Family & Relationships - 3 November 2007

I just recently moved out on about a year ago. I love everything about being on my own. The freedom, the fun, the being lazy. I met this girl and we have so much in common that we could almost be twins. We went on our first date last night, and I had a great time. But the whole day all I kept thinking about was, "Am I ready to settle down?" Am I ready to give this all up? Someday I know I want to find someone and have a family, but if I met this girl that I have so much in common with, shouldn't I be thinking, "Man I can't wait to go out tonight with her" but all I could think about is "Man I'm not sure I'm ready". Is 29 years old to young to start thinking about settling, or am I slowly settling into the life of bachelorhood. I would like to keep seeing this girl but I think she is already thinking of us being more. I'm not sure I'm ready for that. Anyone else out there not sure they are ready to settle?

2007-11-03 04:53:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy i like really wants to play badminton with me. is badminton in any way a flirty game? and how can i attract him any tips? should i let him win??? should i avoid the game altogether coz i get sweaty?

2007-11-03 04:52:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when we go in the car, she asks what do the clouds look like to you

2007-11-03 04:52:06 · 15 answers · asked by dazza 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my boyfriend started dating 3 weeks after he broke up with his ex girlfriend. We have been together 2 months. I know it seems childish but considering him and his ex are not friends, I would like him to remove their photos from public view (facebook and myspace) Pictures of her laying on him and on his lap are just uneccessary now that me and him are together. Am I overreacting? What bothers me is ive seen him look at them so he clearly knows their still there

2007-11-03 04:51:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-03 04:49:48 · 11 answers · asked by mad&sad 2 in Singles & Dating

This is the 3rd wedding for the both of us and I want to ask his first ex wife whom is my very dear and only friend since moving here 3 yrs ago, to stand up for me at our wedding. We all get along including the kids. Is this weird?

2007-11-03 04:49:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

l like 2 boys in my best friends art class, well they both like me and today i was in the office i saw one and i was talking to him (not knowing he liked me) and in art he was like she so hott! well he likes me and hes really cutee! and the other guy calls me all the time after school and i like him too and hes really cutee too! how do i choose?

2007-11-03 04:47:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is a note i wrote last night to give to my crush when i see him..his friend told me that he'd talk to him but ima give him this note too i unno if that's too much but here it is..

Charles (his name)

yesterday you seemdp retty annoyed by me, and i felt bad =( because i really like you and ifyou want me to leave you alone, then i will because i don't wanna keep pissing you off. you don;t have to talk to me, just write me back because maybe you'd actually say something for me to undersand. no offense, it's just i dont' understand what you mean at times because you don't give me answers. you're a really quiet person and i think that's why i like you..and youre cute too.. but i do like you, char-char and if you want me to leave you alone then i will...

- myname (heart)

2007-11-03 04:46:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 04:46:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Assuming you are a non-virgin, and you met a guy. He said he's a virgin. Would you tell him that you're not. Or would you lie to make him not worry about it?

2007-11-03 04:45:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and i asked him what he things of me, he txt back and said he cant now for certain reasons. also he said he hopes it doesnt stop us from being friends for now. what does he mean?

2007-11-03 04:44:07 · 15 answers · asked by aida 2 in Singles & Dating

So my boyfriend called me last night at like 2 am and he told me he heard some rumors about me that he wanted to talk about. I didn't know what anyone could say about me, him and I live 10 hours apart, I've graduated from high school, and no one that I talk to now has any connection to him.
So anyways, his best friend told him that he heard from his girlfriend that someone told her (ok ok I know drama) that I had cheated on my boyfriend before, like about half a year ago (we've been dating on and off for 2 years) and that now I'm sleeping around with guys up here at college.
None of this is true! I got really upset and I asked him who his friend's girlfriend heard it from, because I don't really know that girl either. And he said some girl with the last name Miller? I flipped out because it's one of my former friends who towards the end of the year my senior year just stopped talking to me. My boyfriend believes me, but I don't know what to do about the former friend.

2007-11-03 04:43:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 35 yrs old.Seven years back I was married.It was love marriage.Now I have 6 yrs old son.
Two years back I connected internet to my home.My wife is a home maker,she started playing game online and then she started chating with boys.After fews months she said,I don't like having sex with you and we had a fight.
Now we live in the same house in separate rooms.we don't have sex.She talk over the phone for hours together with all her boy friends.Even sometime she hangsout with them.
I feel very lonely.I don't want my marriage to break and I also don't want my son to suffer because of separation.So I am just tolerating all these things.But sometime I lose my temper and shout her.
Nowaday she doesn't do house work.I have kept maid for cooking and to do all the top works also.
I am little busy with my work.I have my old aged parents in my village ,twice a month I visit them.
Please advice me how to handle this situvation.
Thanks.

2007-11-03 04:42:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I look older than my age and I'm only 13. I look like I should be like 15 or 16.I think it's because I'm tall for my age. on Fridays and Saterdays I always go to IHOP with my dad just for fun and a guy who works there always flirts with me and he's like 18-19! He's really cute but it's kind of creepy! Like I said i look older for my age and he probably thinks I'm like 16! What should I do?? I dont want to stop going there but I dont what this guy to ask me out!

2007-11-03 04:41:42 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay my brother is in pee wee football and one of the assistant coaches who is in his earlier 20s and I am 19 so its ok anyways i really dont know him but when he sees my brother he tells him hi. so i was driving down the street and i saw him driving the opposite way and he turned onto the same street and he kept staring at me through the mirror on the side of the car and i am wondering does he like me because he kept staring at me and then he turned on another street and he looked back to see if i would follow him but i had to go the other way to get to where i am going. So does he like me? Last year he had a girlfriend and I don't know if he is with her now. By the way he is cute.

2007-11-03 04:40:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my daughter has been living with my aunt since birth and i want her now to come and live with me and her siblings i just got my son with me and now i want my daughter. my aunt has raised her since birth. i really appreciate her and my mother for raising them while i had the other two. i really appreciate it!!! but im older now and i realize that my kids need to be with their moms. i was a baby having a baby didn't have a clue about what i was gonna handle myself and also my grandmother raised me and i got to thinking about how i was feeling when i was not with my mom and how much i felt like i needed her. i asked my aunt about my daughter coming to live with me and she asked me have i lost my mind. what should i do? i want my daughter with me like everybody else

2007-11-03 04:39:51 · 9 answers · asked by ms nikki 1 in Family

Is there anything better then being truly in love?

2007-11-03 04:36:17 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

About 2 weeks ago i started talking to this girl in my class.She runs cross country and is a competition cheerleader yet seems to be very shy.Two mondays ago I "accidentilly" bumped into her and started small talk.I have been trying to do the same thing for the past two weeks.When I talk to her she doesnt seem to be very responsive but she does look me in the eyes whenever i talk to her.I have noticed that she has quite a few girl friends but have not seen any friends of the opposite sex.In fact when i talk to her she barely seems to be interested except for looking me in the eyes.I only see her two times a day if im lucky other than in class.When i see her with one of he friends, i try to talk to her but she seems to be really quite.When we are in class we dont sit near each other so we dont talk at all.I am also somewhat loud in class and she is quiet so i wonder if she is intimidated.Should I ask for a sn or # so we could hang out and get to know 1another in a group setting or 1on1

2007-11-03 04:32:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like to understand more about women, What do women like about a man : Naked or not & More. Thanks.

2007-11-03 04:30:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its human nature to be protective right? i married a kind and calm man that never abuses me, and always loves me. i love him more than ever. apparently my sister can say the same. i have stated sooo many times that he's my husband and if she does anything that happens to take him away, its her head. heh, take away the serious attitude, im really insecure because my sister spends almost as much time with him as i do. at first i was ok with it, he's her new brother in law, might as well get to know one another. but i swear!! when we sleep in our bed, half the time i wake up and she's cuddling right beside him. im like WTH can't you get someone else? my husband doesn't really mind her, she doesn't really seem to bother him in anyway. but i feel like she's getting too close to MY husband and she had the NERVE to ask for a "friendly family hug" then she kisses him quickly right after saying "cmon its just a tiny kiss". im thinking about moving and just not telling her where we are. well?

2007-11-03 04:30:11 · 14 answers · asked by Avatar 1 in Family

Ok. Every time I see a guy ask the question "Does she like me" or "how do I ask her out" is it really that hard to ask a girl out..and if she says no..get over it and move on???? Geez.

2007-11-03 04:29:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my personalaty is sex cuteness ,nice gift none that is fat so plz anaser me AND NO I'm NOT GOING out look at my avatar

2007-11-03 04:29:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we had it everywhere we even video taped us haveing sex! We had it on the plane in the park at our pool in our kitchen, my moms house even in my moms bed and Canadas Wonder Land! Is that to much?

2007-11-03 04:23:29 · 16 answers · asked by Isabell 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister and daughter also get social security checks, my sister has not worked for the 13 years that they have been married because they had plenty of money to live off of, now they are getting a divorce. He is kicking her to the curb with no where to go...can he do this? What can my sister do?

2007-11-03 04:23:28 · 8 answers · asked by darci_bean 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It look like you don't trust them etc... I don't want to lend it because I think that he is incapable of paying it back and it will only lead to problems... also if you are in a group of people and you lend one person money the others often will also ask to borrow money because they think they can take advantage... how do you justify lending money to one person but not another without creating conflicts.. suppose there are 4 people and I lend one of them £20 ( and I am not sure I will even get it back so I view it as a gift for now) then the others each ask for £20 - that would be £100 potentially down the drain - but if I say no it looks like I favour 1 person over the others - what to do in such a situation ?

2007-11-03 04:23:19 · 12 answers · asked by Beast from the East 4 in Friends

When I think of mine I will post! This will take some thinkin---!

2007-11-03 04:22:31 · 19 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-03 04:19:52 · 12 answers · asked by QT ! 1 in Singles & Dating

I think that staying pure until marriage is a great idea, and I really WANT to stay pure until marriage. The only problem is, I don't know how to ask my parents for a purity ring. I am 13 years old, and my family is catholic. I love the Jonas Brothers, and this is where I found out about purity (promise) rings. No, I'm not just wanting to get one because they have them. I just think they are setting a good example for kids and teens and I want to follow that example. I really don't know what to say to my parents, because I already know just about everything about "The birds and the bees," but I don't know if my PARENTS know that I know everything. I think they know I know some things, but not all of it. So, I don't know what they would think. Somebody please help me by telling me what to say to them or how to bring this up!
Thanks!

2007-11-03 04:12:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've always heard that women think that a man that is raising children on his own is kinda attractive. Is this true?

2007-11-03 04:08:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am dating a man who has been separated from his wife for about 6 weeks, is this still adultery and could it be used by the wife to file for divorce.

2007-11-03 04:06:03 · 28 answers · asked by mollygirl20002000 2 in Marriage & Divorce