my husband has lost his sex drive i think because ive put on about 3 stone .he isnt actracted to me any more but iam only a16_18 dress size.and weve been married for 10 years and have 5 children.
2007-11-05 01:51:44 · 8 answers · asked by big mama 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
16/18 after 5 kids? Tell him to pop out 5 kids and see what it does to his body!
You do have to work, and sometimes working it off and eating right just doesn't make your body "what it used to be!"
You don't have the body of a girl anymore and men are too ignorant to realize the difference.
There are many men who LOVE curves and the feel of a female feeling woman- rather than a stick.
2007-11-05 02:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by juicy13500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weight probably has nothing to do with it. This happens in relationships sometimes. You need to kick start it again. Go out, get yourself something nice to wear, have your hair done and make a romantic meal for the 2 of you with some wine. You can then chill out and snuggle on the sofa and then who knows what!! Remember, even very large women are also attractive, I'm sure your husband isn't so shallow as to only be attracted to your appearance. It sounds as if you need some romance. Crank it up a notch, it is within your control. You are beautiful, especially at a healthy 16 - 18 size. The curvy woman is back - us size 10's have to watch our skinny backs! Go girl!
2007-11-05 09:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Yanda 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to him about it. Try to make time for date nights were it is just the two of you. I have been married for 15 years and it does come and go. You get wrapped up in the kids and forget about each other. It happens, but the point is that you can always re-start the ole engine by talking about it.
2007-11-05 09:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by mamabee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try working out a bit. It is very important for us women to not let go of ourselves. I know it's very hard and with 5 kids I know it's a challenge, but try and control your eating habits. If you have a dog, set a time to walk your dog. You need to feel good about yourself so that you can show your husband how sexy you still are. You don't have to have perfect curves, but if you feel sexy, he will see you sexy.
2007-11-05 09:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by why ask 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he really loves you, it shouldn't matter. You are not that huge. I bet his looks have changed a lot too. You could still do some touching that might change his mind. Marriage counseling is an option, if he won't go, go yourself.
2007-11-05 10:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put on 3 stone? maybe you should take those stones off? im sure having sex with a lady that is wearing stones is quite dangerous they can hit you in the face.
2007-11-05 09:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by djmixah7 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I AM ALSO A 16-18 AND I THOUGHT MY HUSBAND LOST INTEREST IN ME, BUT IT WASNT HIM IT WAS ME WHO WAS NOT SATISFIED WITH MYSELF. IF I GREW TO LOVE ALL OF MY 200 LBS AND BECAME A BETTER SEX MACHINE, SO CAN YOU. IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF HE WILL TOO! IF YOU DONT LIKE HOW U LOOK CHANGE IT.
2007-11-05 10:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by kayzarty 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
16-18??? have a rice cake.
2007-11-05 09:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by bloodshotcyclops 4 · 0⤊ 5⤋