Okay my friend is dating the player of the school, and I keep asking her about everything what they talk about and all that. I just I am getting more into it then she is. Should I stay back and let them deal with it or should I be nosey and not let my friend get hurt in the next three weeks (the longest this guy has dated a girl (he dumps them))
Help Me!!!
2007-11-03 00:34:11 · 5 answers · asked by Victoria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nosey is ...well, nosey. Not a good look I would think. Concerned is good but wanting to know every detail? Try to give your friend a bit of space. Unfortunately in relationships we all have to learn the hard way. Maybe this guy will last longer than 3 weeks who knows? Let their dating game proceed without your 'Penny's worth'. 'Be there' for your friend if you have to, when & if the player of the school stops playing with your friend. Unless you have a crystal ball to predict the future I feel you could support your friend with whatever she wants to do. While the goings good be glad your friend is having a bit of fun.
2007-11-03 00:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Kazamataz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already answered your own question! You know you have no business stickin your nose in other peoples affairs, but ya do it anyway, and chances are high that you will continue this behavior till you stick your nose in the wrong place and cause drama and unwanted stress in your life, so before you get their I,ll give ya some advise, keep your opionion to yourself, soon you will be a adult, and its not so cute anymore when you butt in where you shouldnt, its all a part of being mature, so its time to grow up, and shut up!
2007-11-03 01:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by penelope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to learn this on her own .. if you break up their relationship there is a great chance that she will recent you for that... not thank you for helping... the best thing you can do is let her learn and then be there if she falls and gets hurt... but hope that dont happen.
2007-11-03 00:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first instinct was the correct one: hang back and let it happen, because ultimately, what was your other choice anyway? We all have to learn our own lessons in our own time for them to have validity and sticking power. (Of course there are limits to this claim....you wouldn't let her walk in front of a speeding car for the experience, but since this guy in no way qualifies as a physical danger, let her own her own experiences.) Besides, she may very well have a trick or two for him. Who's the hunter and who's the hunted, anyway?
2007-11-03 00:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to be up in her biz so much? Don't you have a life of your own?? Telling her anything about this person will just make you look the jealous chump! Even if he is a player it isn't your place to say anything! Stop being nosy...she will learn...just be there for her when it happens and don't even THINK about saying I told you so
2007-11-03 00:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by KayKay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋