I've been with this man for almost 5yrs.on and off ..we have a 3yr.old son together,and today I found out he has a son with someone else.almost 12 yrs.old and a JR.. I asked him before if he had other children.NO he had said but did not want our son aJR.. and today when $121 was taken out of his check he had to exlpain!!!$33,3?? later on support OWED.. Iam a divorced single mom of 3 other children who had a house and $400.aweek child support when he met me. Iam not sure what I should do?He has a16 yr.old daughter that Iam aware of that he doesnot support or provide for at all ..I was hoping to remarry but I donot want to take on his responsabilities either ..I was a stay at home wife until I met HIM.I do realize the grass isn't greener on the other side.and now Iam starting to question if Iam being punished for leaving my ex-husband who was abusive and a drunk that was not a good father to our 3 children.....Help
2007-11-03 11:56:46 · 7 answers · asked by Susan S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He was supporting his daughter in the beginning of our relationship .Or I thought he was paying for her not sure who he was supporting now. Then he told me his ex-wife dropped his support .
2007-11-03 12:21:27 · update #1
He was supporting his daughter in the beginning of our relationship .Or I thought he was paying for her not sure who he was supporting now. Then he told me his ex-wife dropped his support .My children by ex-husband are 19,17&15.....
2007-11-03 12:27:47 · update #2
First of all you have children of your own to support you have a three year old son together , you found out that he has other children. if you are legally his wife those children become your responsibilitie as well. Are you being punish for your pass mistakes well you have to ask god i dont have the answer to this one.
best of luck
2007-11-03 12:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see here - you KNEW the man had a daughter that he doesn't support, but not about the son. Sounds like you were asking for trouble by dating a deadbeat in hte first place. If he doesn't take care of his own children, what makes you think he's going to take care of you?
I'd get out now.
2007-11-03 19:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it sounds like you have gone from one bad situation to another. I'm sure you made the best choice possible at the time, that is what we do, the best we can with what we know. Now you have new information to make another choice and I believe you will make the right one this time. We tend to make many mistakes till we get it right and i think you are ready to get it right. Move on and stop beating yourself up.
2007-11-03 19:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by April First 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another Jerry Springer episode here.
You can't just leave this guy as he is the father of your son. You are stuck with him forever, feckless liar or not. Don't expect miracles - he is the irresponsible father of multiple children with multiple mothers.
Focus on taking care of your 4 children. And one more thing - tubal ligation!
2007-11-03 19:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by banana6464 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-11-03 22:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know life isnt supposed to be that hard. You are where you want to be.
2007-11-03 19:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by Tbenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-11-03 20:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by that judi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋