how do u know if they love you or want something else from you... ???
2007-11-05 05:53:15 · 11 answers · asked by brenda f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
brenda f, If it is true love, sex is not an issue !
2007-11-05 05:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First what is love? When you truly love someone, you will do almost anything not to hurt that person. When they hurt, you hurt. When they're happy, you're happy. And if the time comes, you are ever unfortunate to lose that person, an emptiness fills you and you feel as though you've lost almost everything.
Now, ask yourself, if you turn down the other person's request for "something else" can you imagine them feeling this way about you? If this other person really, truly loves you, they will respect your wishes to wait. If they don't, they will more than likely do one of two things. They may either keep pushing you to do things you aren't ready or willing to do, or they may end their relationship with you. If that is the case, then you are better off without them in the long run.
2007-11-05 14:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ususally if a guy tells you he loves you or youre beautiful. it sounds great but we always wonder if its true. most of the time i can tell by the little things they do like notice small details or do little thing. these small things can help you realize.. "man.. this guy's for real.."
but the ones that just want a little something else would never be the guy to put you all over his myspace or the guy that would call you all day everyday just to say hi..
2007-11-05 13:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by victoriaaa =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They tell you constantly, they give you personal items - like a necklace that they've wore for years, months whatever. Always wants to be around you, hold your hand in public (Street, bus, etc)
Doesn't hide you from his friends, calls you to let you know he's thinking about you.
Doesn't hesitate when you ask him future questions and tries to answer them truthfully.. ?
2007-11-05 13:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by shut_up_and_eat_your_cornflakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they love u they wont push the "something else"
2007-11-05 13:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by livnlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 trust them.
2007-11-05 13:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jolene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they really love you, you can tell
2007-11-05 13:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by nicktarine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is so weird.....
but you will know when that person loves you....
if you have to ask? HHHHMMMMMMMMM
2007-11-05 14:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy Cuban 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to trust yourself...what do your instincts tell you?
2007-11-05 13:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll know when they love you, and you'd never have to ask.
2007-11-05 13:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋