My life at home really sucks. me and my mom fight all the time, she tells me i was a mistake and she doesn't care for me anymore, and i live in new jesery and the amancpate law doesn't apply here and i need out badly, i really need some help.
2007-11-05 02:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by suferchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am sorry that you think your life sucks, but all teenagers think there lives suck. Do something to change it. If you can't move until you are 18, then do something constructive until then, and learn to deal with your problems. Life is very, very hard. In the real world, people really don't care about your personal problems.
2007-11-05 02:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It takes two to fight. Stop your side of it. Your mom loves you, she is just frustrated, she wants the best for you and maybe you are making some bad decisions. Maybe you should think about your side of it. Is there anything you can change about what you are doing to make peace between her and you? Start treating your mother like you want to be treated. Be kind, caring, giving, understanding, patient, tolerant, selfless, be slow to anger and quick to forgive. You do all this and she will come around. You should cherish your time with your mother, soon enough you will be going out in the world to live your own life. Your time with her is growing short. Be good to her.
2007-11-05 10:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I truly feel bad for you.....it is sad when a parent and child have to go round and round....I would NEVER tell my children that they were a mistake and that I don't care for them....Hopefully your mother only said those things out of anger and frustration...being a parent is not easy...Especially if you are a single parent...Is there anyway that the both of you can compromise things and get along? I understand that you may be wanting to get out and away from your mother...but believe me....trying to make it on your own will not be a piece of cake.....not saying that it is impossible...but you will find out just how cruel the world can be....
2007-11-05 10:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do feel sorry every time I hear mom and child fight over nothing. I am a mom of 3 kids, never tell my kids anything that would scar them for life. Your mom might have some problems to deal with other tahn you, and your presence seem to add more pressure because of your constant fighting. I believe your mom loves you. If both of you can come to a compromise to help make each other's life better and not miserable, everything will be alright. Just remember how she took care of when you were a kid and helpless. How she sacrifice her sleeps to feed you and change your nappy. I feel sad for children fighting back to their parents. I know you will eventually grow up and hv kids of ur own, and realize how it is like to be a mother. I hope both of you can talk and forgive each other. She's ur mom and can never leave you nor forsake you. She mightbe over protective of you. Pleas understand that mothers tend to like that. and that's because our children's pain is our pain, too. No mother would ever want her child to experience bad things. For now, you can try to be nice to her. Learn to say sorry if u think u hv upset her. Communicate with her. I know things will be easier if u will lower ur pride. Afterall, she's ur mom who chose to give youlife to enjoy. Be happy!
2007-11-05 10:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by tiny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should try and take it easy..Your not the first one who has had problems at home and with your mom....I know when I was younger, my mom and I fought alot as well...But, you grow up and realized that you can't change them but you learn to deal with them from a distance...Im sure whatever ways she tries hurting you she's really hurting herself....I wouldn't even let it get to me..Maybe theres a family member you can stay with if things get uliger at home...Talking to someone at school may not be at your best interest because they may just end up removing you from your home and that can be worse...So think about that...
2007-11-05 10:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call your grandfather or grandmother or uncle or aunt, if your dad is around try to talk to all of them and ask them for help. There is no excuse for your mom to treat you this way.
2007-11-05 10:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you go to school, talk to your counselor. I feel for you, I moved out when I was 16, so I know what you're going through. Hang in there
2007-11-05 10:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by super_snare_1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know how you feel...same thing goes on everyday in my house...i would say just try to stay out of your house as much as possible or try and see if a relative would let you stay there...and if they do maybe they will talk to your mom about it so you dont have too..
just keep thinking positive!
2007-11-05 10:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask your Daddy to help you get out of there.
2007-11-05 10:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek counselling and am sure they will want to speak with your mom too.
2007-11-05 10:29:16 · answer #10 · answered by delicious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋