I have tried everything possible. Craigslist, Fling, Singlesnet, True, Match, etc... What is wrong with me? I am not ugly, I'm more than friendly, kind, decent, take good care of myself.
Craigslist has really, really pissed me off, its so fake it should be illegal. Same goes with Fling. I can't understand it, aren't women looking for my type? Or are they just looking for the guys that are meaner, almost abusive cause they like that kind of crap.
Because I work very early mornings, I am not afforded a night life, cept on weekends. Any advice from the populace would be more than helpful. Thank you.
2007-11-03 12:58:06 · 21 answers · asked by lcpllang0331 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to the women at work, they can be a gold mine. and don't throw your nose up at this- go to church, the library, do the things that you like and you will meet potential dates. trust me on the church thing, those christian girls can blow your mind.
there's nothing wrong with being a nice guy, and most women don't want an abusive guy, however----- be decisive and assertive. everyone loves that and funny doesn't hurt. but don't fake it, women see right through that. DO NOT LOOK FOR GIRLS ON THE WEB! oh, and ther are girls who live the same lifestyle that you do, with the early mornings and no nightlife. look around!
-
2007-11-03 13:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by andy c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait, it will eventually happen, just try to go to places and hang out. I was sitting at home and a friend told me someone liked me, we have been together over a year now, yes granted I am a Junior in high school. But I still think it is the same for everyone.
2007-11-03 20:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by derrick t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are...not sure I'd be looking for dates on the internet-that seems so scarey to me. Maybe go to a bookstore, strike up a convo w/another patron, go to coffee, get involved in a sport, join a club of something you like...
2007-11-03 20:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by Laura G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you....you cant think like that. I'm a strong believer in fate. Sounds stupid... but, your probobly not going to find love if your looking for it. Live for yourself and you will find whoever is meant for you along the way. Along with a few others :)
Good luck... hope this helps
2007-11-03 20:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tried dating sites and suchlike. all a load of rubbish. take up a hobby maybe and find someone who likes normal things and is down to earth. thats what i want. i was once obsessed by the fact i was single, now i couldn't care less! i love it and dont think i could be bothered with another missus. until miss right comes along.
2007-11-03 20:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by badandy85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend trying to meet people at school or work..that way they are reliable and plus i just dont trust the internet for romance..its "un-natural" lol ohhh && try going out with your friends to movies or malls or clubs and meeting people that way..its all about networking
2007-11-03 20:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by ~blue bear~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely seems that way much of the time. Women say they want one thing but always go for the opposite. Keep doing what you do.
2007-11-03 20:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by maverick_hp8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know alot about dating but i've been on 29 dates all with different people and i'm only 19. Ithink you should just be your self.
2007-11-03 20:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh shut up! What makes you think women are looking for a man that can't treat them right. That's the stupidest thing I ever heard of. Quit being such a sore loser!
2007-11-03 20:02:38 · answer #9 · answered by ******* 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find dates in real life with people who work the same schedule.
2007-11-03 20:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by shipwreck 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋