Family & Relationships - 3 November 2007

Ok my husband move all our stuff when I was at work !!! We moved across town anyways he put our love seat sectional and our couch all in th e living although they are all green I think it looks like 2 much going on what do you think ?? I tried to tell him but he says thats the way he wants it :( help

2007-11-03 13:51:20 · 13 answers · asked by Melissa H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 13:50:04 · 21 answers · asked by Drifter 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfirend (ex now I guess) just called round to mine, cooked me dinner, and then dumped me. The house is so quiet now he's gone. Im really hurting. Any words of wisdom? please....

2007-11-03 13:49:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 13:49:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I broke up 2 weeks ago. it was mutual. he's scared to be in a serious relationship bc he's recently gone through a divorce. he said he wanted to take a step back and I said I couldn't do that. he kept asking if i was going to leave and never call again and i said i didn't know. it's been 2 weeks and i want to contact him...Whats the first step I should take?

i should add that i did send him a letter after we broke up basically stating that we needed time and space to think about what we really wanted...should i still contact him?

2007-11-03 13:47:43 · 10 answers · asked by Jax 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he brought me bak 2 his country 2 marry him but with 1 condition if only i will look after his mom. i been looking after his mom for 2yrs during the day and im working at night as well. he bought me a car and been paying him bak but at the end he took it bak from me and i didnt get my money back. we never sleep in one bed, i been sleeping in the other room by myself. im tired and sick of being in that position. i left him this year and rented a house for myself. i have a better life now since i left him. BUT THE BIG PROBLEM IS HE WANTS $19,000 FROM ME AND IF I WONT GIVE THAT KINDA MONEY HE WILL SEND ME BACK TO MY COUNTRY. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. CAN SOMEONE HELP ME?

2007-11-03 13:45:42 · 9 answers · asked by cutie_mnz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 13:44:24 · 4 answers · asked by tinytim alone 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy who I haven't seen in almost three years. We were neighbors for two years and hung out and we went to the same high school. He knew I liked him back then and I would go to his games because he was on the football team.

While I was waiting on the train to take me home he comes up to me and we haven't seen each other in almost three years.

We were talking and he then asks me if I go to my college football games and I said no. Then he says "Oh cuz I'm on the football team at my college and my team is playing against your team pretty soon." I told him that was cool and then he quickly said it was nice seeing me and turned around and left.

I feel like yesterday he was inviting me to watch him play football, but I'm not quite sure. Does it sound that way

2007-11-03 13:42:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She was finished with the computer and she got on another website then she had to go home and change clothes.We missed our ride and her momma had to take us then we had to stop by the store to get some change so her momma could give her some money.Then, when we got there the game was sold out.Should I get mad at her or what?

2007-11-03 13:41:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

girly girl who likes pink, cheerleader, nice, sweet and caring very confident and not shy

or

sporty girl who likes blue, soccer player, wise, shy but confident and quiet

i just wondered because there's a big difference between the two

2007-11-03 13:36:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do u think of a girl who is not of anything and say what ever she wants and dose what ever she wants

2007-11-03 13:34:27 · 2 answers · asked by Peanut V 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 13:31:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help is there anyone out there in a loveless marrige! with no money no sex and just about to be evicted from your home?

2007-11-03 13:15:42 · 12 answers · asked by Sally B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend knew of this place i had looked at last week and she knows how hard it is to find a place that will accept cats as she was looking for one not to long ago and gave up cuz there are Not many in this area and i need one so i go and look at this place and i fell in love with it and filled out app and my friends mom is separated from her hubby and staying with my friend and she told her mom about the place i want and now she is gtg put in app on Mon and i am sooo angry,hurt and feel stabbed in the back so much so i am starting to think this is really No "Friend" her mom has also done this before and goes right back to the hubby and if she gets the place then goes back to hubby that will really be it! I really am thinking she is really Not such a good friend after all this, and we just recently got back talking to each other after another falling out years ago but i am beginning to regret it now so what do you think?

2007-11-03 13:11:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-03 13:01:03 · 26 answers · asked by mastermind4444 2 in Singles & Dating

I have tried everything possible. Craigslist, Fling, Singlesnet, True, Match, etc... What is wrong with me? I am not ugly, I'm more than friendly, kind, decent, take good care of myself.
Craigslist has really, really pissed me off, its so fake it should be illegal. Same goes with Fling. I can't understand it, aren't women looking for my type? Or are they just looking for the guys that are meaner, almost abusive cause they like that kind of crap.
Because I work very early mornings, I am not afforded a night life, cept on weekends. Any advice from the populace would be more than helpful. Thank you.

2007-11-03 12:58:06 · 21 answers · asked by lcpllang0331 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine is when ppl break plans at the very last minute that erks me so bad.

2007-11-03 12:56:49 · 38 answers · asked by ? 4 in Friends

How would he act around me, or even say if he got the guts.

2007-11-03 12:56:38 · 8 answers · asked by Sinead R 1 in Singles & Dating

A.)with my parents
i try to talk to them and stuff,
but when they ask me stuff i just get annoyed and dont want to talk
plus im alwasy quiet cause i dont want to talk to them...
how can i help the situation, if i can


and also
B.) when i am around the girl i like,
i get extrememly nervous
i cant help it
and i end up not saying anything to her...
and i really want to talk but i just cant...
can someone help me with these problems?

2007-11-03 12:55:15 · 11 answers · asked by mukiedude92 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

just recently, my friend introduced me to her friend, Jason. From the moment i met Jason i knew that he was perfect. Sometimes i even think i'm a it obsessive, because i doodle and write letters to him i'll never give him. that is until this past friday . well, my best friend and i used to write letters to eachother, just about our day or thoughts that we had had. so i was so anxious to talk to him when i couldn't a wrote him one of these "letters", i saw him during passing at school and gave it to him, he had a surprised look on his face, but like it had been expected. i was waiting until i saw him again after 6th period, and i walked up to him, expecting for him to write back.
he doesn't smile and he says, "what was the point of that letter you wrote?!" what reaally got me was that, there really was no point. i was just being friendly. i kept a smile on my face for the rest or the time i stood infront of him, when i turned away, my eyes were empty and my smile was on the floor.

2007-11-03 12:53:23 · 3 answers · asked by francis farmer 1 in Friends

My girlfriend and I were talking about what our wedding would be like if we got married, and started talking about who would be our flower girl and ring bearer.

We have quite a few little boys in our families who could be the ring bearer - five boys who would be between the ages of 3 and 5 by the time we would probably get married.

Flower girl would be a much bigger problem. We have only one younger girl in either of our families, and she would be at least 7 by the time we got married. The only other little girl we could think of is the daughter of a close friend of mine, who would be about 3 by the time we had a wedding.

What are the acceptable ages for kids to be ring bearers and flower girls?

2007-11-03 12:52:03 · 13 answers · asked by SoCal Dude 3 in Weddings

how often do you argue? I am purposely not putting qualifiers like the topic of the disagreement. Also do you think that it is healthy to argue as much as you do?

2007-11-03 12:50:10 · 12 answers · asked by Vacious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in my late 20's. I dated a man in his early mid-40's, b ut it ended almost a year ago for many reason.....

A couple months later, we started contacting eachother again...texts, emails, and phone calls. This went on for a while. We never got together, we only talked.

Then that fizzled b/c he wanted to try and date again. I refused to do that, mainly because he always blamed me 100% for the last breakup. I admit, I was part to blame......but so was he! He was a real jerk towards the end. Had he admitted to me that he was a jerk, I may have gone out with him again. But nope, it was allll my fault.
If we got back together, I want to be able to communicate with him (or any partner). I try to communicate with him and he completely disregards my feelings about so many things.

So now that I told him that I DON'T want to get back with him, and my reasons why....he is completely ignoring me. The silent treatment. What is up with that at hos age? Has he completely moved on?

2007-11-03 12:49:14 · 20 answers · asked by sephia 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I've worked and earned the money to pay for an iphone and I went out to get it with my Dad (so he was agreeing with me on getting it) but that was when the software update 1.1.1 came out and you couldn't unlock it anymore. Now I have decided to not even bother unlocking it because you are just going to have to keep waiting for an unlock to come out every software update is releases, and just sign with AT&T for a 2 year contract. It would be $70 and some change a month and I can make that in a day at work. Now my dad is like hell no you’re not getting it. I think it would be a good idea for me to get the monthly bill because it will teach me how to handle bills and give me some more responsibilities. So I've decided to just buy the phone with his credit card (mine is an extension of his) online and give him the cash when it comes in. Am I wrong here; I mean I'm going to be paying for everything.

2007-11-03 12:41:14 · 2 answers · asked by jersey_boy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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i have made an improvement

i know have her msn. got it off her friend.

should i start a msn conversation with her and talk to her about what?

2007-11-03 12:35:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 12:35:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Am I?
Because I'm afraid to kiss my boyfriend.
It's just because I don't want to kiss someone who's not worth it. You know?

2007-11-03 12:34:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you felt bad about yourself because in someway you felt you needed to change when in actually you were fine just the way you were even better than fine???I have learned from dating many guys in the past 2 years that I will always be myself take me or leave me hehehe Even the men I thought highly were selfish and had egos as one friend said to me LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!!!

2007-11-03 12:31:27 · 12 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 12:26:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He lives with me and my parents and my 2 kids ..Everything i do i get the third degree like everynight its turn the tv down or o if i'm on the net i must be cheating ...He treats me good or so he says when he gets paid he give my mom rent and me 25 bucks a wek cause things are touch and i;m looking for work ..But he trows in my face when he gets me things we argue all the time i feel like i can't breath without permission ..He says he does alot but everyday after work he cares less what time he gets home he goes straight to the bar ..He was supposed to work today and come stragiht of if he didn't i told him not to bother he knows i am hungry cause i haven't got my check yet to go food shopping i mean yeah the kids eat ...first and formost so here i am like a dumb *** waiting i said screw it and locked the door course he'll come home in the front door and make up so lame excuse what should i do i need advice some please give me some advice?

2007-11-03 12:25:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating