Hi... Im a 23 year old female. I was dating a guy for about a year. We had lots of fun together and really enjoyed spending time together. He was nice.. but sometimes he would just change out of nowhere and act weird or just stop calling like the usual. He would get cold feet. I told him many times that I couldnt be with a person like that. I wanted someone stable. He always apologozed and came back to me. but the last break up we had was because I told him I wouldnt tolerate his behavior and that its not gonna work out. So we both promised eachother that we wouldnt call one another... two weeks after that I left for a vacation for a month. When I came back he called me right away telling me he missed me and that he's going on a vacation. lol.... He then called me from the vacation a couple of times and i told him to stop calling. So he txted me a week ago saying I was on his mind and that he loves me and wants what makes me happy.. I have no idea what this guy wants !!
2007-11-03 06:29:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahh, to be 20 again.
He's having trouble letting go. It's easy to break up when you're irritated with each other, ut pretty soon, you forget all the bad things that made you break up, and start missing the good times.
If you really don't want to be with this guy, you're gonna have to get mean and tell him to f-off for real. Change your cell number and e-mail if you have to. Seems like he's thinking he can get you back. You have to be consistent and send a strong message that it's OVER. Then you can both move on.
2007-11-03 06:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose a better question is "what do you want?" Do you want to stay on this roller-coaster ride of a relationship? If you choose to stay with him, it is a strong possibility that he will not change. When you choose to end the relationship with him, you must remain strong in the decision and cut all ties with this man. It will not be possible for you to retain a casual friendship.
Best wishes.
2007-11-03 13:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by four feet six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen girl you did the right thing, you need to tell him straight foward that you have decided to move on and that you dont have time for childlish stupid ****. second thing you need to evaluate your self in what you want and who you are. guys will always be there and you as women you have to respect your self and not to allow any guy just come in and out of your life just when they feel like it. if you take him back he is going to tell you the same thiing and im guessing this guy is clueless in what he wants i have to say this ex of yours since he has no one to rely on he probably always comes to you. so dont allow him to do that.
2007-11-03 13:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by Piccolina bella21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really misses you and really wants you back, but how many times have you guys split up? Maybe you already know that he is not right for you so just change your number!
2007-11-03 13:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Kell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ever heard the saying "you don't know what you've got, till it's gone?" perhaps he didn't realize how much he loved you until you and him broke up. sometimes people can find their way back, sometimes they can't. It sounds like "you" in his life, is what he wants.
2007-11-03 13:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by Soda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll make it plain and simple. He wants you back
2007-11-03 13:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Daryl M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lonely. He probably does love you just doesn't know how to show it to you....Let him go
2007-11-03 14:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by friend 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk but to me it sounds like he doesnt want to get rejected so he trys to act difrent to see what u like maybe thats y but u should just tell him to be himself and have fun and give him another chance tell him to act mature and stuff
2007-11-03 13:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just toying around with you ,say clear of him and don't waste your time ,thinking he will change his behavior!
2007-11-03 13:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he just want you back...
2007-11-03 13:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋