About 2 months ago, a guy approached me, gave me his number, and called/texted me a lot. He would hang out with me on campus and give me these extra long hugs. I also heard that he was telling his friends that he was interested in me. His friends even asked me about him, called me his girl, etc. These past 2 weeks have been weird. One day while eating lunch, we were flirting like usual and he goes flirting with another girl and leaves me alone. Pissed that he might be a player, I still give him a hug goodbye and leave. I avoid him for a whole week but during that week is when I found out he was interested in me. So, I figured I'd give him another chance. I saw him last week, he flirted with me like usual and asked me to give him a massage. BUT he doesn't call anymore, only replies to my texts when I text him first, and hasn't replied to my facebook message when he does to everyone else. I don't want to play games & am very confused. I think I just want to move on completely. Thoughts?
2007-11-03 06:41:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never call him, and previously at the most, texted him twice a week. so i know it's not because I seemed clingy. maybe it wasn't enough?
2007-11-03 06:44:19 · update #1
I don't care if he flirts with other girls since we weren't dating. I flirt with other guys. What ticks me off is that he did it right in front of me and totally ignored me.
2007-11-03 06:46:50 · update #2
I think that maybe he wanted to see how you would react to him flirting with other girls...................
becareful he might just be a player.
start hanging out with another guy. if he is really interested, he will let you know.
good luck sweetie
2007-11-03 15:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Venus H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is moving on, too. Sometimes you may have to do more than just a hug and flirt. It sounds like you have become a game for him. Why don't you ask him out. That will shock him. If he says "no", oh well just move on. You'll find Mr Right eventually.
2007-11-03 13:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you upset about? This guy is not your boyfriend and never has been. You have no committment with him. Heck you don't even have a friendship yet, you're just getting to know each other. What is it you expect? Instant relationship? Just add water and presto, married for life at 13?
He doesn't owe you anything. He can talk and flirt with whomever he likes.
2007-11-03 13:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems to be messing with your head! I can understand how you feel! One minute he seemed quite full on and the next not interested. Wether you like this guy or not in my opinion you should move one, he isn't worth your time!
2007-11-03 13:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to a guy who has more confidence and is into having a relationship - there are plenty!
2007-11-03 13:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by Dina K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on girl he's a player player. you dont need that in your life. sounds like you want something serious and he doesn't
2007-11-03 13:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by rmdezanett32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you are done with him, time to move on with your life
2007-11-03 13:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by thelma_layton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋