We've been together 4 months, at first I was a bit unsure, and he was the one always calling and texting. Now I really like him, I'm getting all irritated if he doesn't call me or send me a message. I don't say this to him, but I get worried that if I message him or call him he might think I am being too full on. He does call me every day, but recently our conversations online and the texting has calmed down a lot. I'm worried he's losing interest. Should I play it cool for a bit?
2007-11-03 03:40:33 · 7 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as the others have said..just chill. relationships certainly have ups and downs..and this isnt even necessarily a down. As people get to know one another..the level of comfort builds that might be misinterpreted as lack of interest, but it usually isnt. All relationships have growing pains. As you said ...when yall started he was chasing you...now youre chasing him..thats the healthy dance of courtship...as long as there isnt only one person chasing alll the time or one person being chased..you guys are allright.
2007-11-03 03:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're getting too possessive and clingy. Yeah, the first rush of passion is gone, but that's normal in any relationship. If you start insisting he check in with you before he goes anywhere or does anything, not only will he dump you in due time, but he'll tell other people about it, and you'll have a hard time getting another date.
So back off, give him a little breathing room, and realize that your relationship is maturing. If you want a little passion and fun, go for it. But don't expect every waking moment to be like the first few days of dating. Life doesn't work that way.
2007-11-03 10:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO its normal girl you just need to calm down is all sometimes when you're really into a man you just get sprung for a while and you cant sleep without his calls or a text mssg TRUST me ive been there you just need to relax and stop thinking of him all the time and you will get used to it usually he isnt un-interested just pre-occupied so just relax k? GOOD LUCK
2007-11-03 10:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every relationship has it's ups and downs.
you guys are at your down now.
it's fine..you'll go back up again, i'm sure. stop worrying
if he truly was losing interest, he wouldn't call you every freakin' day. common sense.
playing it cool, actually is a great idea.
2007-11-03 10:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just chill out and let things play out like they are meant to be. Life is always full of surprises.
2007-11-03 10:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by Cindy Roo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would play it cool but go outta your way sometimes and be like "hey i was just watching tv and i started thinking about you. thought i should give you a ring. so whatcha doin?"
2007-11-03 10:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by ohhlaalaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you really like him then you should tell him how you feel and if likes you as much as it sounds he would understand
2007-11-03 10:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Raquel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋