Family & Relationships - 3 November 2007

all my bf i had the black ones are more true and nice and people say the oppiste !!!!!1 what do yall think and also what dose freaky mean sexy or wierd

2007-11-03 06:47:23 · 7 answers · asked by suri G 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to be clear, I have not had an adulterous affair with another woman, but I very well could, just so confused..

I have always loved my wife as a partner, but this old girlfriend, she was also the last girl I kissed outside of my current wife, has always driven me to the heights of passion and I feel that stronger sexual connection with her than I ever have with my wife and the connection has always been deeper. I love my wife, I love who she is, my wife truly is a good person, but I just am not in passionate love with my wife and probably haven't been for a very long time. Heck, we have 2 kids.. Going down this road would be very costly (in so many ways).. I just don't know what to do.. I want passion in my life that I have never had with my wife, but I don't want to hurt everyone else to get it..

2007-11-03 06:46:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 06:46:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

-ever flirt in front of a girl he likes, with another girl. Why? Is it to make her jealous?

2007-11-03 06:46:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got engaged not to long ago to my boyfriend. We are both 21 and I'm going to graduate college next spring so I feel it's time for me to get married plus I've been with him for two years and I love him. I told my cousin about it and told her not to tell anyone because we wanted to annouce it at this party we were planning on having in a couple of weeks but she told her mom who told mine's and she was furious and it wasn't because I didn't tell her but because she thinks I shouldn't marry him because he dropped out of college and is working at a gas station making $8 an hour and doesn't think he is going to be able to provide for me since she expects me to quit working when I have kids but I'm not planning on it. She doesn't want me to work with kids because she says she knows how hard it is and she had to work since my dad didn't make enough money. She said I should marry someone more well off, but I don't want to and I think she's being shallow and stupid! What is her problem?

2007-11-03 06:45:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im rily depress wenever i take a look at the pictures of my boyfriend'crushes.they're so pretty that sometimes i think they wil b treated lyk princess if they're my bf's gf..im rily inconfident and rily duno how to fight with ds terible feeling..

2007-11-03 06:44:29 · 4 answers · asked by its katie!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I got back with my boyfriend 4 weeks ago after a 2 month break up. He wanted to try again and go SLOW. I am very emotionally attached to him, but it seems that he isn't where I am just yet. He knows that I am a few steps ahead of him. He claims he is working on it. He told me hes half way there to committing 100% to me. We are in a relationship and I didn't think its suppose to be this complicated. I was advised to back off a little bit, but what does that mean? Does it mean not calling/texting, not asking him to come over? I try to step back emotionally, but its so hard because I am in love with him. I don't want to lose him again. Please help.

2007-11-03 06:42:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 2 months ago, a guy approached me, gave me his number, and called/texted me a lot. He would hang out with me on campus and give me these extra long hugs. I also heard that he was telling his friends that he was interested in me. His friends even asked me about him, called me his girl, etc. These past 2 weeks have been weird. One day while eating lunch, we were flirting like usual and he goes flirting with another girl and leaves me alone. Pissed that he might be a player, I still give him a hug goodbye and leave. I avoid him for a whole week but during that week is when I found out he was interested in me. So, I figured I'd give him another chance. I saw him last week, he flirted with me like usual and asked me to give him a massage. BUT he doesn't call anymore, only replies to my texts when I text him first, and hasn't replied to my facebook message when he does to everyone else. I don't want to play games & am very confused. I think I just want to move on completely. Thoughts?

2007-11-03 06:41:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

first off i love my wife dearly, we have been together for 10years. we have four children, and through it all, she has gained weight, which is to be understood. Our problem is that, i have a problem getting stimulated, because of the weight. women have a problem understanding that men are visual creatures. we are stimulated visually, not emotionally. SEX has little to do with love for men....My wife notices how i am bother, but i cant lie or hide, even though i wish i could... i really wish sometimes God would put something in me to like or even love her weight, but right now its not my preference.. and suggestions? She does make attempts to work out, but she gets horny in the mean time, i refrain because in the act she would know im not totally there. i even offer to please her by other MEANS, but this is not satifactory. what a i to do, i dont want to let her go, but y preference has been the same since i was a teen im 38 years old now....help if you can

2007-11-03 06:39:00 · 21 answers · asked by mujahidfurqan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my partner for just on 4 yrs now. My family acted as tho they liked him at first then they showed there true feelings when we moved out. We have a son together, we love each other, we want to get married but i know my family isnt going to like it, my mum and brothers act like they like him to his face but say **** about him behind his back to me and even tho dad doesnt say anything on it anymore i pretty sure he hates him. should i invite them to the wedding or just let them not know.

2007-11-03 06:38:45 · 8 answers · asked by tibnlhasa 1 in Family

2007-11-03 06:35:22 · 9 answers · asked by alexanter t 1 in Singles & Dating

wedding reception program,,,by sequence.

2007-11-03 06:34:34 · 5 answers · asked by edlyn m 1 in Weddings

He tells me he likes me and then tells me to go on breaks. I told him this one day because he seriously pissed me off "all I have to say is that im tired of you being a jerk to me. I don't deserve it. So if thats how its gonna be go find someone else and make them feel like ****." He was like "idk u called me a jerk and id prolly am ..u prolly wont want to speak 2 me again and thats fine ... only thing is dat if u thing i was playing with u thiz whole time well i wasnt ok .,... and u wonder y i was testin u , well beacuse i wanted thiz relationship to be perfect and i wanted to know how ur reactions will be and ya.. well ima watch tv cuz i feel very badd and im sry again" What does it mean. I really like him but I seriously don't know what to do anymore.

2007-11-03 06:34:33 · 2 answers · asked by Pwizzle 2 in Singles & Dating

I will not kiss my lover since I received dentures as I feel that his tounge will feel the hard plastic in my mouth and turn him off. What tips can you give me on keeping my sex life confident. He says he loves me with our without my own teeth but I've only had them a couple of weeks and am scared to have him put his tounge in my mouth.

2007-11-03 06:34:02 · 6 answers · asked by Ms. Pretty P 2 in Singles & Dating

I got relatives who live in my area and far away. My mom's side all live in the same state as I do, my dad's is in 2 other different states and others at New Zealand.

I've been wronged by my mom's siblings, her uncle, and her mom (grandma). I have forgiven them I guess but I have never forgotten what they have done or what they are. My dad's side cousins are a bunch of shallow cocky snobs, I don't ever want to get on the plane to visit them.

One day if I ever become successful and prove them all wrong then I will permanently cut our bonds, meaning they will no longer be my cousins, uncles, aunts, and whatever. I'm still thinking about this meaning I do have a heart unlike them. What do you think?

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-03 06:33:56 · 10 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family

I was nice to him like i treated him like a normal person. other peple are mean to him or treat him like a baby. so now he likes me and he follows me around. the truth is he really creeps me out because he looks physically scary and i don't even like to talk to him because there's not much you can talk about with him. i just talked to him in the beginning because i felt kind of bad for him. well now he won't leave me alone and i try to avoid him but somehow he manages to find me.

i don't know what to do. i don't want to hurt his feelings, but i really do not like to be around him.

why does this always happen to me? these guys i'm just nice to start stalking me. and i dont know how to get them to stop. so could you please tell me????

2007-11-03 06:32:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was feeling alone, so I decide to show affection to my friend and asked her maybe for a date? She said no but we continued to IM each other. Than because I hounder her to much she broke it off with me. Haven't been able to talk with her a week, less sleep, stomach problems, I missed a half a day of because of this. Now I talked to her last night she forgave me in sense like it wasn't meant to be forgiven, it was like a nothing.

So we talked for about 45min and than in order to be completely honest with myself and her, I told her I had talked to her about me confronting someone we both know and trust each other with our personal problems and told her a secret to another to clear my head to get over her. He understood that this was to remain between us. I trust him on that, I believe she would to. But I told her that I did that. She is mad at me, understandably. I told her I would give her my heart to let her know how I feel. Will she forgive me? And when should I talk with her again?

2007-11-03 06:32:27 · 6 answers · asked by rsjackdupp 2 in Friends

Sorry this is going to be kind of long. Well first off I like this one guy named Drew & he even told me he likes me alot. Well I use to be best friends with his ex but now she hates my guts. Well yesterday he said he wants to go out with me but he doesn't want Ashlee (his ex) to find out cause he still wants to be friends with her. She cheated on him almost 3 times and when he found that out he said he didn't want to be friends with her at all but now he's saying he wants to be friends with her. I told him she's eventually going to find out if him & I go out. I'm just afraid if him & I start going out he's going to be cheating on me with her. And another thing is when we're in 2nd period he's all up on me like hugging me & stuff but in 4th period he acts like I'm not even alive. So what should I do? One more thing... I like this other guy Edmin who is friends with my friend Crystal.

2007-11-03 06:31:57 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi... Im a 23 year old female. I was dating a guy for about a year. We had lots of fun together and really enjoyed spending time together. He was nice.. but sometimes he would just change out of nowhere and act weird or just stop calling like the usual. He would get cold feet. I told him many times that I couldnt be with a person like that. I wanted someone stable. He always apologozed and came back to me. but the last break up we had was because I told him I wouldnt tolerate his behavior and that its not gonna work out. So we both promised eachother that we wouldnt call one another... two weeks after that I left for a vacation for a month. When I came back he called me right away telling me he missed me and that he's going on a vacation. lol.... He then called me from the vacation a couple of times and i told him to stop calling. So he txted me a week ago saying I was on his mind and that he loves me and wants what makes me happy.. I have no idea what this guy wants !!

2007-11-03 06:29:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

8. What color hair do you like better on girls?
a. Blonde
b. Brunette
c. Red
d. Black

9. What color eyes do you like the best?
a. Blue
b. Green
c. Hazel
d. Brown

10. Would you rather have a girlfriend who is…
a. Five pounds over weight
b. Five pounds under weight

What do you think other guys would choose for the same questions from JUST FOR GUYS part 1 and 2? Again, please only choose one option and list the question number next to your answer.
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2007-11-03 06:24:35 · 7 answers · asked by Susan G 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been using Answers for a longtime now and I just can't believe they do not have a answer section for SEX questions. Anybody else wonder this?. Really with it being one of the most talked about subjects you figure it would be on this.

2007-11-03 06:24:22 · 1 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend started dating 3 weeks after he broke up with his ex girlfriend. We have been together 2 months. I know it seems childish but considering him and his ex are not friends, I would like him to remove their photos from public view (facebook and myspace) Pictures of her laying on him and on his lap are just uneccessary now that me and him are together. Am I overreacting? What bothers me is ive seen him look at them so he clearly knows their still there. Ive asked him and he says he doesnt feel like removing them but I feel like if he cared about me he'd have no issue with it

2007-11-03 06:21:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 06:19:26 · 9 answers · asked by Nicole B 1 in Friends

Ok I love my old girl and think she's hot. When we are intimate I begin kissing her legs all the way up and skip the obvious and begin kissing her tummy, torso etc. And she gets really upset after cause she wants me to tame Toni the tiger with my ice cream cone taster. I'm not being a tease I love kissing her, but I can never bring myself to delve into the jungles of Panama. Can we work past this? What do I do?

2007-11-03 06:18:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I've been wronged by others so many times in the past. Its not only friends but relatives as well. We don't know what happens tomorrow. SO if I ever become successful I know those people will try to contact me again and stuff... Everyone keeps telling me to forgive them but I can't, they'll just hurt me again. So why do a bunch of you guys online keep telling people to forgive? Do you know how hard it is? You ever been thru the same situations?!

No matter how many times your gonna tell me to forgive my past friends and relatives, I'm not. I just want to know why everyone is being hypocritical to tell me to be the nice guy again. Its like telling me to suicide.

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-03 06:13:08 · 40 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

Would you be okay with this? If you were sleeping and your partner had sex with you while you were asleep, is that okay? If you were married is that okay? Like if a man has sex with his wife while she is asleep or vice-versa?

Just curious. My friends and I were debating about it and I wanted your thoughts.

2007-11-03 06:11:39 · 16 answers · asked by asdf 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm so in love with my boyfriend, and when we're together we're always happy. We have so much in common too, he's like my best friend and lover rolled into one.
But the only problem is that he's 19 years older than me..is this wrong?

2007-11-03 06:09:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I saw a question about when did you first have sex.
And I saw people that said they first had sex at 11 and 12.
Do you feel cool doing it at that age..its not cool its gross.

2007-11-03 06:05:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you enjoy most/least about being a mother/father?

2007-11-03 06:04:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Husband, who was suffering from schizophrenia and manic depression,had been in and out of a mental hospital, but at no time had he been declared insane by a court. In fact, he continued to work at his job as a design engineer during the day, returning to the hospital at night. His wife initiated a separation agreement because of the husband's mental condition, although her husband did not really want a sepatation. At a time when he was depressed and did not fully inderstand the impact of the agreement, he did sign it. The agreement was signed by both parties in the presence of the wife's attorney, although the husband did not receive any legal advice from an attorney and did not really know the exact contents of the agreements. Later, when the husband realized what he had done, he requested that the separation agreement be canceled. The wife refused. Is the husband entitled to have this agreement canceled??

2007-11-03 06:03:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce