i live w/ my boyfriend and his mom is literally a witch. shes horrible and she always is extremly rude and yells at us. last night boyfriend and mom got in a fight and she is giving us two weeks and kicking us out.. what am i going to do? im a broke college student and nither of us can save our money for nuthin. help!!
2007-11-05 04:18:00 · 16 answers · asked by fashionladyy8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ok first.. i am working part time and that is just to much with all of the homework i have. school is the most important to me right now. second i could never move back with my parents.third.. im not depending on her we pay her rent .
2007-11-05 04:29:17 · update #1
apply for financial aid & live on campus. Believe me it never works out living with your bf's mom. Both of you get jobs & rent a place, yes I know it will be hard working, going to college, & maintaining a relationship. But if you truly want to be together then you have to make some sacrifices in your lives.
2007-11-05 04:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys are not doing your part in the house or something. Remember it's hard to have some one living in your house, first of all their privacy go for a loop. If you don't bring your side with house work and so on then you and your b\f is at fault. Not a very easy situation for all of you. Sit and have a good heart to heart chat and try to understand her side of the story. This will only bring you closer any way. Remember this could be your future mother in law.
2007-11-05 04:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start saving money, if you are both working 2 weeks should be enough time to make enough money to get a small apartment or a trailor or something since you are living rent free I assume.
If a single mom with 4 kids can make it on a minimum wage job then you can do it.
2007-11-05 04:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by luvinfeel_n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 03:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by mcclune 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys need to get out of there ASAP. Go to your parents house or a friend's. You both are going to need to grow up and get jobs though. Even if you are in school it is totally possible to work full time. It's tough but you have to do what you have to do to survive.
2007-11-05 04:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by ladyluck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats definitely a hard situation to go through ,I been there myself. You might want to ask around to see if there is any other family you guys have and see if you can stay with them. Or, and this is coompletely up to you, talk to his mom and find out why she is so mad...maybe you guys can work things out. Otherwise - you're going to have to suck it up and if you guys really want to be together - your both going to have to get jobs (or work more hours) and move out on your own! Thats the harsh reality of life when growing up! Good luck.
2007-11-05 04:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by lakrluvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't be too much of a witch to let you and your boyfriend shack up in her home. Life is about getting your own. You're probably living there rent free.
2007-11-05 04:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Then I guess you need to start looking for a job and possibly holding off on school until you are back on your feet.
2007-11-05 04:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why you can't go back home or try to get a part-time and save.
2007-11-05 04:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by blessed is me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can always suck it up and have your bf appolgize otherwize you may want to weigh your other options including moving home or with anyone else that may take you in.
2007-11-05 04:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋