Family & Relationships - 3 November 2007

So my fiance and I live together and we are sending out save the date cards and I wasn't sure how we should list our names for the return address. Any one know?

2007-11-03 07:19:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My parents and his has been friends for more than 30 years and there's never been bad blood between me and his family but since i got together with there son the gossip never stops. and it's all bad things said about me that's not even true.His mom who was the worst died recently. After a big family fight between my fiance and his family we dont see any of the family. That's the way we chose it. We're getting married December, a intimate wedding and we're only inviting his father and suster from his site of the family.

2007-11-03 07:18:37 · 19 answers · asked by asaukv 1 in Family

She has had a pretty crappy past and because of that does not trust anyone. I have lied to her a couple times, but only about small things. I know that is terrible, but we have gotten through that. Her friends and her are in like competition with each other, trying to be the best looking or what ever. On halloween, one of her friends dressed like a real slutt and she thinks that I enjoyed it, when in reality i just thought i was disgusting and i the only one i care for is her. She thinks i am just saying that and that if i really did like her or something that i wouldnt tell her. but in reality, i love my girlfriend and only her. thanks for the help.

2007-11-03 07:18:09 · 18 answers · asked by brunzy23 1 in Singles & Dating

and STILL have a girlfriend?

2007-11-03 07:17:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 07:17:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've recently found out that two people 'like' me through other people, although I pretty much knew it in the first place anyway.
But now I've actually been TOLD, I seem to not want to talk to them, I try to avoid them and give them short answers when I'm pretty much forced to talk to them and I can't look them in the eye.

Its not that I was great friends with these two people in the first place anyway, but I talked to them as friends...but now I come across mean and when I look back on it I think what an idiot I'd been to them.

Why do I do this?
What is wrong with me? No, I don't 'want' to date either of them, but why can't I just carry on like before?

2007-11-03 07:15:50 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 07:14:40 · 22 answers · asked by SuperOverDrive 2 in Singles & Dating

Does it matter if a couple decides to live together for life but dont get married.

2007-11-03 07:12:26 · 13 answers · asked by prakash k 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My new fiancee and I have been together for 4 1/2 years. However, she periodically asks if I ever cheated on her during anythime since we've been together. Any advice on how we can make this better?

2007-11-03 07:12:23 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Let me count the ways...
I turned off that dreadful alarm clock.
I made Crock Pot Ribs
I cleaned the kitchen
I swept and mopped the floors
I cleaned the bathrooms
I picked up the clutter from about the house
I vaccumed
I woke you with gentle kisses a cup of coffee and a smoke
All to say thank you for all that you do for us and simply that I love you.

2007-11-03 07:11:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in a very new and very intense relationship. Usually I'm a take it slow kinda person, but this guy totally swept me off my feet. I met him 4 weeks ago through a mutual friend, he told me he loved me within hours of meeting me. Told me he wanted to marry me/live with me/kids with me. I've met his kids from his previous marriage. He's 16 years older than me, which is not unusual as I prefer older guys. Things is, he is more intense than I am and more sure about 'us'. When I spoke about having doubts early on and if I ever say anything remotely hurtful (even without intending to) he tends to be very sensitive and take it to heart and then get cross/upset/not talk to me for a couple of days. On the last occasion where he was ignoring me, I couldn't stand it, and travelled down to see him (2 hour train journey) without telling him and basically I was snubbed by him, he treated me as though he did't want me at all even after I'd made the effort to come down to see him (continued below..)

2007-11-03 07:10:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just bought my friend 2 martini glasses, they are hand painted with her wedding date and the couple's name. They were $25 each. I guess you can drink out of them, but they are more for display. They are really nice, but do you think they are too expensive.

I'm getting her another gift as well, I just saw these in the store and they were so nice. I couldn't past them up.

2007-11-03 07:10:03 · 13 answers · asked by J'adore 4 in Weddings

aside from the typical lies parents tell like santa and the easter bunny etc.....

2007-11-03 07:09:18 · 27 answers · asked by jacks_insanity 3 in Friends

when have you hurt someone ?? and why did you hurt them ??

2007-11-03 07:06:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I have recently split up from my husband and now my neighbours ex has shown a lot of interest in me he keeps calling me, he lived with her for 6 years and whilst he lived with her he told me that he had strong feelings for me (her and I understandably dont get along she really hates me). He left her 2 years ago and hasn't seen her since. I have always regarded him as a friend but to say I'm not attracted to him would be a lie. He is calling me every weekend wanting to come over but I feel sory for my neighbour as she still loves him and I have just split up from my husband and don't want to go on the rebound.. it would be a whole lot easier if I wasn't so lonely and I didn't find him so attractive! Should I let him into my life or is it still too soon?

2007-11-03 07:05:41 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I like him. I really like him. I want to tell him but the problem is I don't want it to be akward, as I have my Chemistry class with him.
How do I let him know? Without making it akward..

2007-11-03 07:04:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do I do now? She doesn't want me to marry my fiance because he doesn't have a good enough job. So She says she won't pay for the wedding yet I know she has the money for me to have my dream wedding because when my dad died she got a lot of money from his insurance policy and put some in a savings bond a long time ago and said it was for my wedding one day. I know it still exists because I've seen it but she won't let me use it. And I know legally I can't get it because my name is nowhere on it. But I was really depending on her to pay for the wedding because I really can't afford a big wedding since I'm a senior in college and I graduate in May and I was planning on getting married in June or July. I offered to let her pay for it and I'll pay her back but she said no because she doesn't want me marrying him and thinks I should consider someone more well off! What am I going to do? Right now, I can't even afford to buy a dress!

2007-11-03 07:02:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

because its really hard . and when ever i get a chance in to scared to tell them

2007-11-03 07:00:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my little sister and my husband are really close (not like an affair type of anything, seems like really good friends...oh god i hope so). now she's just 15 and he's 23, she asked me if it was ok she asked him out on a "date" like something to eat saying "just to know him a little better. im thinking, dont you know him pretty well enough? i really think its weird how they treat each other. she's always doing my job, wife things. she cooks him little cookies, and she always asks for a "friendly hug" from him. i think personaly its fine that she can hug him, but yesterday really drew the line. after she hugged him, she asked him to bend over, we were both supprised, she leaned in and kissed him quickly. now i know i shouldn't over react but i swear i saw tongue!! she just said" just a tiny kiss" now im just really mad and my husband is still pretty boggled and confused becasue he just wanted to be friendly with her. should i still let her eat out with him? i swear if anything happens....

2007-11-03 06:59:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't seen this side of him come out and wasn't sure if he was capable of it, but recently he has been more touchy/feely, gives me a kiss on my cheek when I least expect it and hugs me before he leaves me. He does a lot more caressing too, which I like, because they are gentle caresses. Why all of a sudden? He's not the kind of guy who is going to verbally express himself. He's been very secretive with his feelings for me too. I just sense it and I know he cares. I don't need to ask him.

2007-11-03 06:59:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the afternoon i went to sleep as i wasnt feeling well.During that time my husband was in front of computer. Now when i watched youtube website i noticed from the history that he watched sexy girls videos along with other normal videos especially girls with big boobs.I got very jealous.Is it fair while I am sleeping feeling unwell he watches this kind of videos?Now he isnt at home when he comes back i want to leave computer page on cover boys or something to make him feel that i was watching it to make him feel the same. I dont know should i do it? Generally at the moment we are good towards each other and it improved recently i am a bit worried i will spoil it by doing the same to him .

2007-11-03 06:58:17 · 15 answers · asked by Sindy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but he is addicted to meth and gambiling how can I get him to quit using?

2007-11-03 06:58:07 · 26 answers · asked by KCS 1 in Singles & Dating

He never had anything to do with our son (his choice) I dont know where he is now or how to contact him (his parents pretend they dont know his whereabouts either), Ive broken off contact with his whole family now as they dont seem too bothered about my son either. I was wondering if I remarried would my new husband be able to adopt my son without my ex husbands consent? My ex husbands name is on the birth certificate.

2007-11-03 06:57:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We're not dating.

First she goes into a story about this horrible class she took and how she had go through alot to drop the class.

Then she says that the last time she went to the class this classmate of hers suddenly started asking her like 50 questions about herself (that's not why she withdrew.) Then the next class session she doesn't show up and this guy emails her to see if she's okay. The day she drops, the guy chases her down in the hallway to find out why she wasn't in class and why she hasn't responded to his emails. She tells him she's withdrawing. He looks disappointed, then sends her an email a few minutes later saying he's sorry she's not going to be in the class because he looked forward to getting to know her better, and saying that he wants to hear about her experiences at her field internship.

What would you think and what would you say??

2007-11-03 06:56:07 · 2 answers · asked by Jane T 2 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering because I'm reading the stuff on here and a lot of men are complaining about their wives having kids, gaining weight and so the passion died. As for women, it's more of a communication, emotional thing.

2007-11-03 06:54:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for 3 years and he never brings up the future (i.e. marriage, moving in together, engagement, etc)

I never pushed the issue b/c I didn't want to rush something. But, we are past 3 years and still nothing. I try to bring up things like, "So and So, is getting married in 2009", etc. To see if it will spark any conversations or comments. Nothing.

He has an introverted personality and is very private. He internalize more of his thoughts then he does verbalize them.

I don't know what to do. I feel stuck in this situation. I can't read what's going on, in terms of the subject of marriage and future. I can read him elsewhere. I know what he'll say about something before he says it. I know what he'll order when we go out to eat. I know his quirks, his habits and his mannerisms.

But, what he's thinking for the future...............I'm Clueless.

What should I do?

2007-11-03 06:52:31 · 11 answers · asked by J'adore 4 in Weddings

He found out I like him. He rejected me, but what is it with him looking at me now constantly? Someone explain whats going on here?

2007-11-03 06:51:28 · 16 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Singles & Dating

from before.When we are out together he's very carrying,gentle etc.The problem is that he isn't so steady in his promises,2 times so far we made some plans but the last moment he cancelled by telling me he was tired and he wanted to relax in his house.I'm not a pressing type but i'm surprised as he was the one to propose all these things.We're both 26 and we didn't have sex yet.how you see this situation?

2007-11-03 06:50:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just think my life would be so much better if I could have zero contact with them ever again and move somewhere to the other side of the world so I'd never even have to know what's going on with any of them. Anyone else ever feel that way?

2007-11-03 06:49:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Are Hindu girls and women rejecting their own religion,parents and husbands for their blind love for other religion and men

2007-11-03 06:48:34 · 8 answers · asked by venkatesh v 1 in Marriage & Divorce