in school also i am so distrubed but still i have faith in god that he allways do right what ever he do but still i need help that i want to come out of this problem every one in my house they use to hate me i don't no why they only love my brother not me but still i talk to them very nicely becoz they are my elders but i can't live lilke this i am relly in a big trouble and i love someone and he too love me but i am not able to talk to him on phone and we can't meet also but he still loves me and i too but i am so distrubed u can't even imagine u can well know how is the life of a girl without her mother pls friend help plsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss god bless u
2007-11-03 03:00:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the silver lining "still i have faith in god" is still there in you...! be optimistic as you are! rest assured...things will change for the better soon!!!
2007-11-03 03:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by rufiboy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AWWW SWEETY! I can imagine what you might be going through because i had a very tough life in the past (well....im getting out of it since im getting older)but you cant magine how hard life has been for me so i know how it feels to be depressed in life.Yes without mother people treat you differently because its your mother that knows you well more than anyone else.But one blessing you do have is your faith in God.Just keep on praying and dont give up on him!! I assure you that he watches you,loves you and will help you.I also have a very close relationship with my God and he has always helped me in times of trouble,in times when there was no on to help me he had helped me ALOT! So just know that God will bring the brightness in your life very soon! So smile now and leave it all to your dear God : )
Luv,Alisha.
2007-11-03 12:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by BlossomMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uimagine the ones without family, no mother, no father, no brother no sister. NO one to love,fight,or hate. Still they are happy.U think what u have.concentrate on yr studies and participate in other activies of school and sports. Try to shine like a star. Read the story of DHRUV TARA ( the polar star) Be happythink positive If U r happy in yr self no one can make u unhappy.
2007-11-04 11:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey Karen..your biggest problem is that you are in LOVE!...because of this state, you cannot think straight...your family members behaviour may seem hostile to you, but dont forget..you are THEIR responsibility whilst your mum is abroad....they cannot have this school girl in LOVE, behaving in a strange fashion!...they will always try to keep you away from boyfriends...because they will think the worst..what if you get in family way?...so my dear girl your behaviour will have to be such that the family members are re-assured about your intentions...that does not mean that you give up on the wonderful experience of being in love...snatch whatever time you can get to be in contact with your boyfriend, but do not be thinking of him at home as well...otherwise you'll again make the family members suspicious,...as far as love is concerned within your family...try the first option, and guarantee, they all will respect and like you..good luck..
2007-11-05 07:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by prtpjs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh dear a big prob
the same was with me but i handled it bravely and now every one appreciates me for that
i really fought with life
and the same u have to do
and u said u love one that who stops u ur parents
ok than tell ur mom and be open to everyone but with politness and confidence
that will help u very much
bye
best of luck
2007-11-03 10:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by renu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww... I am really sorry to hear that you had this kind of exp. Don't take it to your heart. may be because it's your younger bro. they show affection more but that dosen't mean they love you less. some parents love there there children by showing physical affection to them others show by working hard for them. If you are really uncomfortable why do you talk to your mom or dad about this. May be they haven't noticed it.
Good luck!
2007-11-03 10:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by Crown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, be calm! one day they will get to know you better!! and do not give up faith in god!! why don't you talk to your mother and tell her your problems???
2007-11-03 10:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by Miley's biggest fan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be brave and run away to the one you have who loves you,,being brave is the only answer
2007-11-05 08:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by Inder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOBODY CAN MAKE YOU UNHAPPY, ITS YOUR CHOICE, YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY YOU WILL B HAPPY, U DONT WANT TO BE HAPPY THEN U WONT, THATS IT,
START CULTIVATING SOME GOOD HOBBY AND SOON YOU WILL BE ENGAGED INTO IT AND WILL FORGET THE WORLD
ANYWAY WE ARE THERE TO SUPPORT YOU, TAKE CARE
2007-11-03 10:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be brave, one has to face the problems and don't be so disturbed
2007-11-04 02:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋