shall i leave him . he give more importance to reading newspaper and his job than finding some time for me suggest what i should do ?
2007-11-05 05:21:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try talking to him.
i know how you feel. my husband is adicted to the tv and work lol.
all i can say is try talking to him, lethim know how you feel etc. if that dosent work/make things change then you need to move on with your life. you only get one life, you might as well enjoy it
2007-11-05 05:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not saying this is the case but when my ex wife became so miserable, always nagging, bitching, complaining, yelling, throwing stuff etc, I spent more time at work or doing other things to avoid her. Thankfully when I got past the fear of losing my son (I have full custody) and kicked her cheating a$$ out, I began feeling much better and though it took a couple years to truly get over, life is much better now
2007-11-05 05:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my soon to be ex! We went to counseling, and he never understood what I was talking about, so I sympathize with you.
Have you tried marriage counseling with him? Maybe you will find a good counselor that can speak up for you. A neutral professional is always a good resource.
My husband didn't want to hear it anymore and filed for divorce. He accused me of being selfish, and it's too bad for him that he doesn't look in the mirror. He just didn't want to exhaust all alternatives to fix things.
2007-11-05 05:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it is time to get something sexy and prance around the house in front of him in some lacy lingerie. Really unless you have put on a bunch of weight since you married or he is cheating he should be all over you like a fat kid on a smartie.
Well I know I would be with my wife.
2007-11-05 05:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say tell him be up front with him and say hey I need you can I just talk to you a little. That sort of thing and if you have more questions like this go on Manandwife.tv and you can get advice from people there
2007-11-05 05:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he comes home be standing in the kitchen naked cooking something great!!! (just kidding) Sounds like you need to get his attention somehow so you both can sit down and talk so you can let him know how you feel, but i don't know if leaving him is the right aproach.
2007-11-05 05:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you must communicate. Is his behaviors recent? Has he been this way for a while now? Talk to each other. Tell him how you feel. Listen to him as well. If there is love then anything can be worked out.
2007-11-05 05:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by thumpergold64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What other interests does he have?
Try to get involved or learn more about what he likes...maybe having some knowledge or involvement with those things will mean you two interact together more.
2007-11-05 05:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by mntlrldx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe his newspaper is more exciting...your automatic response because he ignores you is to leave him? what kind of marriage do you have? maybe you should prance around 1/2 naked to get his attention...
2007-11-05 05:26:21 · answer #9 · answered by loriloriloriloriv 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him, tell him it's a problem, suggest counseling. If he doesn't react, there's not much else you can do but leave.
2007-11-05 05:25:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋