Would you be okay with this? If you were sleeping and your partner had sex with you while you were asleep, is that okay? If you were married is that okay? Like if a man has sex with his wife while she is asleep or vice-versa?
Just curious. My friends and I were debating about it and I wanted your thoughts.
2007-11-03 06:11:39 · 16 answers · asked by asdf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Personally, if I was married, I wouldn't care if my wife had sex w/me while I was asleep.
2007-11-03 06:31:04 · update #1
I can't imagine sleeping through IT! That is kinda pathetic. LOL! I have initiated sex with my hubby while he was snoozing but OF COURSE he woke up!!!!! He has initiated sex w/me while I was sleeping but OF COURSE I woke up. I don't think my husband could "go through w/it" if I remained asleep. Sitting here thinking about it I don't think I would be mad, but then again I have never actually had this happen to me so I can't say 100%!!! I am always ready for some LOVE, though, so I normally wake up immediately at the 1st sign my husband wants to be intimate. :)
2007-11-03 06:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by whatshername 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming we are talking about a committed relationship, sex between two people in such a relationship is hardly ever "wrong" no matter how it happens, provided it's not forced. In my opinion, the only instance where it might be problematic to do it the way you have described is if this is the only way one of the partners can ever get his sexual needs met.
I would question whether it is possible for anyone to be completely asleep while someone else is having sex with him/her, so I would assume the "recipient" is aware that this is taking place and has not raised an objection to it. If that's the case, by all means "have at it!"
My problem with it is that it just doesn't sound like it would be very much fun or very enjoyable.
2007-11-03 06:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by JMH 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How sex would be successfully performed when one of the partners still sleeping? I can't imagine how? Maybe it could happen when only when you dreaming not in actual.
If the man is sleeping does his organ still hard to penetrate the woman's vagina? Or if the woman is still sleeping while sex is performed by her husband, does her vagina has juicy lubricated? Only low IQ person can think the sex could be done when one is sleeping.
The sex could be done successfully when both partners are awake. Very important to a people to use his simple logic!
I do not agree to the kind of question how it was raised. If this question in any Legal Court of Justice, it would 100 % automatically junked because of it was illogical!
2007-11-03 16:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is possible to not know that someone is having sex with you. I think that you would wake up. I think that the only way that could happen is if you passed out because you were drunk. I personally wouldn't want to have sex with a passed out person. I think this happens more when someone is taking advantage of the other person so then it would be wrong.
2007-11-03 06:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by bluemonarch17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's okay. I tried doing this with my hubby while he was asleep...going down on him at least, but he's such a light sleeper, it never works! He loves it though! Just imagine being asleep and you're dreaming of having erotic sex with someone, only to wake up it is/was true!
2007-11-03 06:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the letter of the law in most states, no, this is not OK. It is rape.
The same is true with having sex with your spouse while she was intoxicated. In most states, a woman cannot consent to sex if she is in anyway intoxicated.
But that is just the way the laws are written. I have never heard of either case going to trial without violence or force being employed during the act in question.
Good luck....
2007-11-03 06:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband wants sex so much that sometimes I would rather sleep...but he wont stop feeling on me until I just take my pants off, so once or twice i've let him hit it while i've still been half asleep, then he's happy and rubs my back and snuggles me the rest of the morning. :)
2007-11-03 06:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by Brittney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you would do at the same time as ANY buddy comes over, dangle out and communicate or play video games or bypass do any of the thousand different issues associates do. you aren't to any extent further getting married, no favor to make this a production of any style.
2016-10-23 08:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by hodnett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to be fully awake during sex, so that I could enjoy it.
Plus, I HATE being messed with in any way while I'm asleep!
2007-11-03 06:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the partner doesn't mind i guess so. kinda sad that they wouldn't wake up during tho. i would be insulted if my partner slept thru sex with me
2007-11-03 06:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by Xander and Marie's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋