me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 6months and i found out that he's thought about having sex...and so have i...i feel like i'm ready bc i feel like i love him...but i think i'm still to young..
2007-11-05 02:59:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok it is hard to advise when you don't say how old you are. However the fact you have have waited 6 months is good and also that you both feel that now might be the time.
Firstly talk some more about it with him. Do you really want to go "all the way." or maybe just start touching each other and see how you go. There is no rush.
Also plan it out. When and where will it happen and also get some protection just in case. The reason for this is by having it planned will help you decided if you really want to go for it.
Finally and most importantly don't feel you have to. You can stop at ANYTIME and wait until you feel ready. Good luck.
2007-11-05 03:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can say if you're ready or not. That's not the type of advice to ask someone else. They aren't in your shoes and they don't even know how old you are. If you think you're ready you're ready, if you still feel a little weird about it...wait until youare 100% ok with it. Don't let him talk you into doing it if you arent sure... that's how i lost my v-card... I wanted to make him happy... and 4 years later I still regret it.
2007-11-05 11:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Kelsey S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are?
But if you're ready.....really ready. And he is too then why not.
Has he had sex in his past relationships?
Why did you 'find out' he wanted to have sex? Surely he should have told you before anyone else?
i hope you make the right decision.
Most of us end up regreting the first time.
But it gets alot better.
2007-11-05 11:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by simba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question. If you dont think you're gonna regret it and you love him, then maybe it the right time for you. But dont let him push you into it. you've obviously thought about it too, talk to him and decide if you are both ready for this step.
2007-11-05 11:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by jesssikahhh_x3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is important to you in having an relationship with the opposite sex? You can answer this yourself. If sex is important to you, then you need to communicate that to your friend. Are you really ready to bring sex into your relationship?
2007-11-05 11:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by No More Abuse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your under 16 go ahead and try it but chances rae you'll end up preganant by 17
2007-11-05 11:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not have sex outside of marriage. It is a sin...always. It doesnt matter how you guys "feel." you will regret it later.
2007-11-05 11:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are asking this question then no you are not ready.
2007-11-05 11:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by Beverly C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can we advise you on whether you're too young, if we don't know how old you are?
2007-11-05 11:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by treetoplover1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should discuss it with your boy friend and if it what you both want then why not? unless you are under age!
2007-11-05 11:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋