I am 16 and have never given a b*****b... is this normal? I mean I feel like I should have already lost my virginity by now, but all I have done is like a dozen drunken make out sessions, and one barely memorable hand job. Am I pathetic?
2007-11-03 20:40:41 · 19 answers · asked by Answer-er 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh Good God Girl, Your concept of sex and what it should be is off. Good sex is when two people who really care about eachother get together and do things to eachothers bodies that make both individuals feel absolutely fabulous. B*****B's only get the guy off and will not do anything for you. Ask a better question when am I gonna find a man that will go down on it until I have one heck of an Orgasm. After you find that kind of guy then think about going down south on him.
2007-11-03 20:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you are not pathetic!! it's a good thing that you've managed to spare yourself the difficulty of getting pregnant before finishing school.
What is pathetic is that a guy would treat you so disrespectfully. You're better than that.
Think about it, those kinds of activities would you be proud if your grandma came in or was there????The fact that you feel awkward or weird about it is something telling you to back off these situations.
How about you try going with a better crowd and keep your dates G- rated.
Yeah sure it'll require being a little more creative and more modest but in the end at least you'll figure out good Parent Materials for when you PLAN a child.
Besides don't they teach about Sexually Transmitted Diseases in school any more????
I mean any where a body fluid goes (blood, spit, genital excretions, waste etc) a disease like AIDS ,SYPHYLIS, HERPES, GENITAL WARTS, GONORRHEA,... can go....
Guys usually don't go to doctors so they might not what they have if anything. and Guys lie a lot unfortunately. Especially younger guys....
Sometimes they'll say things like OH you're the first
to pressure you into sexual conduct.
2007-11-03 20:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by TrueBlue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I stumbled upon your question and felt the need to answer it in my own opinion... YOU'RE SIXTEEN! No you're not pathetic! Most girls now-a-days are commended for keeping their virginity. If you give it up, especially at your age, you will be considered easy and naive. You might even lose good friends and your reputation. Be proud that your not a slut! Don't let people pressure you into something that you Will regret and is guaranteed to emotionally upset you in the future. Oh, and another thing, stop drinking! Like I said before, you're sixteen, not twenty-one! Stop thinking that you have to be this mature social "cool" person and freakin be a kid for crying out loud!
2007-11-03 21:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and it is admirable to have not done these things. Don't let them brainwash you. Young women have more to offer than that...
And just so you know about 50 molesters are composing dirty emails to you right now, so prepare yourself for a lot of deleting
2007-11-03 20:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by ☺☻☺☻☺☻ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
16 is too young to be doing things like that. say you get pregnate by another 16 yr old. how are you two (assuming the guy will stick around) support yourselves and a child. you cant raise a child when your a child yourself. dont start dicking around til you can take care of yourself and another.
2007-11-03 20:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by berry_js 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 16!
Would you rather give as many BJ's as possible, get a reputation as a whore and a skank and get STD's?
You're pathetic for thinking such a thing
2007-11-03 20:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by SummerLovin' 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you part of a cult because the way you make normal kids out to be sounds pretty ...
cultish?
ps: maybe you should call child-protection services and get better parents.
your parents raised you to get drunk and have makeout sessions left and right???
DAMN!
2007-11-03 20:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Heres what you do. Ask your mother how she feels about your situation, and then follow her advice! If you don't, when you get older, you'll wish you had because we all eventually come to realize that mother was right.
2007-11-03 20:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's quite normal.
If he tells you otherwise, he's trying to play you
for the b.j.
Do what you want because you want to.
For no other reason.
2007-11-03 20:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by Irv S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your 16 it perfectly normal. your young dont rush things and dont due **** like that until you 100% sure your ready and that you want to.
2007-11-03 20:46:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋