Family & Relationships - 3 November 2007

I love this girl in school loads but whenever i want to talk to her i don't no what to say. We only ever have very short and limited conversations if that. She isn't shy around others, the same goes for me i'm shy around her but not anyone else.

I talk to her on msn (plz don't ask for my email i won't give u it) fine but when i'm in school i never can. My heart beats faster when i do, and i go red in the face. There is a lot of tension because i have liked her for 3 years this christmas and i have never had a conversation over about 1 min, so whenever i do my friends mock me etc. Plzzz help me, but don't give the obvious answers eg. become more confident unless you have good techniques.

2007-11-03 03:59:18 · 65 answers · asked by jak 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad & step mom have gotten divorced (mom died along time ago). I do not stay with them but have been helping my dad out by picking up younger siblings from school taking them to extra murals & that,as well as sitting with homework & getting them started.

My dad has a meeting tomorrow morning & asked me to sit with them until they get back. Just wanted to know will it be wrong to take my books to study with & that while I am there. Yes its sunday & my dad has a meeting,his an advocate so its been really hectic for him lately.

The youngest sibling(step sibling),who is in grade 1,really does tend to talk quite a bit,not that I mind. but also need to study. I know they also want to swim,so I do not mind sitting out on the patio area watching them swim & study.

Any ideas?

2007-11-03 03:57:22 · 6 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2 in Family

I am VERY anti-pornography, I find it hurtful to our relationship and do not want it in my world. I told my husband this before we got married. We have been married 3 1/2 years and I have "caught" him viewing it on the internet several times. Two times ago I told him if he did it again our marriage was over. Then he did it again. At that point he promised he never would again. I believed him. Well, today, he was viewing once more. What am I to do?

2007-11-03 03:53:50 · 30 answers · asked by lorianne1961 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my son lived with my mom since birth and now he lives with me since january and he gets a disability check. and i recently went to become his ar., it don't take effect until next month and but this month the check came and she didn't give it to me for him this month ( the month of november) she has never given me the full amount and one month before she told me that she switched it over herself (with me knowing better she couldn't do it without me being present)telling me the following month it was coming to me.so either one of these times i didn't say anything to her about it because for one thing i can't get in touch with her, she not answering her phone or nothing. im not trying to sound money hungry but right is right.

2007-11-03 03:53:38 · 5 answers · asked by ms nikki 1 in Family

first of all ....I am handsome alright not only that I dress niceee..I'm not talking about suits or ish like that...Just like you know trendy what ever is in style I wear and I make it look great...I have a nice body I go jogging while and workout while the ugly guys that get the pretty girls are sitting down eating chips.....and I also smell good i buy the good colognes ...NO IM NOT GAY!!! and I'm funny I dont have an attitude... I mean when I'm walking sometimes i get yelled at by girls in cars so I cant be that bad....and I'm thinking if i work so hard to be me why can't I find a decent girl?

2007-11-03 03:51:46 · 18 answers · asked by sinning2472 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I separated, we have three kids all under 6yrs. I want to go to counseling and she currently is, I brought it up again the other day and she said "until I figure out what I need to do to take of me, and work through my problems, we should not do it until then", we only have been separated for 2 months, but I have a gut feeling that she really doesn't want to do anything for us, but just start living her life by her terms, am I wrong for feeling alienated? We are married aren't we? What does it mean to be separated? I don't know.....

2007-11-03 03:51:00 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Men....Say your a guy in your late 40's or in your 50's. You need Levitra or a similar med. to have to pretty decent sex life with your spouse or girlfriend. Would you TeLL her you were taking these drugs?? In my specific case, I have been medically appoved to take these drugs. Thanks.

2007-11-03 03:49:00 · 12 answers · asked by mick7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

WHAT ARE THEY MAIN FEATURES THAT A GIRL LOOKS AT A GUY TO B ATTRACTIVE AND WHAT SHOULSD THAT GUY DO TO BE ATTRACTIVE AND TO GET HER

2007-11-03 03:48:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 03:46:23 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the last couple weeks me and my husband had a roomate who is my husband's friend, he is a guy. The other day he left for a family emergency, and he is mad at the way my husband has been treating him. But I asked him if my husband has been cheating on me and at first he would not say anything, but then he did, he said that my husband as been sleeping with two different girls since he has been living there, and he knows because my husband had asked him to come ride with him. So I asked my husband if he has been cheating on me, which I do once in a while because he has before and he said no. So I am not sure if I should believe my friend or my husband. But I am planning to go to the doctor to get tested for STD's

2007-11-03 03:44:50 · 38 answers · asked by thegirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter and I just can't seem to be able to sit in a room without arguing. She's 20 and I'm 45. It's coming to the point that I'm exhausted even trying to have a relationship with her. She's disrespectful, calls me by my first name, and the only thing she wants from me is money. Any advice?

2007-11-03 03:42:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really care about my girlfriend and I love her dearly and smoking is a huge turnoff for me mainly because I want her to live a long and healthy life. She doesn't smoke around me. If she were smoking cigarettes and I went to kiss her would I be able to taste it? I kiss her all the time and its "making out" not just a peck on the lips? Would someone be able to taste the breath of a marijuana smoker? Thanks!

2007-11-03 03:40:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together 4 months, at first I was a bit unsure, and he was the one always calling and texting. Now I really like him, I'm getting all irritated if he doesn't call me or send me a message. I don't say this to him, but I get worried that if I message him or call him he might think I am being too full on. He does call me every day, but recently our conversations online and the texting has calmed down a lot. I'm worried he's losing interest. Should I play it cool for a bit?

2007-11-03 03:40:33 · 7 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

i asked a question like this recently so if you answered you dont have to now
my husband and my sister used to be really close, as in BF and GF. but me and him just got married recently and even then im still worried. she comes to our house everyday, i wouldn't tell her to leave, she's family, but they broke up years ago and now whenever she comes for breakfast, they'd always be fighting. as in really fighting! maybe he's just sipping his coffee and she'd come and make a rude comment about him and they'd fight. sometimes he'd start it, she'd be eating pasta or somthing and he'd make a "you'll get fat" joke, and they'd fight. useually its by the time our little girl goes to school, but if i turn my back on them just for ten seconds, he'd have her in a headlock and she'd be bashing him with a mug. they've also wrestled in our living room b4, now, just which way should i be worried? how can i just stop this, they both know how immature they're being but its like i have 2 more kids!!

2007-11-03 03:38:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was cleaning the kitchen last night, and finally got it done. Then my fiancé goes in there and TOTALLY trashes it. I'm talking dishes everywhere, spilled milk all over the counter, crumbs, paper, and other assorted crap all over the floor I just got done scrubbing. I confronted him about the mess, and he says, "well, now you have something to do and you won't be bored." It's like he went and trashed the place because he thinks I don't do enough around the house.....oh God I just feel like strangling him sometimes!

2007-11-03 03:37:08 · 24 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Marriage & Divorce

we jst met but it feels like i've known him 4 a long time,,, in 3 weeks we're in love n he wants me to tell my parents bout him so dat we get engaged,, do we need more time to knw each other still ?

2007-11-03 03:35:35 · 7 answers · asked by beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

OK - so I am 35 with 2 children. There is a guy who is 26 who wants to date me. Honestly I am not sure about it. I used to feel that I should stick to my own age group. Unfortunately for me - the guys that I have been out with only want one thing. If they say differently they end up being lairs. I have had it with dating...then he messaged me. He is a friend of a friend, that is how he found me. We have chatted a few times. He says there is something about me and I feel that there is something about him........Not sure what to do at this point. Should I or not? I don't want more kids and that is a potential issue. I don't care if he has them tho. I just want to know what other people think too.

2007-11-03 03:35:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anna F 3 in Singles & Dating

I made the mistake of telling my ex-husband my daughter's grades for the first marking period. It was just a progress report and does not show on the transcripts.

She got 2 B's and a C in Honors Chemistry.

She is a junior in High School. She used to live with her Dad until now. He lives in another state.

Now, he is very upset and keeps calling.

I don't know what to do.

My daughter will be mad at me too....

2007-11-03 03:33:25 · 8 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

My husband is 21. He is military. I am a stay at home mother, and in a month or so I will be full time babysitting a few kids for money, and he will be deploying again. It is saturday. I have lots of chores I need to get done everyday. I usually ask him during the weekday to do simple things like take out the trash or change a diaper. Well, I really need the laundry folded, dishes washed, and some little needed things to get done and do my school work today (which is much needed). I asked him to help me do laundry but he threw a fit and said he doesnt understand why we have to do so many chores all the time. I wonder if the thinks he has the right to sit around all day (it is (9:30 and still no shower, brushed teeth, etc..) and do absoultly nothing! How should I approach this? He wont listen to me!! I feel like I could just do it myself instead of begging him to help out.

2007-11-03 03:30:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Both of our families know were going to have a renewal of vows. Were keeping the details private. My hubby's family wants us to do it in his home church, so that his WHOLE family can be there. They know I'm NOT a Christian, so why bother? How do we politely tell them, this is a private event, without being rude? Suggestions would be helpful.

2007-11-03 03:29:19 · 17 answers · asked by dietitian4u 2 in Weddings

i will break this down, im a step mom of 3, kids have been kept from our house for 5 months by their mom.this was to punish their dad for being the bad man their mom says he is(not true) 9 and 10 year olds wrote letter to their dad that they were scared of him , he was mean and bad, they didnt want to stay with him. we finally have kids for the weekend and everyone is running around like nothing ever happened! like everything is ok. im not ok.... i want to know why kids wwrote letter.....there has been so much hurt in this house caused by ex and step kids, how do i deal with it. im madat them... help

2007-11-03 03:26:02 · 8 answers · asked by thepainter 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister's hubby of many many years left her for another woman a couple yrs ago. i saw them together last night & his new wife has gotten fat. i had a naughty thought for a sec & maybe a lil smile..then felt guilty. i know it 's wrong but my sister loves him so much & she's always home alone.

2007-11-03 03:16:38 · 20 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My 40 yr old husband is 40 going on 21. He HAS to go to the bars every night of the week, he has to have his "regulars" he sees there, he has to always be popular and everyone has to like him and know him. He does all this at his families expense. I am 30 and our daughter is 5. He comes home very late, drunk nightly. I am chronically tired due to this and have lost my job because I simply can't perform on the job feeling like this. Last night it was the worse. He didn't come home until 3am this morning and knew he had to work for 8. He was ranting and yelling and throwing stuff all over the house at 6:30am when the clock went off. I told him he did it to himself. He insults me all the time. No matter what job I get it isn't good enough and I am worthless. This morning he told me (during his little tantrum) that he was sick of me and I don't ever make enough money. What? Money so he can get drunk? What do you think I should do? I am crying all the time...

2007-11-03 03:12:38 · 23 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 03:11:53 · 21 answers · asked by Khatren 22 1 in Family

He just doesnt take school seriously and hes in 8th grade,,.I have tried to get him to understand this is the rest of his life here...and he just wont get it........please help!!!!!hes flunking and not doing anything about it.........thanks,,

2007-11-03 03:07:20 · 5 answers · asked by Towing1991 . 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

in school also i am so distrubed but still i have faith in god that he allways do right what ever he do but still i need help that i want to come out of this problem every one in my house they use to hate me i don't no why they only love my brother not me but still i talk to them very nicely becoz they are my elders but i can't live lilke this i am relly in a big trouble and i love someone and he too love me but i am not able to talk to him on phone and we can't meet also but he still loves me and i too but i am so distrubed u can't even imagine u can well know how is the life of a girl without her mother pls friend help plsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss god bless u

2007-11-03 03:00:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I haven't had any sex about 5 months ago, his excuse always is that I'm always mean to him and the kids don't let us. We had been argueing alot lately because of money issues but before when I was working he still act the same. Now I feel like an old couple we go to the same bed every night and nothing happen.
How can a guy be without any for so long??
Im not a sex freak but I need some and so what is the whole purpose of marrying somebody if u don't get any??
Could it be some other reasons?
Please help me understand my husband..

2007-11-03 02:55:31 · 31 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and my sister have been fighting for the longest time!!

i can remember 6 years ago when i met him in highschool. he was the really funny-cool guy, i was the quiet girl, and he always reffers to her as "the B*itch who just started insulting me one day" and ever since she did, they've always been going on and off like saying one word to each other meant an arguement. now, back to the present, we have our own appartment now and my sister always stops by in the morning to have breakfast (i love those moments) but when my husband wakes up to join i just pray my sister wont say anything to start a fight and hopefully my daughter is already on the bus to school. i find that its kinda funny at times, when i turn my back on those two and look back, he'll already have her in a headlock and she'd be hitting him with a cup. i guess its just how our family is, but yet i still feel like maybe there's a way to change that, just so things are more peaceful. please read the additionals.

now, im wonder just what is it i can do to get them to stop fighting all the time. i dont want to leave them in a couciler's office or somthing because im really one of the only ones that can break up those two. also, it may not be important but long ago, those two were actually really locked into each other, meaning to say that somehow, they once had love for each other. so thats another reason i dont want those two alone. he's a sweetheart, and she's kind of a ****

2007-11-03 02:50:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 02:47:10 · 11 answers · asked by clit commander 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 02:46:47 · 24 answers · asked by Isabell 3 in Singles & Dating