Family & Relationships - 3 November 2007

I have a girlfriend i've known for 10 years, I wouldn't say dating because we've been in different countries. I love her. Like it's been said (there's nothing as constant as changes) which simply denotes the love isn't there any more because of a heartbreak I suffered through her. It's just as if she's been pushing me to marry her, so not left with no other option, I see myself getting married to her in the future.

2007-11-03 02:37:05 · 6 answers · asked by Azur N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 02:20:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Heres the deal, in grade 5 I was a little innocent kid who didnt have a lot of friends...I was picked on by some grade 8. Then he left the school and so did I cause I moved to a different place. Now, I'm in grade 9, and he is in grade 12! I never thought of him doing anything now beacuse I've grown alot and I'm much more confident and have alot of friends.
I recognized him straight away, and tried not to look him in the eyes. So now I'm 2 months into the school, this was yesterday on friday, I'm showing this book to my friend in the hall beside my locker and he gives me a push and by book hits the locker and I hear laughing...my friend didn't say anything, it was like he didnt even notice...I don't know what to do, it happend so fast.
What if he does it again? I mean, hes pretty strong, on the football team, but I'm his height. He thinks he's a bigshot, yeah one of those cockheads.
For the first time since grade 5 I remembered how it felt to be bullied. It sucks.
Advice?

2007-11-03 02:20:40 · 4 answers · asked by brendan_7210 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is for a friend from college who's getting married next weekend. We haven't seen eachother in about 2 years. During college, we hung out only a few times so it's not like we're very close or anything. I've been to a reception at the same place before and I think the per plate cost is about $110-120. How much is appropriate to give? ps- I'm bringing a date.

2007-11-03 02:18:52 · 42 answers · asked by mdel 5 in Weddings

Versus always complimenting sucking up to them.

2007-11-03 02:08:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i plan to ask her to marry me and i wanted to get her finger size. i dont want to just go up and ask her because that would be to obvious. i dont want to ask her friends either because im sure they would tell her. any tips on how to get her size and also how to propose to her. thanks

2007-11-03 02:03:36 · 16 answers · asked by funny name 1 in Weddings

My wife and I argue all the time and I can let it go and forget about it but she will keep it going for days. I work hard and I am honest to her. I pay all the bills in the house she does not pay a thing. We have a 3 year old son and I give them everything but still she me a loser, asshole, gay and **** like that. Loser im not ...Asshole sometimes I am we all are right? Gay cause once a month the old school boys get together and hang out and we get smashed and smoke some herb this is not every month sometimes we go a couple of months not hanging. She says its gay to hang with the fellas...I say these nuts.....I am tired of getting stepped on for every little thing she makes me feel sick sometimes.Then I get the urge to go out and meet some hot little chick and totally get out of my resposabilites but I have this son with her what the hell should I do?

2007-11-03 02:03:09 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I wanna if its true that girls like the boys with girlish looks more than normal boys??

2007-11-03 02:02:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not having any bridesmaids or groomsmen. It will just be my fiancee, me and our daughter in the wedding. Does anyone have any ideas on how we should do the ceremony. I was thinking I could let her walk down the aisle right before me (the bride), but I am not sure what song to let her walk down too because if it is only her walking by herself? Also where should I have her stand?

2007-11-03 02:00:53 · 3 answers · asked by adriannahsmom 2 in Weddings

I am 19 and pregnant. I am not married, and this seems to affect a lot of people on this site! I am in a loving relationship with my baby's father who loves and supports me. We live together and have a stable relationship. To me, there is nothing wrong with this. Just because we dont have a piece of paper that says we love each other on it does not change a thing. We know how we feel about each other, and dont feel we have to prove it right now. Some people on this site seem to take this personal, and seem to judge you if your not married before having children. I would just like to say that it is 2007, not 1907 and not everyone has to be married before they have children.

Does anyone feel the same or disagree?

2007-11-03 02:00:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have just started dating a guy who works a lot (~80+ hours per week).

We have a dynamic whereby he will be having so much fun when we're together that he'll offhandedly make plans with me for the next day. But I think he doesn't always think this through, and then realizes that he will have to get up early and then ends up canceling with me. This leaves me feeling disappointed and without enough time to make other plans.

I don't want him to feel obligated to spend a lot of time with me. I'm afraid he'll start to think I'm too much of a drag on his time since he always has to "let me down." But the thing is that he invites me!!

I don't know how to handle this. Basically, I want hanging out with me to feel like fun, not another obligation on his time. It's such a new relationship that I don't know how to broach the topic.

2007-11-03 01:53:53 · 8 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1 in Singles & Dating

My married friend is suffering !!
I just dont know why her husband is doing this ! PLZ HELP

Here's the thing .. He's always "investigating her body" meaning : he checks for bad smell .. any un-wanted hair .. if her nails are not done .. her skin if it's soft or dry or pimples .. snifs all over .. checks the clothes she wears .. her hair smell .. etc .. etc .. ETC

He wants her to be the most clean soft good-smelling person on earth !!!

i mean the girl IS CLEAN ! and there's nothing wrong with sweat or pimples or unwanted hair as long as she gets rid of these things quickly but he complains alot ! as if she's not clean or normal

Take this for example .. ok us girls have unwated body hair .. shouldnt we wait for it to come out a little bit so we would wax it off ? but in his case if he finds one or two dots (tip of the hair) coming out then she's not a clean person and she should take care !

2007-11-03 01:49:09 · 28 answers · asked by Maria 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating someone for a short while and things have been going great. Even though I'm shy and insecure, he seems really into me (the feeling is mutual).

However, I am so full of self doubt...I know I ask for too much reassurance from him. I just don't even always realize I'm doing this until I think about it afterwards, so it's hard to avoid it.

I'm already in therapy, but I need help with getting my anxiety. My therapist thinks I have these problems because my dad left home when I was very young.

How does someone who is confident act in a relationship? I want to learn to be more like this!

2007-11-03 01:47:40 · 5 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1 in Singles & Dating

the hottest girls ever, not just one or two but loads of them, he always has hot girls with him in every lecture and class, I'm not gay but I wouldn't say he is good looking, he just has a chubby chubby face and chubby chubby body. How does he do it?

My friend said its either:

1) He has a good personality
2) He has a big tongue???

2007-11-03 01:47:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every guy is asking, What does a girl look for in a guy. WELL.
Sweet, sometimes quiet, like just sitting at the lunch table, and just looking at the people talking is cute.
When you talk, look into the girl's eyes, and look right in the middle of the eye.
NEVER say things to piss us off.
Never use "Your mom" jokes with us, or infront of us, those are for your friends, NOT US. girls are very gentle, they are like glass, once you shatter the glass, it cant be new every again.
so if you break up with a girl, dont go and find another girl 2 days later.
ALSO do brief hand touches, be understanding, HUGS, HUGS HUGS HUGS. and just be overall sweet and caring.

2007-11-03 01:43:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 01:25:40 · 26 answers · asked by Eliot 4 in Marriage & Divorce

It's like this this girl pretends to be really friendly but I know she is faking it. Also when she is around no one talks to me and then when she isn't around I get a tepid hello from people I first thought were really intresting. (I live in a shared house by the way) She dominates every part of the house her stuff is all over (I haven't done the same, I'm scared someone will 'accidently' break them) The reason I ask girls is because they are wiser about undercover b*tchy attacks why boys seem oblivious. I don't want to play any games I actually just want to live in harmony but that seems impossible as she won't stop until I leave which I was considering. Why do you think I've been singled out? What would you do personally?

2007-11-03 01:24:19 · 18 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Friends

I have in my house tropical fish a platy tetras. and a pond in my garden with goldfish and comets. I find them very teraputic dose any one else find them theraputic?

2007-11-03 00:45:04 · 3 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay my friend is dating the player of the school, and I keep asking her about everything what they talk about and all that. I just I am getting more into it then she is. Should I stay back and let them deal with it or should I be nosey and not let my friend get hurt in the next three weeks (the longest this guy has dated a girl (he dumps them))

Help Me!!!

2007-11-03 00:34:11 · 5 answers · asked by Victoria 1 in Friends

2007-11-03 00:31:29 · 29 answers · asked by Kapil m 1 in Singles & Dating

from his reaction it seem that he loves me alot but i donot no the reality please help me i really need a help plssssssssssssss

2007-11-03 00:30:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well Rakee sawant in any of the interviews is more of open invitation, nowerdays she is dancing with a guy in Naach Baliya, I dont know whether she will stick on to him. She is used to use and throw philosophy. Next all of a sudden she developed love towards her mother, when she was thrown out for all her tantrums and she openly proclaimed that she moved away from house. I don't know how many dicks later she will marry or will she go Praveen Babi way

2007-11-03 00:25:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Somethign that really ment something to you or something that you really liked.

2007-11-03 00:24:24 · 16 answers · asked by chrishizzie 2 in Singles & Dating

what would you say to insult that person.
to get your own back.

2007-11-03 00:16:50 · 9 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok-at my age-I should know better (late 30`s)-but this situation is causing me a lot of pain-and I need serious advice please.

I am in a long standing relationship-but I don`t feel the same for him as I did years ago-how can I rekindle my old feelings to make it work again?

He isn`t affectionate or passionate towards me anymore and I feel really lonely.

The flip-side us I have fallen in love with a friend who lives a long way away-I think he has feelings for me too-but he is also in a realtionship-trubled one-but it`s still a relationship-and it`s with another friend of ours-so I certainly cannot pursue him at the present-I would not hurt my friend or my partner that way.

I feel that because I am protecting everyone else`s feelings though-it`s me who is getting hurt-How on earth do i forget the guy I have fallen in love with,and re-fall in love with my partner that I no longer feel attracted to ?

Serious advice only please.
Thanks.

2007-11-03 00:13:19 · 7 answers · asked by jennywilson1334 1 in Singles & Dating

Situation 1 :
A boy and a girl are in love with each other. The girl here is casual and outspoken. The boy here is very possessive with the girl. So he doesn’t want the girl to talk or move freely with anyone. The boy expresses his dislike and anger to the girl if she moves closely with others – even with her brother like relations and also with his friends. In this case, sometimes the girl feels like ending their relationship. But at that time the boy feels sorry for what he has done and expresses his apology for what he has done. He says he does all these things out of deep love with her. In a later situation the boy does the same thing again.
Situation 2 :
A boy and a girl are in love with each other. The girl here is very free with others and outspoken. She moves closely with others boys (friends). The guy here takes things openly. He accepts the girl as she is. He says I love only your heart(soul). Kindly cast your vote for anyone of the above to help me take decision..

2007-11-03 00:11:44 · 11 answers · asked by nethra 1 in Singles & Dating

... are only friends with you because of physical proximity, and invite you to parties only when a present is involved for one of them? but leave you off the invite list for normal gatherings, or don't show up when it's your b'day.

2007-11-03 00:09:06 · 21 answers · asked by You'll Never Take Me Alive!! 3 in Friends