Family & Relationships - 3 November 2007

2007-11-03 12:23:35 · 25 answers · asked by luckypetals 1 in Family

It's driving me crazy!! Every where I go there is always guys talking and looking at me up and down. I mean one time after volleyball practice I ran into the hallway to get some water. Well as I bended don to drink some water a group of guys just come over. This one guy comes right behind me and slaps my butt! I could not believe that he didi that! Then when I turned around the guys just started laughing and saying "Man she is all that and a bag of chips." And stuff like that. Then one time in class my teacher told me to right a problem on the board. So I went up and i did the problem. So leaned over to get the earaser when all of a sudden 5 guys fell out of their chairs! I knew they were looking at my boobs when I leaned over. It is getting annoying now. I mean I can't help that my body is very attractive but I just want the guys to stop looking very hard. I liked the attention at first butt now it is just perverted an duiscusting. I need major advice.

2007-11-03 12:23:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can I do to make you carrrrrrrre?

What can I say to make you feel this?

What can I do to get you there?

2007-11-03 12:21:16 · 11 answers · asked by Perfectwings 3 in Singles & Dating

I have met her NUMEROUS times, and I know she likes me. We have been dating quite a while, and we go to visit her regularly. Granted, she was tired and stressed, and had been traveling, but still...

She caught herself and apologized, but it still freaked me out.

How to handle this?

2007-11-03 12:12:26 · 24 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I live in a majority white area( Not by choice) and I am an 18 year male high school senior ( black). I don't dress thuggish, I speak correct english, and I make good grades and run track for my school. Every time I go somewhere where there are a majority of whites, people just seem afraid of me. People get nervous when I walk in elavator's, go into stores with expensive items, and just normal sisuation's. I am used to being followed around in stores containing expensive items. One person even said to my face " your nicer then I would have expected" wtf is that supposed to mean? I have medium brown skin, I am almost 6'5, and have a natural athletic look with broad shoulders, is this why people are afraid of me? Things that I cannot change? I went into a store one time to buy some food items, an old white cashier said to my face without asking me I thought you were going to use food stamps and just sayed lighten up its a joke, wtf are serious? I can't take this **** anymore.

2007-11-03 12:11:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister was married a year ago this pass September and at first her husband was ok but then he decided to tell her after there wedding he was fired from work and then in January she found out that she was pregnant and then he decides to tell her a couple mounths after she was pregnant that he does crack and was doing it when the baby was conceived I am so worried for her he cannot keep a job gets fired every couple mounths please help me to help her.

2007-11-03 12:11:06 · 14 answers · asked by Danielle L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im burning too

2007-11-03 12:10:54 · 59 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

Well as my hubby has sat infront of the tv staring at football and ignored me all day .. I decided to actually start watching the tv and the guys talking about the sports have these little pins on their coats and they looked like tomatoes to me. And I asked "what are those? Tomatoes?"

All the sudden my husband jumps up and starts yelling at me about how they are poppy flowers that are meant to be in memory of all the soldier thats died in the war and I should show some f'ig respect and not be such a rude b*tch

I'd really like to know how I was suppose to know this ... I'm from the US we don't have pins like that and I've never seen them before. I tried explaining this and got told to shut up because I was just being stupid

I really don't understand what I said that was wrong ...

2007-11-03 12:07:57 · 37 answers · asked by ♥Holly Cookie Starr™♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 12:06:13 · 32 answers · asked by John S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother and his wife have filed for divorce after 23 years of marriage, two teenage daughters. The x-wife has started dating as soon as she filed papers. Is this good for the girls? My brother doesnt seem to think so. He says he wants to wait. He doesnt want to cause anymore damage than what there already is. Is there a set time limit on this kind of thing or what? What's the protocal?

2007-11-03 12:04:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 12:04:16 · 7 answers · asked by Shafeeqah 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with this man for almost 5yrs.on and off ..we have a 3yr.old son together,and today I found out he has a son with someone else.almost 12 yrs.old and a JR.. I asked him before if he had other children.NO he had said but did not want our son aJR.. and today when $121 was taken out of his check he had to exlpain!!!$33,3?? later on support OWED.. Iam a divorced single mom of 3 other children who had a house and $400.aweek child support when he met me. Iam not sure what I should do?He has a16 yr.old daughter that Iam aware of that he doesnot support or provide for at all ..I was hoping to remarry but I donot want to take on his responsabilities either ..I was a stay at home wife until I met HIM.I do realize the grass isn't greener on the other side.and now Iam starting to question if Iam being punished for leaving my ex-husband who was abusive and a drunk that was not a good father to our 3 children.....Help

2007-11-03 11:56:46 · 7 answers · asked by Susan S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got a new six figure job in management. It is more money then I ever made. I am good father and already pay an enormous amount of child support. I don't want to short change my kids but if I make more money to I have to give it to my ex wife. I just want to get ahead. Legally is she entitled to more support. We just signed our last agreement 6 months ago. I live in California.

2007-11-03 11:50:46 · 15 answers · asked by Scott M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So, we have been married since 2004. I have two children from a former relationship (ages 9 and 14) and they do love him dearly. He has continually lied to me - though the early years are just retrospect.
His first lie when when he flunked out of college and pretended to still go for 3 months. He slept on his parent's couch for that time. He then lied about a DUI and lost his license. He then lied about paying his car insurance and getting another violation. No car for another year and beaucoup legal fees.
He then lied about his paychecks, bill paying, etc. I finally took over his paycheck and started paying all bills.
He then opened up accounts without my knowledge, charged items, etc. and then defaulted. His parents EVEN co-signed. Unbelieveable!
Now, the payments I have given him for his car payment have gone missing for the last few months. This is something that he has promised to be responsible about and stop lying to me about.I hink this is a deal breaker.

2007-11-03 11:45:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so there had been a rumor going around school and my boyfriend had already told me that he hasn't started it. So my best friend tells me that she had been hearing that he was the one that has been starting it. So i called him saying i already know that you told that you haven't been starting the rumor but somebody has been saying you have. My intentions was not to start anything at all I really just wanted him to watch his back because it could be a scandolous friend saying it. All of a sudden he went off on me. Telling me not to call his phone saying something like that. I just want to know am I wrong for telling him or is he wrong for going off on me and hanging up in my face?

2007-11-03 11:41:45 · 13 answers · asked by starburyindagame 2 in Singles & Dating

how are guys constantly "arroused" when they don't have an errection?

2007-11-03 11:33:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont want to injure him, or do something horrible. I just want something that will really annoy him, but will make otehr and myself laugh. A good idea i heard was sneaking into his house and spreading grass seeds over his carpet and soiling and watering it =D What else can i do?

2007-11-03 11:32:40 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and professing her true, undying love to him?

A THIRTEEN YEAR OLD BOY???????????????????????

Now I KNOW the world has snapped and gone insane!

2007-11-03 11:28:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How To Tell Him?

Ok help please!!!!

I've been talking to this guy i meet for like 3 monthsalready we live like 30m away and he comes to see me like every weekend and we talk everyday things are getting veryserious we are both 18 now he is a virgin and im not
i never told him before cause we were just friends but now that things are gettiing serious i need him to knw i have try to bring up the conversetion saying" so have you sleept with any bode are you a virgin" hoping that when he answers me he ask me the same but it dosent happen so i have also tried this "is there anything you want to know about me like my past or someting but he never askes me if im a virginn so how do i tell him i am afraid we stop talking when he finds out im not.so whats teh best way tosay it and how?i really need help on this people please.i love him and i dont want to lose him and it was my past i was 14 so i was stupid back then i had no idea what i was doing the guy was even older than me help

2007-11-03 11:26:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been together forover 18 yrs, n have 2 sons, 17 yr old and a 4 yr old connor, i dont love their dad no more and he know it, now he lives in scunthorpe and ilive in castleford but spend all the time at his, because he wants us there to look after him when i tell him i want to go home he turns into a 4 yr old and says WHAT ABOUT ME even when connor should be in school when i am at home he takes connor back to scunthorpe because he says connor wants to be with his dad not with a NASTY BITCHlike me. yes that is what connor calls me most of the time, soi end up back in scunthorpe to be with connor reminding him every day that he should be in school, BUT WHAT ABOUT ME he got sack 3 months ago, so hes gonna lose the house hes renting hes no money coming in, i only get 114 each week and the 2 boys have 1 xmas present each so far, but dad hs to have his weed when he runs out,to me hes nasty bastard whoionly thinks of himself but says he will win custody of connor WILL HE????/??????

2007-11-03 11:20:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-03 11:18:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If everything is good in your relationship, you feel your partner is your best friend that u feel so comfortable sharing with and spending time with, who always has sex with you whenever you want it and the sex is good why would you go ruin that by having a one night stand with another woman, especially an easy woman who isnt that attractive? THis is not only me, but I know a few men who are cheating on women they claim to love so dearly who mean the world to them. Why do you gys cheat?

2007-11-03 11:18:29 · 12 answers · asked by mentaltornado 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like when he c me he cums to me and starts huggin and kissin me! When he hugs me he starts lliken and kisken my neck!And i don't get time to spend wit my other friends! I luv him to death! He is HOT & SEXY!!! But he is too much....though he asked me to sleep wit him! should i say yes? help me here...

2007-11-03 11:14:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son has been asking for years for me to take him to San Antonio. I went some years back and he has seen all the pictures of all the places I went and has wanted to go. I haven't been able to afford to take him, because I had to spend what little child support I got on food, clothes and such. Now that I am getting more financial help, would it be alright to take some of the child support and take my son on a weekend trip to San Antonio?

2007-11-03 11:11:08 · 9 answers · asked by Pink Cowgirl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like the Black & Latino men that grew up in the generation X/Hip Hop generation feel that cheating is acceptable and it is actually encouraged. As a Latina woman who grew up in this generation shoudl I just accept that these men nowadays are going to cheat? We are all in our late 20's early 30's now and all of my guy friends/exes have cheated on me or whoever woman they were with and even their wives.. Is this just what the women in our generation are gonna have to deal with? I feel like Im beating a dead horse trying to find a faithful man and shoudl just give up. And all of my married guy friends have cheated on their wives.
And I dont just know a few men. I mean guy friends, as well as all the men I work with in my present and previous jobs. I m talking about over 40 men,
This ISNT just guys I dated but all of the guys I know from this generation. My married guy friends go out and cheat on their wives, but they say they love their wives/girlfriends. I

2007-11-03 11:03:22 · 8 answers · asked by lookinfortruth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How much would it cost for my fiance and I to get married at justice of the peace in like 5 mins? we live in league city texas. Also include the marriage license. THANKS It will just be me him and the kids. we will have a big old wedding later on.

2007-11-03 11:00:49 · 11 answers · asked by brijack84 1 in Weddings

Does your husband help in raising your kids?

Mine are teens now and he thinks things have been "fine" .. say what?! He's done nothing! lol ..

No planning (holidays, birthdays, vacations, weekends, nada), never bought a gift (unless I brought it up or reminded him) .. yet he thinks he's helped raise them just fine ..

By the way we've been married 22 yrs, the kids are 18, 16, 14 ..so it's been a long time of the above.

I've had "the talk" with them, I'm the major disciplinarian, the major stuff, he just says "yeah what your mom said" (no joke)

He doesn't earn all the money either ..

What's your take on it?!

2007-11-03 10:55:20 · 17 answers · asked by Queenie` 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 10:54:53 · 18 answers · asked by : 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 10:50:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went on a date with this guy I liked last month. I think he was kinda intimidated by the fact that unlike most girls he dated, I was career-oriented and was not going to just have sex with him. He's also suffering from the 'since I broke up with the only girlfriend I ever had,I've decided to just fool around' kinda guy. For that reason, I kinda stopped talking to him and a part of him was hoping he'd make an effort because I am a good girl. After a month, and him totally ignoring me since he seems to have a fan club of chicks, I erased him from my msn and my facebook friends. My friends say I was wrong and should have just been more aggressive and he would have decided to me be with me. Was I wrong to think that if he liked me, he'd have made an effort? Was I wrong to completely cut him off? Will it make me look like a fool?

2007-11-03 10:49:56 · 3 answers · asked by Coming_home 2 in Singles & Dating