He is in my group of friends and I am trying to get to know him better and be more comfortable around him so I won't be so shy.
Sometimes when I hang out with him I have good conversations and we feel like good friends. I will smile and wave when I see him and he will smile and wave back.
Other times, when we are with our whole group of friends, he seems to ignore me and I don't talk to him very much because of this. This in turn makes me feel shy around him because I think he may not like me. But then if I see him the next day I start talking to him and we have a good conversation and it makes me happy. Then the next day we may not talk at all.
So basically I'm going back and forth between he likes me, he doesn't like me, and I feel stupid that we talk to each other sometimes but not other times.
Some friends (these friends don't know him personally) tell me he likes me but he just doesn't know that I like him. What should I do?
2007-11-05 07:50:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask him.
2007-11-05 07:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably does like you, but just doesn't know what to say. The next time you speak to him, try to find a common ground, like things you both like or things you both don't like. This can help with making the conversation a little longer so that you can try to read his signs to figure out where he's coming from. If you think he likes you, let him know you like him too. What's the worst that could happen? It's not the end of the world or anything. When you are with your whole group of friends just join in the conversation and try to include him in it like with a question or a joke. That's always a good icebreaker. Good Luck
2007-11-05 07:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by JessyE19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe you both like each other and he is probably feeling the same way you feel. Therefore he might not talk to you when other people around cuz he probably thinks your ingnoring him. You probably don't even look at him bcuz u don't wanna look stupid and it's probably the same with him. I'd suggest you break the ice next time u see him and people are around...find an excuse...something... and be like "Hey there I forgot to ask you... or wanted to invite you..." and then you will find out for sure if he likes u or not by his reaction. It's better to feel stupid ONE time (if he doesn't react that way u'd like him to) than having that doubt "forever" ...
2007-11-05 07:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by babygirlxx68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you're conversing "in the crowd" pull him away and talk to him one on one and see what happens. Make sure you have something to say that interests him -- don't talk about the weather.
2007-11-05 07:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by D J 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Different days different moods, doesn't mean he likes you any more today and less tomorrow, I'm pretty sure he enjoys your friendship or else he wouldn't bother talking to you at all.
Don't sweat it and there is absolutely nothing to feel stupid about.
2007-11-05 07:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by Sage's Unicorn! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ASk him to join you on your day off. Go to a movie or the mall or the library. You know see what happens.
best wishes
2007-11-05 08:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Linda S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll bet you're a female, because males don't tend to need as much interaction of a verbal nature.
Just let him be quiet when he needs to be.
He'll come around when the time is right.
2007-11-05 07:54:31 · answer #7 · answered by killbasabill 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Leave him alone ,If he's interested in you let him make the first move. Treat him like a casual acquaintance .He seems like all-temperature Cheer to me. HOT, WARM& COLD.
2007-11-05 08:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by kim p butterfly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just see the way the talks to you, he might be feeling the same thing about you and also just being shy. talk to him as much as you can
2007-11-05 07:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by gomez27985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound like the ideal candidates for marriage
2007-11-05 07:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you ask him out? If he says yes then he likes you.
2007-11-05 07:54:20 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋