Family & Relationships - 3 November 2007

i feel so betrayed still. and its been a year i never seen our marriage ending even though out of the blue one day he said to me i dont want to be married anymore.i stated we just had a baby.told me that he really was never planned and we never talked about having kids.right there i knew something else was going on. i had a terrible miscarriage before we had our son and it took me a while to try to start thinking about having kids but none the less i did it and i had a beautiful baby boy. wasnt the easiest pregnacy but i kept positive we were so happy my husband and i. dont get me wrong our marriage has had its ups and downs and i stood by him through thick and thin and then one day he decides to end our marriage never gave it a second thought.i knew there was someone else but he denied it. i found out 3 months after that it was a co worker she had the nerve to send me a gift to my house when my son was born. she denied it too. just befriended a man that had nowhere to go i feel like such a ***. made me out to be the bad person. the topper is she has 2 kids and my heart broke when i caught him at her house with her and her kids while i was left alone for months with my child. i just cant understand how people can be so heartless

2007-11-03 05:34:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am used to dating guys that are at least 6ft tall and well I feel like this huge giant with size 9 feet...oh gosh my feet may be the same size but hes like the nicest gentleman ever!!!

2007-11-03 05:30:04 · 52 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 05:28:21 · 25 answers · asked by lab_rat 3 in Singles & Dating

I was married for 22 years and my husband wasnt happy but didnt have the guts to tell me. He went to find himself but found someone else, but wants to stay in contact with me and see me every now and then. He has not said he doesnt love me. I am just so confused and dont know how to forget him or get him out of my head. what would you do

2007-11-03 05:25:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Homecoming tonight...freaking out because I'm a terrible dancer.

2007-11-03 05:23:29 · 12 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is having an affair and wants me out without giving me anything.He wants a divorce on the grounds of incompatibility.

2007-11-03 05:23:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

need know now

2007-11-03 05:21:35 · 5 answers · asked by cats12500910 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-03 05:19:34 · 19 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

ANyways I am friends with this girl from my school, she is beeautiful and really kind also fun to be around. I like her alot and i think she likes me but im not sure. I lnow it is far ahead but our school gets really caught up with whos dancing with who months before the christmas dance. So i asked her and she said definitely but i also know she doesnt like to reject people unless she hates them and figures one dance can't hurt. ANyways shes kind to me and we flirt alot and she does bump me in the hallways and stuff. she always makes eye contact and seemed excited when i asked her to the dance. She smiles when she sees me but i need confirmation. Does this girl like me back?

2007-11-03 05:09:36 · 6 answers · asked by HawaiiBoy47 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you make a guy who doesn't know if he likes you like you? I told him that I liked him, but he doesn't know how he feels.... any suggestions?

2007-11-03 05:07:39 · 2 answers · asked by darkstar 2 in Singles & Dating

My wedding is set for fall 08...me and my fiance dont live together, we have our seperate places, but what we want to know is if for christmas this year should we start asking for things we will need when we move in together next year??

And if so, what kind of things???

2007-11-03 05:07:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I went to a party on halloween and say this guy.... Idk he wasnt hottt i just thought he was cute in a cute way... lol if you get what i mean... anyway... his ex gf (who is SORTA my friend but not really) was there also and they were talking but idk it didnt really seem like anything was going on bw them... so after ward i told abunch of people that he was so cute bc i want the word to get out....

GUYS:
is that weird for the girl to be that forward about her feelings... I mean i BARLEY even talking to him all night.....and one of my other friends who went to prom with him last year said he was border line shy....

ALSO:
Is that weird to be pursueing him when i think his ex might still have SOME feelings for him (i dont think he really likes her that much tho)

2007-11-03 05:06:16 · 1 answers · asked by Mia CS 2 in Singles & Dating

I flirt with him and I really like him and my friends say that he flirts with me but I don`t know? In gym I went to turn around to catch the ball and he jumped right infront of me an caught it then looked at me and smiled. Whenever we pass eachother in the hallway we look at eachother and smile. I love his smile. hat should I do?

2007-11-03 05:06:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k so the same guy in mi other questions was dumped bi his gf and now hes available. hes not 1 of those super popular guys who all da girls swarm around. hes just a cute, nice, sweet, funny, soccer-playing guy who has a lot of friends. Hes like mi best guy friend but i want to be more then friends. i think he tries 2 flirt w/ me, & last night, i went 2 a school dance w/ him- just as friends. And i had to get mi best friend 2 do dat 4 me!! I try 2 flirt w/ him a lot, but im scared he wont like me back, although im pretty sure he does. idk how 2 tell him-i dont even know if he likes me 2. help! what should i do?? =(

2007-11-03 05:05:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so this is gonna be really long and i apalagize ahead of time but please read all of it,i was dating this guy for awhile and i wanted to break up with him so i did because i liked this other guy more,but when i broke up with i just told him that i wasnt ready for a serious relationship(which is true,just because i like the other guy doest mean that i want to start something with him),so i was seeking advice from one of my best friends before i did this and told her the whole truth, and i also told her not to tell my ex about the other guy because i didnt want to hurt him,and then i thought that me and my ex were ok, you know?, but then when i walked into lunch one day my friend who i confided in the day before told me that she told my ex the whole truth because it was eating her up inside and she felt so guilty about it,do you think this was right for her to do?

2007-11-03 05:03:27 · 10 answers · asked by courtney 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy i know in my hobby class is going through a bad phase in personal life. He is 28, looks quite settled, intelligent, well informed & read. Most of the times he is quite funny and mostly he jokes upon himself. He isn't flirting with anyone though.

Does he have low self esteem? Confidence issues or trying to grab attention?

2007-11-03 05:02:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy i like and we have hooked up a few times and he is telling all his friends everything we have done.. i mean i have nearly nobody and random people are asking me if something is true because they heard it from one of his friends. i am kind of pissed and we arent even going out. should i like stop hanging out with him?

2007-11-03 05:01:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now please don't quote 'When Harry met Sally'! I'm talking about a man and a woman who keep in contact over a long period of time,say months or years...even though they don't live in the same area. They may not be in contact very often but the friendship still continues. I've heard it said that a woman can have a man as a friend only but a man always has a 'soft spot', I mean feelings of attraction for a woman he keeps in contact with. Is this true? Would love in particular to hear from the men on this one! Also, if a guy has actually kissed this girl at some stage and keeps in touch with her, isn't it more likely that he holds some desire for her beyone a brother-sister type of feeling? By the way, I'm talking about 2 single people.

2007-11-03 05:01:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad has nothing at his house. He has no TV and no yard(its raining anyway.) And no computer. I'm waiting for him to come pick me up. And my little brother, my older sister is going over her boyfrineds house so she isnt coming.

What can i do to keep me from going INSANE at his house? He has a DVD player. So we are bringing some movies. But i can't watch movies for a hole day and night.

PLease help me!

2007-11-03 05:00:42 · 6 answers · asked by pugglelover1207 3 in Family

Now please don't quote 'When Harry met Sally'! I'm talking about a man and a woman who keep in contact over a long period of time,say months or years...even though they don't live in the same area. They may not be in contact very often but the friendship still continues. I've heard it said that a woman can have a man as a friend only but a man always has a 'soft spot', I mean feelings of attraction for a woman he keeps in contact with. Is this true? Would love in particular to hear from the men on this one! Also, if a guy has actually kissed this girl at some stage and keeps in touch with her, isn't it more likely that he holds some desire for her beyond a brother-sister type of feeling? By the way, I'm talking about two single people.

2007-11-03 04:59:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well some girl who is always dissing me and like she thinks she is the top. like she call me a hypocrite and a snob but she calls other people ugly even her own friends which means she a big hypocrite and is concieted which could pass for a snob. so i finally finally told her all the things i felt like saying she cried

mind u guys i am not a jerk but it did feel good

letting it all out lol coz she like guys that dont like her and uses guys that do for her amuzement and leads em on and keep on textin em.
she is taking her ex (god bless his soul) to the prom not cuz she likes him but coz she got no one else and her ex thinks all of a sudden she likes him again.
she tells u this and that just to get u to do stuff for her.
she talks bad about other people to u . Hey i thought mayb they dint get along. then i realised she talked bad about me to other people.

it feels good putting a worthless concieted biatch in her place .
dont it

2007-11-03 04:58:07 · 3 answers · asked by charity A 1 in Singles & Dating

If some one complains about the amount of money there mate makes people call them a gold digger. LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING money makes the world go round and it pays the bills. Its not everything BUT ITS VERY VERY VERY INPORTANT. Try to eat without it, try to get somewhere to stay without it, try to goto college with out it, try to catch the bus or move a car or get a car without it. STOP BEING STUPID because money is inportant. I want to have a decent life try that without money. ALL yall stupid people that say people who talk about money is a gold digger, you must not have a job and pay TAXES so i say to you get off ya fat broke as*ses and get a job because im tired of taking care of you. I work pay taxes and pay for your kids free lucches while you sit on ya *** and get everything handed to you!!! SO if im a gold digger so be it rather have nice things than be stupid like you. NOW GO DIG THAT!!!

2007-11-03 04:57:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now pleawe don't quote 'When Harry met Sally'! I'm talking about a man and a woman who keep in contact over a long period of time,say months or years...even though they don't live in the same area. They may not be in contact very often but the friendship still continues. I've heard it said that a woman can have a man as a friend only but a man always has a 'soft spot', I mean feelings of attraction for a woman he keeps in contact with. Is this true? Would love in particular to hear from the men on this one! Also, if a guy has actually kissed this girl at some stage and keeps in touch with her, isn't it more likely that he holds some desire for her beyone a brother-sister type of feeling?

2007-11-03 04:57:22 · 21 answers · asked by person 1 in Singles & Dating

i really really like this girl and i thik she likes me too....i need help...the thing is that the last time i tried asking somebody out..it was a disaster, how exactly do you ask a girl out.....i know i sound pathetic but..hey....please help....im 16 if tht helps!

2007-11-03 04:56:57 · 13 answers · asked by teij 2 in Singles & Dating

and i asked him what he thought of me, he said he cant now for a certain reason, he hopes we will still be friends for now , reason is he just broke up with his GF.

2007-11-03 04:56:55 · 11 answers · asked by aida 2 in Singles & Dating

haha i think about it and im happy, each member of my family has an odd intrest in music

me - im a Dashboard Confessional guy (stolen)
my wife - Good Charlotte (danc floor anthem)
my little girl(3 years) - Rascal flatts (life is a highway)

what do you think? whats your family like? what do they listen to?

2007-11-03 04:56:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay well theres this guy who um i think likes me, and idk i told him i like him and last night my firnd said that was all depressed cuz he thought i didnt like him or somethng like that, and now online he was well then i guess ill just go since ur so mad at me, and i didnt say anything mean to him ever, and like i told him over and over that i wasnt mad, and then he just sighned off =[ i really dont understand wut i should tell him to make him think im not mad at him CUZ IM NOT i just feel rly bad and idk wut to do ppllllzzzz help me!

2007-11-03 04:55:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think any one is prefect and if so why?

2007-11-03 04:54:12 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats the best flirty thing a girl can do that lets you know she's really into you?! Also makes you into her?!

2007-11-03 04:54:08 · 16 answers · asked by AMAN DUHH 3 in Singles & Dating

I think I'm too social. When I meet someone, I quickly think of him/her as a friend...On Answers, I e-mail my contacts, a lot, and I think I'm starting to be annoying!

2007-11-03 04:53:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends