ex hubby's new girfriend took it up on herself to write me and tell me how sheS "got him"and she knows "how to keep a man" and "he doesnt want me " this is the 3rd of his girlfreinds to write me this way ( i think he puts them up to it, as i dont contact them i have a new life now) . anyhow she is considering herself to be his one and only, i clicked her profile she had a trashy photo of herself in jean shorts and a see through bra (nipples showing through)and NOTHING else. i sved the picture and emailed it to his mother. now she wont look like the kind you take home to momma, is that a good revenge?
2007-11-03 18:37:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Personally, I think it was immature. It gives them the satifaction of knowing that it bothered you. Ever heard the expression "Turn the other cheek"? Just leave it alone. If he is putting them up to it, it only means that he still wants you. He wants to be able to see some hint of jealousy. You almost show it, even though jealousy is not intended, when you respond the way you did. Be the bigger person and ignore it.
2007-11-03 18:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge isn't good for anything. However, these letters are considered harassment and you can take legal action. This would be your best bet. Contact the police and file a harassment report. They should be able to get ahold of your ex or his new girlfriend and place a no contact order on them. This should prevent any further harassment and if not you can take further legal action and press charges.
2007-11-03 18:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by al l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel good about it then it was great revenge! In the future though, Do yourself a favor and block his and there email address', this way you dont have to put up with the BS to begin with!
2007-11-03 19:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, leave these losers alone. Imagine your ex leave you for them, he can do the same to them in the future. If their pics are so trashy, don't bother for a revenge. This will make you look like them - lower class, trashy females.
2007-11-03 18:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by Wild Ginger 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sound like a cheap girl for trying to annoy you like that, emailing her slutty picture to her mother is good enough, probably now her mother would spank her a5s 1000 times, lol.
Who cares what she did to your ex, she want to f.u.c.k him hard, or she want suck his tiny d1ck, let her do anything to him as you have nothing to do with your ex anymore, right?
Enjoy your new life and block any email or message coming from her, ignore her. everytime you see letter from that ***** tear it into pieces and burn it., dont ever read it.
Oh you should write to her this; "thats sound pretty nice! I think you are learning to be a good housewife, I hope you can last with him more than 1 year! and dont bother sent email or write letter to me cause I've already blocked you, and I have burned all your letter including the latest one, hope you are able to enjoy your life!"
Good luck!
2007-11-03 19:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you are feeling "revengeful" but, remember love and hate are the two most powerful emotions we can have, and are very closely related....
They are not happy, or they would not feel the need to write or put someone else up to writing you. Be the "bigger" person, and next time; let it go. You'll be happier, you don't want to give them "control" and when we let someone Else's actions control our actions we are giving them "control"..
2007-11-03 18:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by straycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His mother probably didn't care considering your his ex and you just made yourself look all crazy and look as if you really don't have a new life now of your own. He probably already took her to meet his mother and I am sure she formed her own opinion of the new girlfriend and didn't need any help from you.
2007-11-03 18:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by snowyniner 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What you send into the life of others .. has a way of coming back into your own.
Like the old saying .. "what comes around - goes around".
Tread carefully with revenge .. sometimes it bumergangs.
2007-11-03 18:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by Tara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i thought u said u had a new life now? sure dont sound like it. i got that u were attacked first, but u should be the bigger person and just let fate handle ur ex and his trashy girls
2007-11-03 18:40:54 · answer #9 · answered by mama2be 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is truely getting over him. As long as you take part in his sick game, that can not happen.
2007-11-03 18:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋