Ok well I am in college and one of my previous college teachers, which she is also my friend, well her husband works with me and I am in one of his phys. ed classes. Well at first I just took the class b/c I thought that it would be fun b/c it is racquetball. It has been about 3 months now that I have been in the class and I am the only girl out of 4 ppl. Well I feel bad about it, but i kinda like her husband in a way. He always messes around w/ me and is kinda flirtacious and I have caught him looking me up and down. I am friends w/his wife and he knows it and I talk to her alot through email. I feel like there is like something there between us.. but something REALLY SMALL. I am going to change jobs and just finish out the semester but... when you kinda like someone and you "think" or "feel" like they like you back... are you usually right? I know its bad but I cant help it... what should I do?
2007-11-03 05:46:47 · 8 answers · asked by sagittarius_girl806 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
FRIENDS DON'T PLAY WITH OTHER FRIEND'S SIGNIFICANT OTHER.
Why is it so hard for some to follow this rule?
If you pursue this relationship--what kind of "friend" does that make you????
What kind of man does that make him???
Stop thinking only of yourself---for once!!!
2007-11-03 06:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you know what is right from wrong so im giving you an advice that you may of thought of already and is to of course stay away from that guy even thoug he may not have bad intention with you the point is that hes marry and smart people like your self shouldnt star any bs with a so call friend even if is a really small little tiny feeling wich in other words means I WANT TO HIT THAT IN THE DOWN LOW!!!!!!
2007-11-03 13:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally i dont think its worth it to ruin a whole marriage just because you feel something really small. i think youre right to switch out
and even with knowing he does this you can kind of tell hes not really a good man for a relationship. in my opinion i wouldnt want to go out with someone who i already know has the possibility of cheating
2007-11-03 13:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by moron 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him alone and quit thinking about him. He is married and if you are probably just reading into his actions. He may just want to sleep with you or is curios about it. You are betraying your friendship with his wife by allowing this to happen. Tell him that you value your friendship with his wife and that you don't want to ruin that, so the two of you need to back off.
2007-11-03 12:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by randmthots 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are right that he likes you... but I also think that you are right by changing jobs. Don't do it... you'll not only screw up their relationship, but your friendship and you'll have to live with the regret. Better to just let it flatter you and move on with life.
2007-11-03 12:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by Me!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do you think about just feeling good about someone finding you attractive? and that his attention is a compliment? You are hopefully going to get this kind of attention for the rest of your life get used to it, enjoy it, don't freak out over it.
2007-11-03 12:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by punkiy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How many times today will you be asking this question? See my previous answer.
2007-11-03 12:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go for it ...if you dont mind losing a friend ....but what goes around ...comes around remember that
2007-11-03 12:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋