my sister's hubby of many many years left her for another woman a couple yrs ago. i saw them together last night & his new wife has gotten fat. i had a naughty thought for a sec & maybe a lil smile..then felt guilty. i know it 's wrong but my sister loves him so much & she's always home alone.
2007-11-03 03:16:38 · 20 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh i forgot to mention, my sis thought she was her friend but i don't really hate on either one.(just for a sec i had that evil thought cuz he left my sis for a much younger woman. now the older she gets, the more overweight) anyway i didn't see any smiles & they looked kinda miserable. my sister moved on as much as she can. divorce is like a death in a way, u deal w/ it & go on but you're be forever changed.
2007-11-03 05:02:54 · update #1
*oops typo! meant to say 'you'll be forever changed', well something like that
2007-11-03 05:04:08 · update #2
It's natural to think like that ~dance~
She's your sister & he rejected your sister who you care about
Of course, looks are not the main thing
If your sister looks after herself & mixes with people, it wont be too long before she finds someone who deserves her love
2007-11-03 04:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ask_Elvis 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Every marriage broke has his own reason. Someone said, it is wrong to have an affair, but they find the right woman in their life. This woman did not make commitment with your sister. Your ex brother-in-law did. You should blame on him, not her. Do not be so selfish just because your sister loves him and stay home alone. That's your sister's choice not to move on and that is her problem. This woman has nothing to do with your sister's problems. I would prefer you said that your sister's hubby is getting old, fat, ugly, loose all the hair... etc. It will make more sense for me.....
2007-11-03 03:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I see no problem with you getting a little "satisfaction" from seeing that the cheater's new wife is fat.
Hopefully, your sister still looks better than her - that's total payback.
He's the terrible person, for leaving his spouse for someone else. Go spend time with your sister, and if you think she's comfortable talking about it, rip on her ex's new fat wife.
2007-11-03 03:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hey I would be laughing too, the s.o.b. they always leave the good for the bad, hey maybe you should let your sister know she may just enjoyed it a little....:), I know I would. You should try to get your sister out and introduce her to new people or just do something she really enjoys.
2007-11-03 04:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by shopper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You were not terrible. For the love of your sister, you might have turned real abusive, which you did not.You controlled yourself which is fine. Since your sister still loves him,you may think of initiating action for their reconciliation.
2007-11-03 03:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's not a bad thought - that's normal. You need to do more to help your sis, it's been 2 years and she's still pining for him? That's not good. Get her into therapy.
2007-11-03 03:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Dina K 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Your normal and human, and your just like any other woman, we like to see our ex with ugly, fatter woman then we are and now that he got what he deserved. It is human nature and your a terrible person for thinking them just human.
2007-11-03 03:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by Scrappers 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
my wife left me for a woman and i had bad thougths after i seen them to gather after i sit a lone way to mine nites but life goes on and at sometiome your sister will meet some one and be happy again so you jest have to let it go
2007-11-03 05:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by ffordguyord 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
youre not terrible youre loyal to your sister.i would think the same way and i am a very kind person but when somehurts someone close to me i get hurt ......youre not terribleand remember what goes arond comes around ..........thats why i choose to be nice
2007-11-03 03:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by tommy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's normal Dance.
It's good sometimes when we can see that people really do get punished in strange ways for what they've done wrong.
At least...........(insert evil grin here) I ENJOY SEING IT hah hah hah hah hahhhhhhhh!!!!!
2007-11-03 03:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋