If I would have known that sex is extremely OVER RATED than I would have waited til I got married...why didn't anyone tell me that it wasn't anything like the movies.??? Of course some times it greats, but I still could have waited, why don't people warn people??
2007-11-03 20:30:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha I love your perspective!!
I'm still holding out, this makes me still want too.
2007-11-03 20:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom may not remember what it was like to actually believe the fantasy version of sex sold in the movies.
Your friends might not want to admit that they don't like the sex they're having.
Women vary a lot. Some women enjoy it from the start and some don't. Unfortunately, no advisor can predict for you how you personally will respond. There is no rule. All she can say is "This is my experience - yours may be different." And she might be embarassed to speak that frankly.
Some advisors refrain from warning girls about sex being overrated because they don't want to seem repressive.
2007-11-04 04:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Robin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised you feel that no one has warned you. No offense, but do you see all the commercials on tv? Do you not read magazines? Have you never come across a single person whether in real life, in a movie, tv show, etc who had expressed feelings about waiting or regretting having sex?
Its too bad.
2007-11-04 02:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sex seems to ALWAYS be good for the boy/guy, and girls/women are always wondering why they didn't wait. We want the guy to be happy. We want them to love us. And no matter what anyone tells us, we don't hear it, because it's not the answer we are looking for.
There seriously needs to be a whole campaign about sex being overrated until you're older, not just abstain from it, or practice safe sex.
2007-11-04 04:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by virtuouskelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could just be your take on the situation. could be various things you could have had a bad lover that didn't know what he was doing or you.. Could be your not into sex that much or feel that much.
Keep trying you haven't hit jack pot yet.
2007-11-04 02:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you have listened? Or would you have believed the media and mainstream opinion? I'm guessing the media option, most younger people believe mainstream until they get experience.
2007-11-04 02:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by Baradore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you have believed the warning?
2007-11-04 02:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do warn people.. especially the elders. you probably didnt happen to hear it or ignore it when people are talking about it.. but what's done been done.. just dont do it anymore n keep it till ur marriage if tt's wat u want..
2007-11-04 02:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by All for you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you wait for the sexual experience,the pleasure of sex will be more satisfying.this you have to know for your self.
anyway
after this be warned.bye, past is past..
2007-11-04 02:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by factmaker 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask your parents and friends I always try to tell my friends but they do what they want
2007-11-04 02:35:00 · answer #10 · answered by Melinda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋