It's driving me crazy!! Every where I go there is always guys talking and looking at me up and down. I mean one time after volleyball practice I ran into the hallway to get some water. Well as I bended don to drink some water a group of guys just come over. This one guy comes right behind me and slaps my butt! I could not believe that he didi that! Then when I turned around the guys just started laughing and saying "Man she is all that and a bag of chips." And stuff like that. Then one time in class my teacher told me to right a problem on the board. So I went up and i did the problem. So leaned over to get the earaser when all of a sudden 5 guys fell out of their chairs! I knew they were looking at my boobs when I leaned over. It is getting annoying now. I mean I can't help that my body is very attractive but I just want the guys to stop looking very hard. I liked the attention at first butt now it is just perverted an duiscusting. I need major advice.
2007-11-03 12:23:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean it's not like I am asking for the guys to do what they do. I could care less, but it is getting to the point where I just want to scream! The clothes I wear is the type of clothes that every one wares. Advice
2007-11-03 12:44:47 · update #1
Don't wear overly tight clothing or shirts where your boobs hang out, and they won't be staring at you all the time.
2007-11-03 12:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you don't dress properly. All women like to be attractive, (whick is ok) but there's a HUGE difference in being dressed attractive, elegant, and VULGAR.
YOu can look very sexy and elegant at the same time without showing your butts or boobs. Ask one of your friends if she can help you buy new clothes. If you dress without showing too much, then the things will change!
I like to dress without showing my boobs or something like that, and sometimes I hear: "hey, you look good today!" "are u looking for a boyfriend?" Everybody likes that! YOu should try new fashion clothes without showing too much. Remeber...look good doesn't mean you have to be vulgar ok? Good luck!
2007-11-03 12:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart when your Hot your Hot.* Relax, lighten up, enjoy the attention instead of resenting it.* If you got the looks & attractiveness then just accept it, you cannot control or manage how other people react to you as a natural beauty.* Just be yourself & don't make any changes to yourself by altering your appearance in any way.* Remember a woman is a creature created by God, and made beautiful, so that man may love her.*
2007-11-03 14:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skin attracts attention, the more skin you show the more people will look. No matter what body type you are, sexy, skinny., average and plus size but if you show a lot of skin then you are def going to call peoples attention. Just show a lil bit of skin, dress right...its sexier to leave some mystery.:D
2007-11-03 20:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by jjjj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cover yourself up a little more. The only way to get people to stop looking at your body is to not show so much of it. If they can see it, they will look. and as far as that guy slapping your butt....you know u can report that to the police, right? Technically that's a sexual assault.
2007-11-03 12:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by Bruce Leroy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no advice.
I consider myself pretty, but not like a model or anything. My boobs are pretty small...
No matter what I'm wearing, even gross sweats, guys still comment. I was walking with my boyfriend in the city we live in and someone yelled from their car to congratulate my boyfriend on my ***.
Good luck- you'll need it
2007-11-03 12:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...I personally think that's creepy. I recommend you to stay away from him. A 52 year old man talking to a 20 year old girl like that? That's weird.
2016-04-02 03:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling it is pretty normal for guys to admire a body like yours , but if this is uncomfortable for you , then dress with clothes that dont show too much or that are too tight
2007-11-03 12:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres really nothing you can do about them boys.
maybe you wear low-cut shirts and tight pants....im not saying that you should like come to school with bagy clothes but just make sure youve covered up before you go to school or something.
but other then that i say you should just try to ignore them.
2007-11-03 12:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by kcee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you don't dress/act in a way to provoke that kind of act, there's nothing you can do except perhaps hide under a rock. if you have super powers, use them for good; otherwise, try not let that get to you. also, why don't you report that kind of harassment if possible?
2007-11-03 12:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋