I just got dumped from my girl friend about 3 days ago... i loved her so much but i did the dumpest thing ever.. i was joking around with my friend but we joked around a little to much.. then my girl friend's friend seen me and told her.. i got dumped then i started to just bummed around the house and do nothing.. i fail 1 test so far and i need away to get over it faster so i can get on with life.. plzzz help me.. i know ur gona say.. well u shoudn't of joked around a little to much with a friend but i need help.. and i loved her soo much..
2007-11-03 16:17:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry but thats pretty messed up what u did first of all. u need to tell her ur sorry. if u really want her back stop putting urself down and failing tests. be confident and get her back! look, this happened to me, ill give the perspective of ur gf. she's thinking she did something wrong or wasnt enough for you, she's probably blaming herself, so first write her a letter telling her u made a mistake! then send flowers to her house. write her a poem. dont stalk her and call her a billion times! call once a day and ask her if she's ok and if she wants to talk. if she doesnt leave her alone. if she does talk to her tell her ur sorry and that u regret it and ask her out. if she doesnt want to talk to u for longer than 2/3 weeks. let it go. leave her alone and move on. if u go out dont force her to do anything she doesnt want to do. treat her rite and promise never to do dumb **** again. but if u promise, u better not do it again. k this worked for me and i got back with the guy and we've been together for 3 & a half years. hope it works for u. & again...DONT EVER DO IT AGAIN!
2007-11-03 16:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, that's very funny, but i'm here to help. first lesson to learn is that when you love someone, you would never joke to ur friends about the person' f feeling okay. now that is over. I think you need to go to her house and apologized to your girl. Call her, it's likely she won't pick up the phone. Cal her every 1. even in the middle f the night. yeah stay up, because she willrealize that it's the 24the time you call her. I dobt that anyguy had done this, so the next morning, she will not have the courage to ignore your phone calls. okay. good luck
2007-11-03 16:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by Soldier 4 Christ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did a stupid thing and you have to work your way back.I suggest you:1)speak to your girl friend and tell her everything2)admit that all you did was stupid3)tell her that you are very sorry and want her to forgive you4) be honest in your dealings with her, and promise it would never happen again.5)understand that if you fail your classes because you are feeling sorry for your self, you are going to make it difficult for her to care for you.Let her know how much you love and miss her and are miserable without her, to give you another Chance if she truly loved you.Play your cards right, and you will be dancing real soon together.Good luck.
2007-11-03 16:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved her so much then why would you joke around with your other friend?
Answer that for me and maybe someone will "help"
2007-11-03 16:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on your feet man. Quit feeling sorry for yourself and go to her and apologize. Try talking to her to work things out. If it doesn't work, get yourself a different girl. Someone who will love you for who and what you are and not because your cute boy.
2007-11-03 16:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by oldschoolelf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say sorry. admit ur a jerk see what happens. if she still says no then move on with life.
2007-11-03 16:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Dbob 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude, i'm sorry, i don't know what to tell you life must really suck, i'm sorry, and i don't know of a way to get over it faster but time heals all wounds my friend, but i'm sorry about your girl, it must really suck...
2007-11-03 16:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by TexasGirl_300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must have not truly
loved her if u did that.
2007-11-03 16:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by krys_o_cali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋