Family & Relationships - 3 November 2007

Have your husband or wife had an affair, during the affair did they have a child by the person they had the affair with? How did you handle it? Where you able to forgive them?

2007-11-03 16:43:09 · 12 answers · asked by sexychocolate 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 16:42:58 · 15 answers · asked by Tax Man 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how can a person start life over. i messed up over this sorry tramp back in. 2001. and wished i had never saw that thing . how can i try now to get my life back my wife left me last week once she found out . about it. that ws back in.2001 i tried explaing to my wife she wouldnt listed. now she filed for divorce. that so called woman runt everything. in my life she was no more than trailer park trash. but my wife called how the trash.s ex. husband in his state and went to meet him the trailer park trash was in her.40.s i was just.19. at that time . how do i get my life back over this tramp

2007-11-03 16:41:40 · 9 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 16:38:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's Saturday night, and I'm on Yahoo answers. I feel blue. What do you say?

2007-11-03 16:38:57 · 8 answers · asked by ironcityguy 5 in Singles & Dating

I am 22 years old and just got a tattoo. I will be coming home for Thanksgiving break (one week) from college and then again for Christmas break (one month). I would like to hide my tattoo until the end of christmas break. My tattoo starts at the top of my shoulder and goes down to my bicep on my left arm. That is the only one I have and ever will get. Everywhere I go I always get comments on how great it looks (Cross with dragon, and the words "Only the Strong Survive") It has special meaning to me, but am afraid my parents may kick me out or force me to pay my tuition. I have one semester left, spring. They tried to convince me to not get one. I was told if I hid it from them this long, 2 months with occasional visits from them, I can probably hide it for the 5 weeks. I would be forced to wear long sleeve shirts every day for the week and the month. I am not sure what to say if I get asked a question, even though it is cold. Should I tell them or hide it?

2007-11-03 16:38:10 · 9 answers · asked by nick a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad is a great guy. He's a great dad and all my friends and their families love him. He always took time off to help in my school when I was little, he coached my softball teams and was a scout leader for my brother and me. He loves kids and really enjoys helping out. But I can't tell you how many times I've heard people say things like "What's wrong with him? Why does he want to be around kids? It's not natural." Or they just assume that he's some kind of abuser because no "real man" would want to be around kids. Nobody assumes this about women, even when you read about female teachers running away with their twelve year old students. My dad doesn't complain, but I know it hurts him, and it breaks my heart to see. Why are people so mean?

2007-11-03 16:37:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok i been on off with my BF for a year but we got back together and has been 2 months it is going great....he is super-sweet...but he had me on his number one on his myspace, and he change it and now i am his number 8 he got his good guy friends first than me, i called him today and we talk nothin unsual and he told me he loves me and i did too...but i don't he confuses me ALOT sometimes and i just don't know what to think...sometimes i think he loves me but then sometimes i don't think he doesn't...somebody help me...what should i do...what should i tell him...last thing that i want is to happen for me to loose him :(

2007-11-03 16:37:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 16:37:47 · 12 answers · asked by gary t 2 in Family

2007-11-03 16:34:15 · 30 answers · asked by gary f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so i do alot for my boyfriend and i get like nothing in return and i'm getting sick of it here is all i do for him and this what he does for me:

what i do for him:
-make him food
-give him a b.j
-scratch his back
-masage him
-wash dishes
-clean our apt
-always watch what he wants
-always does what he wants to do
-constantly tellin him i love him and kissing him
-go outta my way to get him a soda out of the fidge when hes closer

what he does for me:
-ahh buy me cigs for him and i both
-will bring home food after work if im not working also but its Mc Donalds
-cant think of anything else right now.

*he complains when i ask him to wash two bowls so i can cook*

i love him with all my heart but its just getting annoying.

and hes got some bad spending habbits at the casino that is also getting annoying. im always thinking in my head that if he doesnt change any of this then i'm done. but im just to nice to say that. and i know in my heart i could never leave.

2007-11-03 16:33:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok... I'm 23 and I have 2 kids... and there's this dude that I think is cute and well... he's such a nice guy.. I can talk to him about anything. He has told me that he likes me a lot and that he wants a chance to prove it...but he's older than me... we are talking about 15 YEARS!!.. and that really bothers me... but I really like him.... so what now??...

2007-11-03 16:30:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"if a guy doesnt ask you out, he doesnt like you"



i made it up cuase i figured that guys are sooo confusing. girls always think a guy likes her and he doesnt. they always think a guy is flirting and to him hes not flirting. i think us girls should llive by this rule

2007-11-03 16:27:21 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

seriously. he is all i think about. and i want to express how much i love him. what are some cute ways i can?

thanks!:]

2007-11-03 16:27:13 · 8 answers · asked by yay 2 in Singles & Dating

She even says "I'm the boss and what I say goes." Or "I make the financial decisions around here." The other day she gave me crap for not having supper ready. She also keeps bugging me to buy her a ring. What am I getting into here?

2007-11-03 16:26:34 · 38 answers · asked by George C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband was drunk when we got married. Someone told me that because he was drunk our marriage might not be legal, anyone know if this is true?

2007-11-03 16:24:59 · 34 answers · asked by Jennifer L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They help me out and are my only friends. I can't seem to make any other friends cause nobody else likes me. I rely on them and have tried to look after myself but find it hard. What can I do? Please don't say I am pathetic

2007-11-03 16:23:12 · 5 answers · asked by Janina 1 in Family

What´s the best way of expressing to a woman you are in love with but doesn´t feel the same towards you that you still want to be a good friend to her, even when the friendship has been somewhat shaken by your feelings and maybe your emotional instability??

2007-11-03 16:22:48 · 2 answers · asked by square smiley 1 in Singles & Dating

from lies?

2007-11-03 16:21:20 · 19 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 16:19:20 · 26 answers · asked by piscesbabyblue24 1 in Weddings

I just got dumped from my girl friend about 3 days ago... i loved her so much but i did the dumpest thing ever.. i was joking around with my friend but we joked around a little to much.. then my girl friend's friend seen me and told her.. i got dumped then i started to just bummed around the house and do nothing.. i fail 1 test so far and i need away to get over it faster so i can get on with life.. plzzz help me.. i know ur gona say.. well u shoudn't of joked around a little to much with a friend but i need help.. and i loved her soo much..

2007-11-03 16:17:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 16:16:55 · 10 answers · asked by ketkonen 7 in Singles & Dating

do guys like girls who are outgoing, loves to laugh, loves to make others laugh, and so forth.

2007-11-03 16:08:15 · 25 answers · asked by victoria v 1 in Singles & Dating

First let me tell the story.
My dad was fired at work because they didn't need him anymore, before that we weren't 'rich' but we weren't 'poor'
I would consider us poor now, because we have a house, food, water, ect. but we don't have as much money as we did before. Okay well now my mom is the only one working and that's doing good. But I need some ideas for things I can make or my cousins, brothers, aunts and uncles, and grandparents, because homemade stuff is better and a little cheaper. So do you have any ideas on how I can help them save money, and ideas on what I can make for my family.
I have
2- 12 year old girl cousins (one preppy one skater)
1-18 year old cousin ( skater)
1- 18 year old brother (kinda punk, kinda skater)
1- 2 year old boy cousin
1-15 year old boy cousin (very preppy)
1-15 year old brother
1- 22 year old brother
1-23 year old sister in law
1-6 year old girl cousin
2- Grandpas
2-Grandmas
1-15 year old girl cousin
4-Aunts
4- Uncles
THANKS

2007-11-03 16:07:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Recently my husband opened a checking account that he kept hidden from me. I found out when I noticed a regularly occurring deposit had not been deposited into our joint account and researched where the money had gone. He says it's because he wants to save money and that he wasn't really trying to hide it because he knew I would get the pay statement. However, he's made sure this is not a joint account and I have no access to this account. I don't believe it's about saving money, because that's not a real issue in our marriage. I'm afraid it's about him wanting to spend money and not wanting me to find out what he's spending the money on. How should I handle this???

2007-11-03 16:05:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It really bothers me when I want to have a serious discussion and he either keeps reading the newspaper or working on the crossword puzzle. He says "I am listening." Or he jokes about things and doesn't take me seriously when I am trying to express something important to me.

2007-11-03 16:05:13 · 10 answers · asked by okie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What sort of thing catches your eye?

2007-11-03 16:03:34 · 13 answers · asked by scouse princess 4 in Singles & Dating

I was asking because thus far, I have.

2007-11-03 16:03:33 · 5 answers · asked by paula r 7 in Friends

OMG I LIKE THIS GUY ALOT AND HE SORT OF FLIRTS WITH ME every one says that i should ask him out or make a move but he seems kind of like self senterd what do i do??

2007-11-03 15:58:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend and I had been together for 8 months and ended breaking up on bad terms, but as time goes by we both realized how much in love we are and got back together, secretly of course because my parents would never understand. Well he got put in jail (for something stupid, nothing like killing nobody or anything, he really is a great guy, he just made a stupid decision) and I've been secretly going up there and have been bringing his child up there with me (who I love with all my heart) to see him. He'll be getting out soon and he wants us to live together and i think he's gonna ask me to marry him, which is great!! only one problem, I'm living with my parents, im 20 by the way, and they are the most controlling people, like crazy controlling, and I dont know how to break it to them that I'm moving out to live with him, I feel like if i do they are gonna like hold me down so i cant go. I'm seriously in love with this man, how do i break it to my parents?

2007-11-03 15:58:05 · 10 answers · asked by *Jace's Mommy* 2 in Marriage & Divorce