Family & Relationships - 3 November 2007

Hey my husband wane get divorce and go to a other country. What I can do I have a child in a age of 1 year and 1month.
Please helped me

2007-11-03 06:02:18 · 11 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I used to have a great sex life. Recently though, things have changed. My husband always used to initiated the foreplay, and was always up for sex, however since I've been pregnant, he never does that anymore! No more of those come from behind cuddle hugs, no more touching and fondling in a sexual manor, no more of those intense kissing sessions, absolutely nothing! Now I always have to begin the foreplay, and he barely puts any effort into things at all. Who do you think is supposed to start things more often, the woman or the man? How can I bring more romance back into the marriage?

2007-11-03 06:01:47 · 10 answers · asked by Mommy! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i are married for 5 years. He is a very blunt person and dun care abt me and how he talks to me. So I always secretly take revenge by cutting up his clothes and throwing away his precious stuff. Just then, when he shouted at me, i simply walked off; retreated to my room and addded half a tube of analgesic cream to his shower gel and used his toothbrush to brush the toilet bowl. How can we continue on like this?!

2007-11-03 06:00:03 · 22 answers · asked by rhappy28 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i can never, my heart starts beating fast at the sight of them, no way can i do that. i cant even approach them. i am talented but due to this fear i am not able to make it. i love to speak closely to them like a friend but will they give us respect and behave normally? or feel we r insulting them by talking so casuallly.

2007-11-03 05:59:56 · 32 answers · asked by Bubli 2 in Friends

HELP ME!! My friend has been off her meds for a few weeks now and well she is a totally different person.. She doesn't want to do anything anymore she is very negative towards things and well is just not herself. She has a child and I have notice that she snaps a little more at her now that she is not taking her Effexor.. Can someone give me advice on what I should say to her??

2007-11-03 05:58:22 · 14 answers · asked by Nevaeh 1 in Friends

i resently met an 18 yr old senoir at school i am a freshman and he keep calling me and he walks me to my bus, i was wondering if you think this is an appropeate thing. cause i dk if i should trust an 18 yr old i mewan y would he have interest in me? please get back to me, he is really nice and sweet tlkin me i just dont know if he wants me just for sex or wants me for me.

2007-11-03 05:58:13 · 36 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

appearence. what would you do to change it?

2007-11-03 05:57:59 · 30 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Singles & Dating

i have a problem i cant stop and think at the same time i came up to my cousin and told her all the rude stuff i think about her and everytime i come up to a person i hate i always say whats bad about them

2007-11-03 05:56:23 · 2 answers · asked by Catlover L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So we broke up about almost three weeks ago after 2yr dating. My ex bf wasn't satisfied our relationship. He wanted to live for himself right now. I respect what he feels for his life, and so we broke up. He said I am the only one he can be honest. So we care each other, and met three times so far. Last time, he said he misses me, esp my smile, which actually made me satisfied. It might sound stupid, but that satisfaction made me think I should move on, and I was until last night.

I went to music show with my ex bf last night, and I am so depressed now. Reasons is he looked like he is completely got over me now, and ready for new life. I am a foreigner here, and told him that I might go back to my country for work, and he said nicely, "that sounds a good idea." That's it. I didn't reply anything. You know even friends would say they would miss me if I tell them I go back to my country. But he didn't and it hurt my feeling terribly.

Do men get over ex gf that easily?

2007-11-03 05:55:20 · 10 answers · asked by lime 1 in Singles & Dating

My grandfather is not going to be around much longer, he is in the hospital and the Dr.'s say it's not looking good. He adores my daughter who is 7 months old, but I don't know if it would be appropriate to take her to his funeral when he does pass. What do I do? Do I take her and just plan on going out in the hall if she becomes fussy or do I find her a sitter? I'm really confused on this one. Please help! Thanks!

2007-11-03 05:54:45 · 9 answers · asked by TAS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom is a good person but she's starting to head down the wrong path. My mom and her boyfriend of 4yrs broke up about 6mths ago and ever since then she's been a single mother with just me. She is broke. She's also been dwelling about her ex and now she's trying to meet a new guy. So, far all she seems to meet are alcoholics and scums. She seems to feel desperate about meeting a guy that she doesn't care who shes meeting anymore. Now, she is dating losers and drinking and I dont know what to do. I pray for her and I try to encourage her but its not working. I mean she is not that out of control but soon she might be out of control. What should I do? Help please....

2007-11-03 05:52:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have just seen a profile on situk(sex in the uk) it was my boyfriends. I guessed the password and signed in. I seen a box he had ticked for one2one sex and an inbox full of unread messages dating bk from june this year. The profile only says his willing to travel, he has no photo and nothing typed on it. Im guessing he does not use it as the messages would be read. but the point is it hurts cos you think you know someone and when you see them on a site thats not really friendly i think and feel different about him. I dont wanna get involved with somone whos got dirty secrets and not to mention his on some other swinger/adult site saying his in to older women to have sex with to fill his fantasy, these profiles may well be from a long time ago, but what does that say about him, if his joined sites like that i think whats he doing now. Im not going to tell him i have seen this info, but im starting to question my trust for him and wonder about his hidden side i dont know about.

2007-11-03 05:52:26 · 9 answers · asked by ice_castles 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for a while now, and he just asked me to be his girlfriend officially yesterday. I'm 21, he's 24 and he's very mature and everything I could ever ask for in a man.
I know it's incredibly shallow, but he's not very good looking. I feel like I should date someone "better" looking.... I know that sounds awful but it's true.
Is this a stupid reason to break up with someone? Am I a complete *****? He's even told me that he doesn't know what a girl like me is doing with him.
The final thing that's bothering me about this, is that I date to find a future husband. If I ever married him and had children, it scares me to think about what they may look like...

2007-11-03 05:49:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 05:48:25 · 18 answers · asked by Nicole B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy i like but i don't know if he likes me back. He stares at me sometimes and he pokes and plays around with me. He is friends with my ex (who apparently still likes me) and my ex was staring at me. The he told the guy i like something and the guy i like plus my ex were both staring at me. He talks to me and whenever he is looking at me and i look at him he looks away really fast and then looks at me again. And he sits next to me alot.

2007-11-03 05:47:37 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother specifically told me not to eat the leftover cake in the fridge, and I did anyway. I called her and made a big fuss about my dad eating it before I got a chance to, and she seemed fine. I am afraid that she knows I'm lying! What should I do if she confronts me about it?

2007-11-03 05:47:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok well I am in college and one of my previous college teachers, which she is also my friend, well her husband works with me and I am in one of his phys. ed classes. Well at first I just took the class b/c I thought that it would be fun b/c it is racquetball. It has been about 3 months now that I have been in the class and I am the only girl out of 4 ppl. Well I feel bad about it, but i kinda like her husband in a way. He always messes around w/ me and is kinda flirtacious and I have caught him looking me up and down. I am friends w/his wife and he knows it and I talk to her alot through email. I feel like there is like something there between us.. but something REALLY SMALL. I am going to change jobs and just finish out the semester but... when you kinda like someone and you "think" or "feel" like they like you back... are you usually right? I know its bad but I cant help it... what should I do?

2007-11-03 05:46:47 · 8 answers · asked by sagittarius_girl806 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 16 havent lost it but my best friend did last weekend..... how old was your partner and did you regret it later??
<3

2007-11-03 05:46:47 · 36 answers · asked by coachxovuitton 3 in Singles & Dating

It feels like there are lots of boys that are interested in me but are too intimidated or scared of rejection that they never ask me out directly. How can I make them be more...confident? I guess...
ps. I would never ask out a boy.

2007-11-03 05:46:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i fell kinda ashamed, my wife gigles when she grabs one of the earpieces of my ipod

im a dashboard confessional kinda guy, am i weird? what do you think? id play "stolen" for her, then "so long sweet summer" for my kid and vindicated to make myslef feel good

2007-11-03 05:45:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A great friend of mine got into a fight with his wife last night & she hit him. I haven't seen him but it sounded like it even left some marks. He's a professional & there is no finanical need involved, she's the one dependent on him, if anything. I doubt he would have told me if he wasn't caught up in the moment and didn't call me right after the incident. I'm outraged by 2 things: 1- My own reaction-- if it was a girlfriend, she would be staying in my guest room as we speak. I was upset, but not to the point of going to get him. 2- As upset as he was, he wouldn't have even dreamt about pressing charges, which is something I would have considered if anybody put their hand on me, not saying always would, but it would be a consideration. I can't help but wonder how often this occurs in relationships & how often this is overlooked even when there are injuries! Why the double standard?

2007-11-03 05:44:47 · 11 answers · asked by Lioness 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well I am in college and one of my previous college teachers, which she is also my friend, well her husband works with me and I am in one of his phys. ed classes. Well at first I just took the class b/c I thought that it would be fun b/c it is racquetball. It has been about 3 months now that I have been in the class and I am the only girl out of 4 ppl. Well I feel bad about it, but i kinda like her husband in a way. He always messes around w/ me and is kinda flirtacious and I have caught him looking me up and down. I am friends w/his wife and he knows it and I talk to her alot through email. I feel like there is like something there between us.. but something REALLY SMALL. I am going to change jobs and just finish out the semester but... when you kinda like someone and you "think" or "feel" like they like you back... are you usually right? I know its bad but I cant help it... what should I do?

2007-11-03 05:44:17 · 9 answers · asked by sagittarius_girl806 1 in Family

i'm just curious which one would be more "polite", or whatever to do. and, what would count as "making a move"?

2007-11-03 05:42:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm getting married in 2 weeks and my fiance never seems to want to have sex. I know there is no one on the side cuz when he's not working he's at home. we spend ALL of our spare time together. i also just had a baby almost 3 months ago. his baby of course. but i've lost almost ALL of my pregnancy weight. I feel like i've tried everything. sexy outfits, lingerie, giving him little dances and he STILL hardly ever wants to have sex. now i know he enjoys it and always has. and My "lady parts" haven't changed at all cuz i had a c section so that's not it either. what can i do? he only really wants to get intimate a couple times a month and i try for a couple of times a week. i mean we're young!! i'm 18 and he's 20. so why doesn't he want me? :-/ he keeps on telling me i'm still sexy and even when i get him "excited" he still doesn't want to have sex. I'm just so confused. anyone experience this?

2007-11-03 05:41:36 · 17 answers · asked by Xander and Marie's Mommy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl and she is frfiendly towords me but how do i get her to like me like a boyfriend or something

2007-11-03 05:40:09 · 23 answers · asked by Joe M 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been separated 7 months now, because he had and a drug and alcohol problem. He has now been sober for 4 months. We have been talking and wanting to work out the rest of our problems. All the rest of our problems are things from the past that continually get brought up. Do you thing we can get past it with counseling? Or is our relationship too torn? Please help I love him more than anything.

2007-11-03 05:39:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 05:39:04 · 11 answers · asked by Moore55 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Its a big problem in texas but for some reason i find myself always giving. There was this one guy that had a sign that said "i need a beer why lie" and i gave him money. I felt he was being honest and i liked that. Also when i give i feel like im going to get a blessing in return. Most of them but drubs a n boos so really i just im making the problem worst. What do you think about this?

2007-11-03 05:38:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 05:35:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

okay this girl likes me but i like another girl

i cant get with that girl yet so i want to try this one

how can i tell her we cant show our relationship at school and we can have fun afterschool?

also my friend liked her and talks alot of trash about her being dirty so i dont want him to see me with her

shes really hot but ive heard things abotu her from my friend that made me look at her a different way

2007-11-03 05:35:14 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating