When out on the prowl for that special someone, what do you find most important -
Looks or personality?
2007-11-05 01:47:45 · 16 answers · asked by shez_a_maneater 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This really is a personal obligated question I'm only 19, and this is what i think..
I'm always on the mindset for looking for the-one, its sort of like a radar for attractive girls that most men have. Looking good is half the battle, Looking good doesnt meet you have to have the perfect model body, you just have to look appealing to whom is checking you out. You could be fat, skinny, small or tall, as long as the person checking you out is amazed by how you present yourself. This means if u use makeup or not, if u dress nicely, emo or cute. Yes, That will get me from a distance, however- up close when i do go Hey! how you doing! your personallity is the one that hits home. Personally, i like the shy type of girl the one that doesnt like to much attention from everyone, but likes attention from one person. But most of all, you need both in an equally balanced scale.
Being in perfect unity makes guys that go out with their friends say
... wow look at that attractive girl... and just walk by rather then.. wow look at that attractive girl, and he actually walks away with your number
2007-11-05 01:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks are what makes a guy initially interested.
If the personalities don't match, then the relationship won't be healthy.
So in the long term personality matters more, but in the short term, it doesn't really matter at all. This leads to a lot of relationships starting on looks and then becoming horrible.
2007-11-05 09:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Dude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personality. Looks come and go. Looks wither with age. Personality is forever.
2007-11-06 17:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
personality, I would rather hang out with average girl with a good personality than a sexy girl with a bad attitude. But looks usually is what draws me over there to talk to u.
2007-11-05 09:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by scaredbad 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Personality, that comes first.. Looks will come second. Anyway beauty lies in the eye of beholder.. So personality will really click the relationship.. :)
2007-11-05 09:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by Rothulxel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personality...not into looks for that as they say is "in the eyes of the beholder". Looks tend to lead to a woman's vanity..and that I do not care for a woman who stresses too much on her vainess.
2007-11-05 09:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by !@#$% 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
90% of guys go for looks first the rest personality
2007-11-05 09:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
90% Personality and a bit l00ks
2007-11-05 10:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by Me C00L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone that is good looking and talks sweet to me.I can't stand a woman that acts like they are doing me a favor when talking to me.My first thought when someone acts like that to me is,well you were beautiful until you opened your mouth.If a girl is interested in me act like it or move on.
2007-11-05 09:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by Buck 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
loks is a great but personality last forever. if the girl has so-so looks but a great personality then she could be a keeper down the road
2007-11-05 09:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by gasguy695 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋