Me and my boyfriend started dating 3 weeks after he broke up with his ex girlfriend. We have been together 2 months. I know it seems childish but considering him and his ex are not friends, I would like him to remove their photos from public view (facebook and myspace) Pictures of her laying on him and on his lap are just uneccessary now that me and him are together. Am I overreacting? What bothers me is ive seen him look at them so he clearly knows their still there
2007-11-03 04:51:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah, iwould also want for him to remove all the public pics where they are lovey dovey...
2007-11-03 04:54:56 · answer #1 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still has the pictures, he's still in the relationship. Are you sure you still want to keep seeing a man who is hung up on another girl? It is disrespectful of him to show he is still living in the past, but I don't think you have the right to ask him to remove them. You might ask, if the relationship is over why does he still have pictures of them together. Give him an opportunity to offer to remove them. If he does not, you might want to consider putting a little space between the two of you. It seems like you are the rebound girl and being used to get over the original girl. If she should decide to come back, he'll take her back. That's not fair to you.
2007-11-03 04:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not over between them in his heart. and until its over there will never be enough room for another. If you like check out the movie Diary of a mad black woman by Tyler Perry really pay attention to it and you will understand what I mean. I cry every time i watch it cause thats what happened in my last relationship i was in it for 11 years thinking he loved me but he never really did until just last summer when i had the chance to clear him of my heart. Now I have found someone who is true to his heart. No its not childish you have your eyes open but take a good look at the picture and how he is with you. Hold your ground and if he won't get rid of them then get rid of him. He has no more room in his heart. stay strong in what you believe in and dont question yourself. You will end up regretting it in the long run.
2007-11-03 06:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by rmdezanett32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would'nt label it as say overreacting but a matter of respect. What you are asking for is perfectlly undestandable and reasonable. Use this as a test . If he questions or " bucks " your request any any way - well that will tell you the type of man your dealing with and go from there.
2007-11-03 04:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him about it. She will always be a part of who he is. Help him make new memories and get pictures with the two of you. Instead of complaining about the distractions, be the distraction. Take his mind completely off of her. Make your relationship with him meaningful to him.
Ask him to remove the pictures. Having them in am old photo album would be a good compromise.
2007-11-03 05:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend I am sorry to say does not care about you the way you care about him. First you are the girl who caught him on the rebound, that's never a great way to start a relationship. Secondly those photos regardless of what he tries to feed you are a clear indicator of his frame of mind. Don't be naive, move on . He needs time to work things out by himself.
2007-11-03 07:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by chillin in t.o. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be a disrespect, maybe he just doesn't want to mess with the site. I myself would also want it removed. Make sure there is nothing else going on between the two of them.
2007-11-03 04:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by blacklightn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not overeacting... especially since there no longer friends...however you dont want to come across as crazy/jealous either. i am sorry to say that he probably isnt over it... i mean he was only single for 3 weeks before you got involved, not a lot of time at all. it is disrespectful to you but it doesnt seem that hes ready yet.
2007-11-03 04:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ure not overreacting. posting those pics for public view means that he wants them to be seen..by his ex and others. If thats his past and ure his present...why memorialize a relationship that you ended?
2007-11-03 04:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd question him altogether, seriously. I don't like the system of moving from woman to woman. Did they have sex? Fat chance they didn't. Are you going to have it with him? Fat chance you won't.
Are you going to be the next girl in the pictures for his future chick after you?
Find yourself a real, down to earth man, one that is honestly marriage material.
2007-11-03 04:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just show him this. If he takes it personal forget about him, because they are just pics. He doesnt have to delete them but you would like a more recent pic. Would you do the same for him?
2007-11-03 04:58:08 · answer #11 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋