please help is there anyone out there in a loveless marrige! with no money no sex and just about to be evicted from your home?
2007-11-03 13:15:42 · 12 answers · asked by Sally B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Email me sally, or Im me on yahoo messenger at solidsnake277 im kinda in the same situation, been married for 7 years,,ok hope to hear from you soon. bye
2007-11-03 13:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by solidsnake277 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor sweetie. You have to help yourself!
Take control of your life dear.
If you are in a loveless marriage and have tried everything to make it work, leave! It is an option. Everyone deserves to be happy. You don't have to be trapped in a social institution just because society 'expects' you to.
Pursue your own happiness now because it seems like you're slipping into depression and resentment. The sex will come. Don't dive into anything too soon though. Give yourself some time to see the big picture.
Find a job. Even if it seems a lowly one. We all have to start somewhere. I'm unsure if there are any welfare organisation you can approach to help you with your home, I'm sorry. Is there anyone you can stay with temporarily? Family or friends? At least until you can get more help or earn enough for rent.
Good luck sweetie. Be decisive. Be firm. Be empowered.
2007-11-03 13:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by cherie 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
ok i did no longer even difficulty to examine the completed element only study the 1st line and that's it i'm no longer a virgin and to be effortless i'm at a component the place I ought to probable be doing what you're doing being depressed, yet I grew above the subjects that comprise dropping your virginity sure I stated issues. little question intercourse is huge yet there additionally comes the emotional attachment to somebody that makes you go loopy in the event that they cheat on you considering you're extra harm than a common guy who did no longer have intercourse with that person. additionally the asserting that when you lost your virginity you alter right into a addict after is somebody actual, if i do no longer condition my recommendations suitable now i might probable be slumbering with the completed city because of the fact i can't locate the appropriate guy you get me. maximum adult men substitute into whores or in spite of because of the fact they gave it up can't locate the appropriate person to extra healthful them so as that they sleep around please be aside of the minority and wait. be happy with your self babe and thank God you're nonetheless a virgin that's less complicated so which you will no longer supply right into a woman additionally who trys to attach with you only for the intercourse, considering you would be scared, that's tougher for use once you're a virgin. interior the international of intercourse the place you're no longer in a dating you the two be used or use human beings. particularly frank i'm happy which you're, wait on the appropriate one and it will likely be relatively actual worth the wait believe me, do no longer only go giving it up considering you wanna understand what it sounds like or in spite of. My suited advice with each and every decision you're making in life bear in mind that it has a repercussion the two effective n unfavorable. additionally someone would not fill the void area of loneliness so if that's a female buddy which you relatively choose you should think of roughly why is it which you're lonely considering you have got 50 human beings around and nonetheless be lonely someone would not take that away, you're making it a mindset so it feels good to have somebody around, as a result the guy would not take the loneliness away they occupy your state for that component.
2016-10-14 22:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very hard to say but it's obvious that you are in a terrible situation. Are there children involved? If not I would say get out of the relationship. You deserve better. If there are kids I don't see what being in your present situation is doing them. Good luck and God bless. I will pray for you.
2007-11-03 13:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married ?
My advice is to get out as quickly as possible. I have been in a loveless marriage for fifty years. I Stuck it out and I will now regret it until the day I die
2007-11-03 13:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I almost hate to say this, but join a good church.
Not trying to push religion, but you need a good support network and church is one place to find one.
Don't give up! Depression can be dealt with and money can be earned.
I was in one for 20 years (until my last child reached adulthood), but I had and still have a good support system.
2007-11-03 13:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by deepndswamps 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll be alright. Stay strong. Tomorrow is another day. Make a plan, get help and get ready to get out. You can do it.
Kelly
2007-11-03 13:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with cherie you need to take control and persue what you want.
2007-11-03 13:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are able go find a job.
2007-11-03 17:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please Move ON!!!!!!! Don't be second to anything! Good luck ! Unless you get out of what you are in you will never be happy!!!!
2007-11-03 15:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋