama queens into your life. If he was a real man and cared about you - he wouldn't allow Ms. Holly to be a you know what to you. Don't talk to either of them anymore - don't check their MySpace. Don't text. Nothing. You're only feeding the fire. Penn State is out in the sticks anyhow. I know. You're not missing much.
2007-11-05 04:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, you're wasting a lot of time on a situation that's going nowhere.
At best you are just fueling this guys ego (I got 2 girls )
I wouldn't even bother with, it's me or her.... I would start looking for a nice guy who wanted to treat me nice...
2007-11-05 04:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a playa. If your happy with him then be with him but just know that its not love. He's your temperary partner until you get some one better who will pay all his attentiontion to u and to u only.
2007-11-05 04:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by b-buddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋