What do young women value most looks+money or intelligence?

Question

Thanks, but really my question is about guys who are rich vs guys who are intelligent - meaning: in my experience a guy who is smart is considered to be a threat to 20's-30 year old women because they question and will not simply do whatever she says.

I find women to be extremely hypocritical - they want everything and when the man does not have exactly what she wants she throws him to the wolves.

As to Confidence, I have. So, girls - please make up your mind and make a choice - why do you love the wrong type of guy?

Answer 1

I personally like intelligence, but looks and money aren't a bad thing to have.

Answer 2

My opinion is the likes of Britney Spears, Beyonce and any other hoochie mama who bares most of her flesh gives off a very bad idea of what a female has to do to get a mans attention. Sure, they get the attention... the wrong kind of attention... and there isnt any courting involved... some shooters a ride home and a little sex... and no phone call the next day. If a woman wants a relationship for more than a day.... do not bare all... you can be sexy without showing your boobs and your bellybutton along with your ar$$ cheeks. You can wear a mini skirt... and a short sleeved turtle neck and look hot... add some high heels or knee length boots... viola... sexy but mysterious.... and never ever sleep with a guy on the first night, or the second, third or fourth... if you want this guy.... then make him wait a month, if he doesnt, he aint worth it. And do use your brain..... talk about current events.... not what kind of makeup you bought at the mall... guys dont give a crap about your shopping trips or nails being done. let him know you have other interests, you play sports... you go hiking... you do volunteer work at the animal shelter.. whatever... your not a high maintenance crank pot as well as your no dummy when it comes to men you dont just sleep with anyone and mean it. You know what guys want?... a good looking girl who can dress up and go to the city for a night (and not necessarily skinny model thin, most guys like hips and curves) as well as put on some sweats and go canoeing.... she is wholesome but in the privacy of the bedroom.. she isnt.. she is a whore but only with him..... letting it all hang out in public is not what a guy really wants... for a night.. but not forever...

Answer 3

I love intelligence in a man; very, very sexy. Also, as I begin to like a person, they become more attractive--even beautiful.

About money. I hate it. Honestly I do. I have a lot of reasons, but this is not the time to go into it. I live a minimalist existence by choice; so really, if I was in love, I could live with my lover in a tar paper shack with a dirt floor and I would be a very happy person.

Answer 4

I would say intelligence if I had to choose between the three but for me it would be trust and what's on the inside and not what they look like on the outside. you can always make money and why would I want a guy to support me when I rather be independent and support myself with my own money. I'm no gold digger. most women would say, in this, order money, looks, and then intelligence.

Answer 5

I'll go for Intelligence.
Almost anyone can go far if he/she possesses one of these traits.

With good looks, u fit anywhere.
With money, ppl will want u to fit in their network.
With intelligence, U'll know where to fit.


Then agn, back to young women. Not all young women are materialistic. Even if they are, they're probably seeking the easiest way for security in a relationship.

Answer 6

Confidence, and not being a cocky jerk
Money isn't a big issue, It's shallow if thats all you rely on.
It doesn't help though to have some good looks. I mean honestly what do you really notice about them first?
And as long as their not a completly incompetant retard, they don't have to be a rocket scientist. Just someone who you can have a conversation with. Or who you can introduce to your friends.

Just remember confidence makes anyone sexy. Just don't be too confident or you come off cocky.
Good luck.

Answer 7

Out of those three I would hope that most women go for intelligence, I know that that is what I look for. Most of all though, women are generally looking for someone that can make them laugh, treats them nicely and is fun to be around.

Answer 8

SuperO:

Depends on how young! But usually~
as a young immature person~
we place Mucho Weight on the Physical.

As women grow older they place their
emphasis on MONEY. We can be pure
UGLY & they will go out with us if our
wallet is FULL! (Women achieve a sense
of security with successful men.)

The final phase is Wisdom~
later in life! Women wish to be with a
mate who is psychologically stimulating!

Answer 9

Everyone is going to answer this brains. But if they were honest it would go...looks, brains...money. You said the young girls. Then when they get older it changes.

Answer 10

I think the would like looks not millionair or intellegince love and hansom and not wired