My husband kinda upset met his morning about rules with the kid's and all its just a bad day :(
Can someone help me
2007-11-05 02:49:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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If youre a mother. Remember those little eyes looking up to you, knowing that you are the greatest thing in the world!! Raising their arms toward you, wanting you.
Can you remember your grandma? The support she would give you. The Christmas Dinners she would cook with the love and smile she had on her face?
These are only a few, of the pleasures and memories of life....
HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!
2007-11-05 03:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Kids do need rules! You didn't go into any specifics about his comments or the rules though so I can't help much. It is not good to be divided by opinions on these rules when it comes to being the proper parent however. Whatever the rules are, you both need to show a united front before the children or you'll quickly lose the power struggle that is before you with the kids. Don't let them see you fuss over those rules. Only discuss the differences of feelings on this issue whenever it is just you and your husband around and no kids. They will show you the masters that be in their stubborn wills otherwise and the power struggle will only grow larger. Sit down and discuss this with your husband as soon as you can. You need to unite on the issues quickly. Good luck!
2007-11-05 10:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this little bit upset you to the point of tears all morning, then you might want to talk to someone about depression. It often goes untreated, because people fail to recognize the symptoms. There are literally millions who suffer from it, and it's nothing to be ashamed of. They now have many new medications that work wonders for people, and many helpful websites you can check into to see if this could be the problem. If not, then don't let the smaller things upset you to the point that you are stressed, just go with the flow. Problems seem to work themselves out without our help.
2007-11-05 11:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by dannah1129 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie! I wish I could give you a hug! Some days it seems like it's better just ot burrow under the covers and sleep till the next day.
If you've had more than one day like this, is it possible you may have depression?
I've found that talking is the best solution. Talk to someone. Then, get up the nerve to talk to your husband. You need to express to him your own views and feelings. Yeah, he might get upset but so what?! If you keep suppressing your thoughts, you will continue to be miserable.
Men can be thoughtless (really?!) and unless we clue them in, they can remain so.
Go do something for you. Grab a cup of coffee...go see a friend.
And consider yourself hugged!
2007-11-05 10:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by mummy heffalump 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What were the rules he upset you about? Is he being a father and trying to make sure the kids are doing as they should or is he being unreasonable?
We really need more info to help you here.
2007-11-05 10:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
nope... I would need more info to be able to offer advice.
As a man I can tell you that he is feeling upset by the argument this morning too.
Think about what made you upset and what made him upset.. and then (WITHOUT TEARS and CRYING) talk to him and ask him what need to change to this not to happen again.
2007-11-05 10:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by David 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Rules for the kids? Are these actual rules for your kids or rules for YOU pertaining to the kids? I am sorry...but you didn't give enough information so as to suggest something...Is your husband controlling?
2007-11-05 10:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Hey ,
Come On cheer up, these kind of things happen someday and believe me the next day is a brand new day it will be filled with happiness and it will be a day full of success...
Cheers
2007-11-05 10:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Prince 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Dont pay any head to it, Be cool and assume its the betterment of your kids.He has to be polite in discussing the rules. Be patient
2007-11-05 10:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Not much info. given to try answering?!
2007-11-05 11:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by casper 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋