Ok my husband move all our stuff when I was at work !!! We moved across town anyways he put our love seat sectional and our couch all in th e living although they are all green I think it looks like 2 much going on what do you think ?? I tried to tell him but he says thats the way he wants it :( help
2007-11-03 13:51:20 · 13 answers · asked by Melissa H 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok I dont know where to put the couch and loveseat !!! would it be strange to put them in our bed room ?? its really big !!
2007-11-03 14:03:33 · update #1
were all crazy,it been called married, get over it
im sure he will move it back, men love to move stuff around
woman however dont ..........
cook him something nice, talk sweetly to him ,
then demand he moves it back, or hes on that sofa for ever lol lol
2007-11-03 14:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats all you have a problem with in your marraige count your self lucky..
Save fighting on this its to trivial to get upset over.. he's probably tired of moving from one place to the next lifting it all and he's plop it all down in the living room and he's saying its fine there.
Say thank you dear offer him a back massage for pete sake. and then when he's at work or out doing something you get into your martha stewart mode and design and shape away the way you want your living room to look.
Men arn't usually into all that stuff anyways. I'm sure you can take care of this. he's got other worries to deal with.
2007-11-03 23:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby and I bought our new furniture before we bought our home and now it's way too much, but the thing is compromise. Instead of our large cough, love seat and ottoman, i put the love seat and ottoman upstairs and bought him a real nice recliner. Now he spends so much time in the recliner he doesnt even remember the missing furniture. Maybe try something like that.
2007-11-03 21:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I think you need to embrace the use of the period as a punctuation mark. It will help to couch (no pun intended) your thoughts into sentences that we can understand.
Next you should probably leave it alone. Is it really that big of a deal? It certainly does not suggest he is crazy. It suggests he is not gay if he can't out a room together.
Good luck.
2007-11-03 20:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Melissa....mine does the same!!! I go grocery shopping and I return and he has "redecorated" and I hate it!!! And it's my house (that I bought before I married him).
I gradually rearrange things to look a little better - can you add pillows or move one item when you vaccuum?
Dr. Phil tells men "don't mess with the nest" but mine doesn't care.
Joy to you!!!
2007-11-03 20:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as the room is not too small and doesnt look crowded....and where the hell else are the couches supposed to go!?
2007-11-03 20:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by NicoleY. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nail his den furniture to the ceiling. He'll get the message.
2007-11-03 23:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by The Eternal Squire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move it all back when he goes to sleep :D
2007-11-03 20:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's decorated his sleeping area really nice.
2007-11-03 21:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your house too, move it back.
2007-11-03 20:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋