This is the history....i`ve met this girl a loto of time ago, we go to the same church and my father is the pastor....my mother told me that she noticed that this girl was in love of me or seemed to be a little bit interested.... ok.she is 14 old and i`m sixteen old...she already knows that i like her because she read it written in one of my notebooks it was a coded message and she decoded it. so.. since that happened i haven´t tell her anything more about it because i dont know what...i mean.. i dont beg her to be my girlfriend because i think we´re too young and we should wait some more time...then what should i tell her we should have??...which kind of a relationship...-friends just friend- or -a relationship to get to know each other better-. i just dont want to hurt her...and i dont want to lose her .... :-(
hope you guys give me a good answer to my question... 10 for the best one !!!!
2007-11-05 07:30:26 · 5 answers · asked by theBest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I applaud you for wanting to wait.
Explain to her that you really like her but you think that the two of you are a little too young right now to start a serious, committed relationship.
Tell her that you are willing to wait to be with her. But right now, it would be nice if the two of you could just remain good friends until you're both ready for a relationship.
If she agrees, then do just that.
2007-11-05 07:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think 16 is too young for a relationship, but 14 might be for the girl. However, things are constantly changing these days. And it doesn't seem like your mom objected to the fact that the girl may be interested. And momma knows best. You do what your heart feels, but take it slow. Especially if you don't want to lose her. :) Gluck.
2007-11-05 15:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by juleyana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you're "too young" for a relationship; I commend you. Most guys at your age are jumping on every girl they meet!
I'd talk to her; find out what she wants, but with her being 14 I'd give it a year or so before you start having a "real" relationship; maybe just try to get to know her better over the next 12 or so months.
2007-11-05 15:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you feel you aren't ready, just play it cool like you have been. If she's still around when you feel ready, that's awesome. If not, you would be considered mature about that decision anyway.
We don't have to hook up with every willing girl the minute we find out. Take everything slow until you know exactly what you want.
2007-11-05 15:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok! if you two both agreed on waiting then thats right! you know she will be there and single but still you gotta talk she could leave any minute so yeah! let her know what you feel and you shouldn`t care about ages either it doesn`t matter whenever there is love so go ahead! what do you have to lose?
2007-11-05 15:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by Blanca F.R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋