My boyfirend (ex now I guess) just called round to mine, cooked me dinner, and then dumped me. The house is so quiet now he's gone. Im really hurting. Any words of wisdom? please....
2007-11-03 13:49:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-11-03 13:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what I would do is only keep yourself doing happy stuff, to keep your mind off the subject of ever being dumped. So, do everything you possibly can to keep your mind off this for however long you can. If this doesn't work, have a girls' night out, and explain the situation to them. They should understand, and you guys can treat yourselves to a spa day, and you know, it also helps if you go to a place where you can meet, perhaps, an even greater guy. Oh, and another thing; if you need to let your feelings out, call up a friend or family member(that you trust of course) and I'm sure they can offer support. Also, pouring all your feelings out on paper and then ripping it up can do so much, too.
2007-11-03 14:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sophie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you have gone through some hard times in your life and you got through most I'm sure. Many more trials will come your way, so just think, this too shall pass. You'll find someone new and he'll be even better than the last. What ever you do, don't lower the expectation bar. You still deserve the best and you have to believe that.
2007-11-03 13:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, i hope you're okay. I think that you should just either spend some time alone... away from any guys. Maybe watch a moovie by yourself, treat yourself to a day at the spa, go shopping? Something like that. OR you could hang out with alot of friends and just laugh it off at a fave restaurant, and just relax. Don't think about anything, just be a kid again, you know? Hope this helped! Good luck! Be strong!
2007-11-03 13:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So a scene from the Last Supper then? Bummer!!! Go get you a nice bottle of wine, put on some music and have a warm bath by candle light. Tomarrow, go out and replace him with a puppy or a kitty. It would be a lot more understanding and will love you unconditionally!
2007-11-03 13:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was super cruddy 4 him 2 do dat. but the only thing to do iz move on. call a couple of friends over and have a "i hate men " party. it worked for me. all u gotta do iz get a few pictures of him and rip them up. hurt the picture as hard as how he hurt u. this wont solve anything but im sure it'll make u feel so much better.
2007-11-03 13:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Slim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better now than later...when you're married...with children...then you have to think about your children's future. Then you have to think about seeing him again. Possibly with another woman.
The boyfriend doesn't know what he's lost...
Want to sing "girls just want to have fun" with me??? lol
Sorry to hear about your situation. I hate being dumped. But it happens to all of us and always around the worst time. It's like they know when to push that button that we really don't even realize exists until what's done is done. The excrutiating pain of break-up. Listen to The Used...Good songs there.
2007-11-03 13:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by LadyD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unfortunately there probably isn't anything someone can say to make you feel better. If there is, make sure you let me know =) It does totally suck, and will probably suck for awhile. But I promise with time it does get better. It sounds cliche but is really true, time heals all wounds. Good luck, I hope you take this time to just spend time with your friends and get to know yourself again =)
2007-11-03 13:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by grace 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry dear! You are awesome and will find someone 300% better than him. Do you have any good friends/family you can confide in? I know you are broken-hearted, but (believe it or not) you will get through this. :)
2007-11-03 13:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by Mary B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I look back on each of my past breakups, I think to myself..."thank goodness I didn't wind up with her. What the hell was I thinking?"
One day you will look back on this one and think the same. You'll even be grateful to him for dumping you one day, when you meet "the one."
2007-11-03 13:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call a friend and talk, always helps to hear from someone that does care about you and that can bring you comfort.
2007-11-03 13:52:35 · answer #11 · answered by DT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋