I'm so in love with my boyfriend, and when we're together we're always happy. We have so much in common too, he's like my best friend and lover rolled into one.
But the only problem is that he's 19 years older than me..is this wrong?
2007-11-03 06:09:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not wrong, it is just not destined to last. Enjoy it while you can.
2007-11-03 06:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by AussieGent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you want to have any kind of future. If you dont care about his age then by all means keep letting him take advantage of you. Of course you already know that in one or two years (maybe even this year) he will begin to experience some form of erectile dysfunction.(that means that while your same age girlfriends,and their boyfriends/husbands are having hot passionate sex) you and pops can go to home decor shows and shop for lawn furniture. Oh and in between taking him to the Doctor's visits, you can rub linament oil on his aching joints. oh and by the way dear, if he's 37 you can't really call him a "boyfriend" can you? I would call him seriously depraved, I mean think of it this way.......when he was 25 was he attracted to 12 year old girls? I think maybe you got yourself a pedophile . I would do some checking into his background if I were you dear.......just to make sure nobody is "looking " for him. Then go find a guy your age, you will actually have a chance at happiness then.
2007-11-03 13:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong about it...you are both adults...but very, very difficult to sustain. Not difficult for you, perhaps. You are young, energetic, and durable. Him, not so much. Remember, when you are 35 and reaching your sexual peak, he will be nearly 55, and reaching for the Viagra. And there is the question of children. It is almost too much to contemplate a teenager banging around the house when you're 60 years old. (60 year old speaking, here) You're just 18, very young....why don't you just enjoy what you two have right now? Stop rushing into the future...it gets here fast enough as it is.
2007-11-03 13:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always see a problem with a wide range of an age difference, but maybe that's just me. It always feel to me like something is wrong with one of the people like the guy wants a younger girl as a trophy and the girl is looking for a Dad replacement. I realize this is not the case in all of these relationships but then I think about when you get older like he is 50 and you are 30 and want to have kids. Like I said maybe it's just my problem. Good luck.
2007-11-03 13:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by April First 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say whether its right or wrong. if age gap is not a problem between u guys. then its fine.
unless u guys are thinking about getting married. then u seriously need to think about this.
1. u r 18, will u willing to forgo the entire forest just for this tree?
2. will he be able to support u and the family when u guys have kids? given that, he might be retiring in what? 13 yrs?
2007-11-03 13:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by devileye_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's legally ok, but morally it's wrong. The guy needs to get a woman closer to his age and "wisdom". You're young and you have your whole life ahead of you. If it was something like 30 and 49 I would understand that, but jeez he's rockin the cradle. He's just taking advantage of your youth.
2007-11-03 13:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by cthulau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 18... you can be with whoever you want. My boyfriend and I are 9 years apart and I couldn't be happier!! Just be aware that if you two were to spend your life together, there's a good chance that he could have a significantly shorter life than you. (I know it's sad to think about... but we have to face it.)
If you are happy, then go for it... just remember that not everyone will always accept it.
2007-11-03 13:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by Katie ~ *TTC Baby #1!* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not see anything wrong now but later one or the other will,but you are both of age and you are in it for a little fun go for it if you are happy.
2007-11-03 13:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
age deosnt matter in a relationship. what matters is how u feel about each other. if u two r really in love then u deserve to be together. i knew a guy a couple of year ago who was like 22 and his wife was in her mid 40s. they had three kids.
2007-11-03 13:13:52 · answer #9 · answered by bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i personally dont date men that are older then me and I am 25. I believe it takes a man a long time to mature anyway, so if you feel that its right then go for it. but first make sure he doesnt already have a wife a kids.
2007-11-03 13:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by medgy17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 6yrs younger than i husband (20&26) and we are great but 37 and 18...i dono sounds like he might be wanting something else? i'd find someone else if i were you.
2007-11-03 13:16:36 · answer #11 · answered by KLH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋