25 year old girl (teacher) having affair with 13 year old boy (student)? what do you think?

Question

It is in the news. I am just a 19 year old boy. but i was shocked to hear they escaped. but they both relly loved each other and had sex. the 25 year old girl (teacher) was arrested in mexico? Why? its not like shes a predator, when its only older men, right? and he loved her too, why is it all broken up and not good? do you think they would have been good for each other???

Answer 1

Nope, your not seeing it from the point of view of the female, hence your not actually being very compassniate for the situaiton. THERE ISN'T A 13 YEAR OLD ALIVE WHO KNOWS "HOW" TO LOVE!!!!!! It doesn't work that way, that aside it shows a lack of emotional attunement on the side of the female, because she isn't exactly being very real with the situation. I don't expect you to really understand this becuase you might still be in that naive notion that love conqurs all. That aside the ability of a 13 and 25 year old to understand each other is bs. I'd say the same if the sexes were reversed it doesn't matter. Its about what TIME IN THEIR LIFE their in. And she's being neglectful of his life, really. In ways most people will not realize because they don't see how damaging sex can be to the ego. All that aside the boy is being forced into a grown-up situation before he knows what the heck he's doing it for. Besides that how well do you think a 13 year old would be at not being manuplated? Really how easy do you think it would be for a 25 year old to control a relatinoship with a 13 year old? Really how much "life experience" can a 13 year old bring? Hence the fact she did it out of insecurities not love, she couldn't of. Its a matter of control, becuase theres no being controlled by a 13 year old. Which is another thing you'd have to realize about love, its only as moral as the people who are in the relationship. Do you honestly think that abusive relationship happen becuase they don't love each other? LOL!!!!! Much you need to learn....

Answer 2

Set the an prolonged time at sixteen and 25 and make the instructor a guy and the student a woman and in line with danger i might have some sympathy. yet a 25-300 and sixty 5 days-previous lady and a 13-300 and sixty 5 days-previous little boy? adult men are LITTLE BOYS untill they attain atleast twenty. women individuals are young women human beings at sixteen... boys are... nonetheless little boys. that's why age gaps are so difficulty-loose between companions. yet 13 and 25 is only disgusting.