Family & Relationships - 3 November 2007

I have recently gotten close to one of my husband's friends. My husband is also his supervisor. (They're cops). Apparently, we got a little too close. He kissed me, and I didn't stop it. I'll be the first to admit I enjoyed it (at the moment that is). I now realize that I screwed up royally. So naturally I went to my friends for advice. Some say that I should not tell my husband because it was just a kiss and would hurt him too much over something really small. Others think that I should have told my husband right away. He has cheated on me (not saying that makes it ok, just giving a fact). I'm scared to tell him. Don't know if I should. Don't want to create tension at work. I tried to tell him a few times before about something that happened when we were just dating and he refused to believe it. Thought I was joking. Didn't think that me cheating on him was possible. Have no clue how this is going to go. If I should tell him, how do I tell him? How do I undo the damage?

2007-11-03 22:07:55 · 15 answers · asked by GreenEyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Answer soon!!!!! It's really important to me!!!!!!!

2007-11-03 21:59:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're both in our thirties. She was late in starting college and is now in a PhD program.

2007-11-03 21:59:23 · 95 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Jesus, people. It was just a joke. I know I'm a pretty lady. DON'T FREAK OUT ON ME! IT'S GONNA BE OKAY! GOD LOVES ALL OF HIS CHILDREN.

2007-11-03 21:57:39 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went on a date with a sexy girl to a movie, ( 30 days of night was awesome) and after I got her home, just when we started to kiss, she threw-up all in my face and mouth. ( NASTY!!!) Now she want to go out again!! WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

2007-11-03 21:54:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anthony J 1 in Singles & Dating

Today I went outside and then people were staring at me and then one guy was like walking in front of me back and forth and then he smiled at me. So I followed all your advice and I smiled back, but then that's it. He did nothing. Some guys just went up to my face and give me a nasty look and say "sexy", but no I don't want those men. Another man who was decent stared at me for so long and I stared back, and he was gonna approach me and then he decided to go back and left. Then this man who was like 40ish is the one who went up to me and told me oh you're so beautiful i wanna squeeze you, Okay I am 18. So the people who are like my age or a little bit older [19 - 25] than me won't approach me, but the one who's almost my parents' age [40ish] will? What must I do to get you men to approach me?

I don't have a pic but people tell me I look like the girl on the left and I dress like that too, my hair is also like that but darker.

http://img89.imageshack.us/img89/4544/phoebefp0.jpg

2007-11-03 21:54:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At college I was doing an improvistaion with this guy...he was ok but just really big and clumsy...Norwegian (sp) and during the improv he decided it would be a good idea to suddenly kiss me without warning! Yeuch! I just carried on with the scene but I was dying to wipe my mouth..he even stuck his tongue in!!! Im all for spontinaiety (sp) in acting but this was just gross....and there was another guy friend who suddenly kissed me in work....I actually yelled at him and he couldnt understand why!

2007-11-03 21:51:29 · 10 answers · asked by Daisyhill 7 in Singles & Dating

I perferably like it wild...handcuffs and all!

2007-11-03 21:50:14 · 15 answers · asked by Sharee 1 in Singles & Dating

10pts to a well said answer.thanks

2007-11-03 21:41:07 · 23 answers · asked by kookakoolagoo 2 in Friends

I am 5'8, average looking 175lbs pretty muscular....im just trying to see what percentage of girls would write me off right away PHYSICALLY speaking......I know it comes down to confidence, but alot of girls write people off right away.....you can be honest

2007-11-03 21:40:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well Does It?

2007-11-03 21:38:02 · 28 answers · asked by Sharee 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex said he wouldnt mind me giving him a full monty. i was just wondering what it was because i've never actually heard of it, i've only heard of the film

2007-11-03 21:35:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have never come to know how men are attracted by beautiful women in the beginning, but in the end they never fall in love with them?

2007-11-03 21:34:41 · 2 answers · asked by Mishaj 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just looking for something nice and a bit on the traditional side... Veil, etc. Please include the website links...

2007-11-03 21:29:46 · 8 answers · asked by denny-n-mandy 1 in Weddings

Do you think that if you were dating someone 5 years and you broke up with them and you claimed that you really loved the other person you were with very much.....do you think that it's really truly possible to;

Meet someone on a cell phone through the internet on a text messaging service....text them for two month.....meet them only 3 weeks ago from today in person and say that you have moved on, over it, and happy with this new girl. Plus say that you love them already and are going to marry her soon and move her in with you? This meaning that you could get over your ex you supposedly loved even though you say you don't now in just knowing someone personally for 3 weeks????

2007-11-03 21:15:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyone Enjoy Going Nude at Home or at the Beach or Nude Camp Grounds With There Family?

2007-11-03 21:11:02 · 10 answers · asked by J T 1 in Family

I hate having to ask advice on the internet but im too embarassed anywhere else...

So I'm going off to college soon and I really want to know how often people have sex. Ive heard so many rumors and I know it can be an intense party scene...
Is there a lot of "hooking up"?
...Are college guys more respectful of us or players?

I'm a pretty girl and I just dont want to get hurt!

2007-11-03 21:10:15 · 18 answers · asked by isabella 2 in Singles & Dating

need frends to chat wiv

2007-11-03 21:09:06 · 14 answers · asked by tony24523 1 in Friends

As a junior in college, I plan to move states next year. My mom and I have had a close bond and now that I am leaving, it's very clear that it's hard on her. She says she supports me, but unconsciously, she's making it hard for me to leave (i.e guilt trips).

Just recently, she told me that if I go, my papa (grandfather) might get sick and I won't have the money to come and see him. When I told her I already set aside money to fly home, she said that if I come home, I won't be able to afford/make it for the funeral.

I was really hurt by this, but a friend told me that it definitely is possible and I should accept it and go. But I don't feel like I can 'just accept it'.

My mom's guilt trips are common these days but this one really stung, because it is a possibility. Talking with my mom hasn't worked, she just becomes more threatening. What should I do? How should I be feeling?

2007-11-03 21:01:44 · 5 answers · asked by Kyoko 2 in Family

I won't give specifics, but I used to be so easy going. Now, because I am under a high stress lifestyle (SO HIGH STRESS) I feel like I am no longer the person I used to be. Now I am so on edge, and although I have tonnes of friends, and more close friends than I could ask for, I don't want to push them away we this new bitchiness that I can't seem to shake. What do I do? I get irritated so quickly now.

2007-11-03 20:52:08 · 7 answers · asked by Answer-er 2 in Friends

2007-11-03 20:51:12 · 12 answers · asked by James W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was talking to my friend and she said that when she had sex that it felt weird and the boy said it felt weird and uncomforable for him aswell, does it feel alot different and a different pleasure from oral sex?

2007-11-03 20:47:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

adult dating for flirt or for a fling

2007-11-03 20:45:55 · 14 answers · asked by naga p 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad has a new gf and my parents aren't even divorced yet, i dont not like her but i dont like her, and my dad can nevr be without her, so i really have no choice, to be with my dad i have to see her...so what should i tell my dad to tell him how i feel without hurting his feelings??

2007-11-03 20:45:54 · 10 answers · asked by Dj MB 1 in Family

It is in the news. I am just a 19 year old boy. but i was shocked to hear they escaped. but they both relly loved each other and had sex. the 25 year old girl (teacher) was arrested in mexico? Why? its not like shes a predator, when its only older men, right? and he loved her too, why is it all broken up and not good? do you think they would have been good for each other???

2007-11-03 20:43:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 16 and have never given a b*****b... is this normal? I mean I feel like I should have already lost my virginity by now, but all I have done is like a dozen drunken make out sessions, and one barely memorable hand job. Am I pathetic?

2007-11-03 20:40:41 · 19 answers · asked by Answer-er 2 in Singles & Dating

physically fit,intelligent,intuitive and a great guitarist musician.

2007-11-03 20:40:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IM RUSSIAN AND MY BF IS BLACK AND MY MOM FOUND OUT I LIKED HIM AND SHE GOT MAD BECAUSE SHE DOESNT LIKE BLACK PEOPLE BUT HES NOT HORRIBLE HES PERFECT! THERES NOTHING I WOULD CHANGE ABOUT HIM HE LOOKS LIKE A BAD BOY BUT HES NOT REALLY WHAT SHOULD I TELL MY MOM SHE WONT LISTEN?

2007-11-03 20:40:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I would have known that sex is extremely OVER RATED than I would have waited til I got married...why didn't anyone tell me that it wasn't anything like the movies.??? Of course some times it greats, but I still could have waited, why don't people warn people??

2007-11-03 20:30:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My twins are about to leave home for college and I don't really know how to cope with that..My eldest daughter who graduated from highschool in 1999 get's angry everytime I talk about them leaving home..I do have two more children still in elementry but still It won't be the same without them. I live in Florida and they are going way to California.. what are ways to deal with this?

2007-11-03 20:29:16 · 12 answers · asked by La Femme Fatal 3 in Family