A.)with my parents
i try to talk to them and stuff,
but when they ask me stuff i just get annoyed and dont want to talk
plus im alwasy quiet cause i dont want to talk to them...
how can i help the situation, if i can
and also
B.) when i am around the girl i like,
i get extrememly nervous
i cant help it
and i end up not saying anything to her...
and i really want to talk but i just cant...
can someone help me with these problems?
2007-11-03 12:55:15 · 11 answers · asked by mukiedude92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the whole, hang out with girls so i am comfortable talking to them
i dunno i think this is different
like i really care for this girl,
and i am pretty sure she feels the same about me
and we text eachother
so i know waht to say
but i dont know,
when i am around her i know waht i should say,
i just cant...
i guess im just looking for an answer on how to not be so nervous...
2007-11-03 13:06:31 · update #1
to Broken&Bruised:
i dont think it is depression and im not anti-social
im a very live and energetic person
i have a lot of friends
and when i am around them
im always really crazy and i talk alot and everything normal,
A and B are the only times im like that
2007-11-03 13:08:37 · update #2
A: Normal teenage response. You need to remember that your parents are just people.... Not your enemy... but people who care more for you than anything else.
B: It is normal to feel like that around girls. Just start talking. Believe me she's probably just as nervous too!
2007-11-03 13:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think either of these are problems, just normal stuff we all go or went through.
A. with your parents just play a game with yourself to see how patient and nice you can be. Your parents will be nicer and in turn it will become the way you all get along for real.
B. With the girl, come up with a few lines that you can use anytime. You will be prepared and therefore you won't be nervous and can talk normally to her.
2007-11-03 20:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt be surprised if you had depression.when i wasnt being treated for it, i had problems with A & B but with guys.
your anti social. and its a long an hard road to go on.
i am anti social, and although i am better, i am not over this.
depression causes anti socialism which in turn causes problems with family friends and makes you feel like you have no one in this world to talk to.
and it sux. point blank it sux.
i know how you feel.
i really dont know what to say about the girl problems.
sorry
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i really hoped this help you. your not alone. try to go to your parents and ask to seek a therapist. it will help. to explain everything to a person who you dont konw feels amazing
2007-11-03 20:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by Night visions 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A) Be more open to what your parents have to say.
B) Try and make friends with a girl, and get used to being around one....Than maybe approach the girl you like.
2007-11-03 19:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by mah dddd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
4 the parents ? but girls you just need to think that you dont really like them and it makes it so much ezer
2007-11-03 19:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by Zach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents love you but they can be irksome. when you're around someone who's hot you dont know what to do with yourself.
2007-11-03 19:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by GG 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're normal! Relax and know that there is nothing wrong with you! =)
2007-11-03 20:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♥CarolinaMommy♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
[a] me too,,they get on my nerves too
[b] normal 4 a guy to do that
2007-11-03 20:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria&* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We call that being shy.
2007-11-03 19:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by bilinmz 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
grow some balls
2007-11-03 19:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋