Family & Relationships - 3 November 2007

Yes, I went on a date and kissed another guy a year ago, when my husband suggested we divorce and he moved out. But after telling him I was moving on, he came back and promised me things would change and he would treat me better. Well, for a month straight he has played the blame game, and tonight, He called me a whore in front of the kids, and said to my 5 year old daughter...Do You Know Mommy Has Sex With Other Guys!! I got so fed up, I slapped him so many times while holding my 2 month old. He of course jumped up and attacked me and threw our baby down the crib. I didnt care if he attacked me, but was terribly upset that my baby was screaming. He's gone now. But I'm so fed up. I love him so much and I can't stand it anymore. There is never 1 day we can go without him mentioning something about the past. I'm trying to learn from my "mistakes" and grow. But now I'm confused as to who's fault it is.

2007-11-03 18:38:01 · 15 answers · asked by Laurellamags 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ex hubby's new girfriend took it up on herself to write me and tell me how sheS "got him"and she knows "how to keep a man" and "he doesnt want me " this is the 3rd of his girlfreinds to write me this way ( i think he puts them up to it, as i dont contact them i have a new life now) . anyhow she is considering herself to be his one and only, i clicked her profile she had a trashy photo of herself in jean shorts and a see through bra (nipples showing through)and NOTHING else. i sved the picture and emailed it to his mother. now she wont look like the kind you take home to momma, is that a good revenge?

2007-11-03 18:37:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love her with everything but acording to Michigan law I am wrong in being with her. IS it wrong. What should I do?

2007-11-03 18:35:12 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he said he loves me and is still not over her though but that this doesnt affect us.. meanwhile it does, its affecting my feelings and our relationship. he said shes messed up, a wh0re and that he doesn't want her back, but hes still in love with her. he said he just wants to be honest so its either hide it from me or let me know about this. his exact words were" but u gotta know that there was a girl before you and i dont think ill ever be over her" im like crying i really love him and i don't wanna leave him but i know hes gonna have feelings for her always. he said hes sorry he put me though this and that he didnt ask for it and i just have no idea of anything my heads too jumbled if that makes sense so someone please make sense of this situation and point me in the right direction..? <3thanks.

2007-11-03 18:31:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one of my really good friends gave me a poem yesterday to show me his appreciation of our friendship. And the poem was just stunningly beautiful and brought tears in my eyes when i read it. He took the credit for writing the poem himself, saying that it took him about half a day to write it. However later on, just out of curiosity I Google-d it and found that he had copied the poem from a poetry website. The words were identical but the verses had been rearranged by him to make it sound nicer. So now I don't know what to say to him. I'm thinking of just ignoring it because I don't want to make him feel bad.
Do you think I should confront him about it?

2007-11-03 18:31:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My 7 yr old daughter has a lump on her gum w/pus what do I do to treat it till mon.so we can c doc?
she is not in any pain but it is a big bump scary looking and I just seen it she doesnt have a fever...

2007-11-03 18:30:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-03 18:27:26 · 21 answers · asked by helpless 1 in Singles & Dating

myself, my husband and our 5 month old son live live in arizona near my mom and dad. We lived in chicago by my inlaws for a while, then moved here about 10 months ago.
My husband and my mom and dad dont really get along that well. He hates spending holidays with them and i could either take or leave holidays with them. But this year we hit financial hard times, he told his family (before we had found jobs here) that we would all come out for christmas to chicago and spend it with them, not stay here with my family. But things got financially bad and i had to find a fulltime job. I have only been there for 2 weeks and have no vacation time or time off around christmas. He got extremely shitty about it and told me "i guess you will have to stay here and the baby and i will go spend christmas with my family" "he is not spending his first christmas here with your family" "it is not fair that my family is always on the back burner" etc... then he asked if i cared..
i said if you have your

2007-11-03 18:26:02 · 7 answers · asked by jordy 1 in Family

2007-11-03 18:24:41 · 5 answers · asked by biggepac 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad told me he was going to get remarried within a month. It came as a shock to me, and I don't know if I should feel happy or sad. My mom and dad have been divorced for about 10 years, and I'm 16 years old. He asked me to come to his wedding, and I don't know how to react. I'm wondering how other people on yahooanswers dealth with anything similiar to this.

2007-11-03 18:20:23 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel k 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So for the past 6 months, I'll be really obsessed with a guy, but as soon as I get together with him, I don't want him anymore
like, ovr the summer I had this guy and once I got him, we did all the physical stuff and then I was just done. he got all attached to me or whatever, and he was such a great guy, perfect all around, but I just wanted to run from him! and move on to other people.
also the guy before him, same thing. as soon as i kissed him, i was done. i wanted to move on.

why does this keep on happening? I'm afraid that it's going to eventually ruin my relationships later on. i'm already hesitant getting in a relationship now, because i'll probably fall into the same situation!
heeelllp

2007-11-03 18:19:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband reckon you should wear them for 24 hours and I disagree because when I cuddle them they smell gross. Because he changes them before bed and stays in them to he has another shower before bed.

2007-11-03 18:16:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Looking to find maybe brothers or sister. Also what is in those gens

2007-11-03 18:14:37 · 2 answers · asked by garyoglen 1 in Family

and by one of the guys i mean someone who makes lewd jokes and can hang with the boys.

2007-11-03 18:12:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What's the deal with that... i thought that was when you were 22 trying to get it on

2007-11-03 18:11:43 · 7 answers · asked by PurpleUmbrella 1 in Singles & Dating

1.) A guy who put himself through college and works for a living and earns his own money. He is nice & polite and tries to be a good person and treats people with respect. Is into yoga, and Buddah. He is very responsible. He is intelligent and together lifewise and financially. Drives a nice car. Has a nice apartment. Doesn't drink or smoke or do drugs.

2.) A spoiled rotten brat who gets everything handed to him. He nevr really works for a living. He is irresponsible and wrecks cars a lot. His parents buy him a new one after he wrecks one. He was raised to beleive that he is better than evryone else and let's them know it. He is not very responsible with money his parents & grandmother buy him everything. He is violent and cruel to family members.

2007-11-03 18:08:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My guy friend does not live near me anymore because he moved. I have known him since I was two years old and i'm 16 now. We write letters to each other because seeing each other is kinda hard since he is too far away. I sent him some pictures just so that he would have them. He said that I look beautiful and that I am beautiful. He calls me baby-girl and other sweet names. Now he is always asking for more pictures. Why?

2007-11-03 18:06:38 · 1 answers · asked by *My_Oh_My* 2 in Singles & Dating

Separated from husband 7 months ago; we still talk every now and then; (Contemplating a divorce) Don't feel like waiting for things to get better or change. Should I step out and find someone new??

2007-11-03 18:06:24 · 14 answers · asked by Brnskngyurl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have kind of a dumb question can you be in love at a young age? and if the person tells you that they love you should you believe them?

2007-11-03 18:06:08 · 1 answers · asked by rockin_my_rattail 2 in Singles & Dating

I got married in july of this yr (2007) and my husband thinks I'm cheating on him, he's even accused me of cheating on him with his 14 yr old brother and 1 of his lil friends... I've NEVER gave him a reason to think I would cheat on him at all...I know he's insecure so u ain't gotta tell me that...I know he is...But damn! It's bull, he tells me he is ugly,fat,etc...and says I wanna move back to my hometown and not be up here with him etc...What should I do? If it keeps up I may just leave him!!!!

2007-11-03 17:59:24 · 24 answers · asked by x_farrah_x 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been engaged for almost a year & getting married in less than a month

He's an angry+moody person which was totally ok with me (no one is perfect) ... i just feel so sensetive and in need of sweet talks and future loving promises from him to make so i'd go into our marriage more confidently but his bad mood is making me feel more and more worried about being his future wife ! although it was OK with me a week ago

He's starting to make a BIG DEAL about small things and makes me feel guilty about silly things and becuz i'm stressed , i DO feel guilty although i havent done anything wrong and i find myself saying sorry at the end, i become so sensetive and upset quickly whenever something goes wrong between us and he's not helping at all .. i dont feel excited at all and i never complained about his bad mood all the time

what's even making me freak out is that my parents didnt want me to marry him (cuz he's black) so the only support i have should be him

2007-11-03 17:59:09 · 9 answers · asked by Maria 6 in Marriage & Divorce

fights with her cos' he thinks she should pay for them too as they are so expensive

2007-11-03 17:58:56 · 24 answers · asked by PurpleUmbrella 1 in Singles & Dating

how many things there is to plan for a wedding from the dress to the party favors ... can someone help me with a list of things to make sure i dont miss anything!!! THANKS!

2007-11-03 17:58:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband and I now live separately. There happened a lot of quarrel with him with a isssue. Now the problem is somehow solved. But i dont want to tell him about it. bcause then he will think that I surrender. But it is necessary to inform him. how can I do this?

2007-11-03 17:57:05 · 6 answers · asked by heera 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-11-03 17:56:33 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cheat or lie or deceive. The hurt, the harm, the agony you will place on the one you vowed to love and honor. The stupid idiot who believed in you and was loyal and faithful and who you have now hurt more than anyone else could hurt them. The dagger you stuck in their heart; the heart that was true and kind and good. Is it really worth that little thrill of an affair to hurt so devistatingly the one your love? Was it worth it to cause them to live in doubt and fear and pain? Would like some honest answers from people who have cheated. I'm not here to bash you; just want to know if it was so good that it was worth creating such devastation.

2007-11-03 17:50:10 · 11 answers · asked by pussycat 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. We have two kids together. We have been having issues since we moved in together. Part of the problem is that he never understands where I am coming from. He has also lied about paying rent and didn't tell me about the half naked pictures his ex sent him (I found them myself). I know nothing happened, but he doesn't see how these things affected me. I know he is sorry that he hurt me, but he can never see anything from my point of view, which makes closure hard. I have been trying to bring us closer and save our relationship and I thought he was doing the same. He told me about a week ago that he doesn't want to get to know me too deeply or I would become predictable and he would get bored. He says he keeps me at a distance because he doesn't want to lose me. I am angry about this. I know that part of being in a relationship is getting close. I don't know what to do (therapy? give up?) Any suggestions or thoughts would be helpful

2007-11-03 17:50:10 · 8 answers · asked by Kima 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 17:48:53 · 7 answers · asked by anita 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been divorced now for a year and I want to go out and date, but I can't. I either think about my ex or just can't let anyone close. How can I drop the barrier?

2007-11-03 17:48:36 · 7 answers · asked by lilovin1212 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have alot of friends. I love having friends. They're all wonderful. But i have a dilemma. It seems as though every time a guy is interested, somehow it gets turned into friendship. They're always interested at first and then I'm a buddy. I'm like one of the guys. I feel as though if I come across too sexual, maybe I'll look like a tramp. I also think I'm afraid to get close because I don't want to get hurt. This may sound odd, but is there something I'm not doing right? Am I giving off the wrong vibe? I got out of a 5 year relationship last year and it's almost as though I've forgotten how to act in a flirtatious way. Any advice appreciated : ) I'm in my 20s btw. I'm not a teenager

2007-11-03 17:45:36 · 8 answers · asked by Answer me this 3 in Singles & Dating