im burning too
2007-11-03 12:10:54 · 59 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell! he'll never be able to prove it and you can always just say it was an accident.
2007-11-03 19:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by jamel_saves 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you ready to lose him? If you tell him, you run that risk. Ask yourself why you cheated. Are that into your BF? Maybe it is time to end things? You should not sleep with your BF again until you know you are clean. Get a pap, etc. Did you use protection? Even if you did, you may be carrying Human Paploma Virus.
Anyway, give yourself time to think all this through and remember that the past is past. Don't beat yourself up too much. Just do the best you can now.
After you know what is in your heart, and if you are clean, then tell him. He deserves no less. You deserve no less.
2007-11-03 12:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not if there's no chance of him finding out and u really feel that u love him,want 2 be with him and would never do it again then there's no point in hurting him and ruining ur relationship!!
However if I was the one being cheated on I would want 2 be told and I would split with my bf straight away he told me!!
Oh sorry 2 b thick - burning what?!?!
2007-11-03 12:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Summer84 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're burning the first thing you should do is get to the doctor. If you want to continue in your relationship you should tell your bf and see if he's willing to stay with you. If you'd rather be with someone else, just break up with the bf and spare him the humiliation of the details. Either way you decided to take the actions that you took, he should be able to decide if he wants to continue with you.
2007-11-03 12:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Franny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I definitely recommend letting him know that you have cheated on him. it's only a matter of time before you give him the same STD that's giving you that burning sensation.
What's the point of having a BF if your going to sample everyone elses goods. Break it off till you've matured enough to realize it's better to open your legs to the one who really loves you; not the one who knows you really love it.
2007-11-03 12:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tigerbabe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No! Unless you want to break up. You aren't married to him, so don't worry so much. Just make sure you don't do it again. If a man cheats on a woman, hell he don't care, so why should we die if we do? Just stay true from now on. Remember men don't forgive this cheating stuff like we do. If you are guilty, ask God to forgive you. Not your man. Unless he pops the question and marry you, then you don't owe him nothing. NADA, ZILCH!!
2007-11-03 12:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean your burning? Like from intercourse. If so you havr to tell him because if you contracted something, you will pass it back and forth. Also I would tell him anyway. He may leave you or stay but there is a reason you cheated and it needs to be out in the open.
2007-11-03 12:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by reeree 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would you sleep with your boyfriend, knowing that you are burning. How about if he cheated on you and burn you. How would you feel. If you cheated, then you are not happy with him anyway...tell him and move on so he can get check out, for his but be burning too..
2007-11-03 12:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by bert bert 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, you should tell him. Otherwise he will find out from someone else, and it will break the trust even more than it is already going to.
Actually, you should probably break up with him - since you have cheated on him once, you will probably do it again, and it is only going to make his life worse. Let him go so he can find someone who will be true to him and love him as he deserves to be loved.
2007-11-03 12:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by IJToomer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends ...
First off all, why would you want to be with someone that you have cheated on? besides that ...
Once you corrupt confidence it is very difficult to get it back and secondly, seriously: I don`t get when people cheats and still wants to be with the same person!
If you cheated that means you bf did not fullfill you, otherwise, why would you want to be with someone else? unless you are 20 years old and still have not make up your mind!
2007-11-03 12:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to tell him unless you want him to finish with you ? Cheating is never a good thing to do but it is unfair to unburden your soul on a partner. If you tell him, you have only yourself to blame for the consequences. Tell a friend instead.
2007-11-03 12:15:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋